Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 19:02     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, you have no right to say anything. They are both adults and it doesn’t concern you.


When au pair pair dumps teach and teach takes it on the kid, then can I say something?


Right? I love how people us the “they’re both adults” reasoning, as I& these relationships happen in a vacuum.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 19:00     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Did OP (as in original poster, since there is one person who threw a major wrench into the thread) actually say the teacher is the gym teacher and the au pair is Brazilian? And is the teacher a current teacher of OP's child and is the au pair OP's au pair?



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Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 18:43     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:Should I say anything about this? I know him personally as 3 of my kids have already had him as a teacher. He is a very nice man but just feels weird to me. He is also nearly 40, divorced, and she is 22.


She's told him exactly what you are really like and they are laughing all the way to bed. It is none of your business.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 12:50     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, you have no right to say anything. They are both adults and it doesn’t concern you.


When au pair pair dumps teach and teach takes it on the kid, then can I say something?



You really think a grown man is going to take it out on the child because the child’s babysitter dumped him?


Of course. Men are babies.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 12:46     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:He’s the gym teacher. Haha very fit and all that. Idk his intentions but she’s definitely in love. I worked with the teacher on a club before and I know he’s professional but I think my Brazilian au pair is most going to fall in love cause I know he takes her on nice dates


He's dating a 22 yo Brazilian Au Pair, and you don't know what his intentions are? I've got a pretty decent idea. This isn't to say it might not blossom into something more, but for now . . .

And there's nothing wrong with that! Butt out, OP.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 12:29     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
OP, I would just MYOB. You may cause even more drama by trying to intervene.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 12:28     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:This is a conflict of interest if the teacher is actively teaching your students. I would say hhhhh no! Bring it up to the agency, have a meeting, and rematch that au pair! What if he comes over to the house spend time there, the au pair talks about him a bunch to the kids, etc. and then the boundary of teacher/student is blurred. One he's not a teacher then who cares. Until then, she's gotta go or break it off.


There’s no conflict of interest. You are aware that teachers are allowed to teach their own children, and that isn’t considered a conflict of interest, yes?
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 12:26     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It’s always weird to me when a teacher dates a very young woman, makes me question why the spend their days with children. Awkward that it’s your au pair, but I wouldn’t want to interfere in her decisions, that part can be managed and it probably won’t last.


Oh please, there's no comparison between a 22 year old and elementary school children. Jesus.


Some people don’t care about age. Others seek out an age difference. When I was 21, I was with someone who was 31. Now I’m 36 and my partner is 61.

It’s not your business which it is. It’s not your business to say anything to the AP, teacher, or school.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 10:07     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, you have no right to say anything. They are both adults and it doesn’t concern you.


When au pair pair dumps teach and teach takes it on the kid, then can I say something?


Say something to whom? You aren't making any sense.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 10:04     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:Should I say anything about this? I know him personally as 3 of my kids have already had him as a teacher. He is a very nice man but just feels weird to me. He is also nearly 40, divorced, and she is 22.


Why would you say anything? How is it your business?
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 10:00     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:It’s always weird to me when a teacher dates a very young woman, makes me question why the spend their days with children. Awkward that it’s your au pair, but I wouldn’t want to interfere in her decisions, that part can be managed and it probably won’t last.


Oh please, there's no comparison between a 22 year old and elementary school children. Jesus.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 09:56     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:Lady, just be glad it is the teacher and not your DH giving it to the au pair


+1. I follow the Ali Wong philosophy on au pairs. Never ever ever.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 09:52     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Lady, just be glad it is the teacher and not your DH giving it to the au pair
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 09:51     Subject: Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Good for him
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 09:51     Subject: Re:Au Pair dating my son's teacher
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, you have no right to say anything. They are both adults and it doesn’t concern you.


When au pair pair dumps teach and teach takes it on the kid, then can I say something?


That’s not a thing.

Grow up.