Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 18:16     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
If he’s 34, are you near his age? Absolutely don’t settle for this.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 18:14     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He’s a loser. Is that the kind of parent you’d want for your kids? Sounds like you are making excuses for him.


The convictions themselves are not the issue. The issue is: he thinks laws do not apply to him.

The fact that he got caught not once, but 3 times, should tell you: he chose to commit way more than 3 offenses.


THIS.

Cut him loose, OP. You deserve better.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 18:09     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
DUIs can be forgiven if they’ve demonstrated they aren’t alcoholics and responsibly drink now. Drug offenses need more context. And I’d be worried about “side hustles” - has he had a full-time job? And if so, for how long?
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 18:02     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Pass… Plenty of fish in the sea.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 17:36     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
The drug offenses would be the dealbreaker for me.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 17:26     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:This would not be okay with me. You don’t mr room then these things happened - that’s a crucial piece of information.
“Side hustles”…all sounds sketchy.



Definitely. He does not sound stable, OP. No thanks.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 17:22     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
This would not be okay with me. You don’t mr room then these things happened - that’s a crucial piece of information.
“Side hustles”…all sounds sketchy.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 17:18     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Hard pass. NO
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 17:11     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
This guy is the wrong type of criminal.

Don’t get it twisted, women love real gangster dudes.
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:55     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
To be honest OP, it’s your statement that you’d be the breadwinner “for now” that gives me pause. Not about money even, but it sounds like you are being hustled. I definitely avoid guys who talk and live in a space of “I am about to make it big.”
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:36     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH has a couple of charges for impersonating a postal carrier and, unrelated to those incidents (misunderstandings), unauthorized use of beekeeping equipment, honey and honey by-products. Still, even months after these events, people judge him as less than. It is not fair and indicative of a larger problem in "your" society.


I’m intrigued.


Who wouldn’t be? I need to hear about the postal carrier one


And I want to hear about the guy making a buck by selling watered down honey as honey!

Mail fraud is another story…


Your attention please: impersonating a postal carrier is not "mail fraud." And ask yourself this, how could anyone have mistaken him for a bonafide postal carrier when he was clearly wearing a poly cotton beekeeper's veil-and-round-hat combo? Makes no sense, but that's "justice."


More please, honey thief’s wife!
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:31     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH has a couple of charges for impersonating a postal carrier and, unrelated to those incidents (misunderstandings), unauthorized use of beekeeping equipment, honey and honey by-products. Still, even months after these events, people judge him as less than. It is not fair and indicative of a larger problem in "your" society.


I’m intrigued.


Who wouldn’t be? I need to hear about the postal carrier one


And I want to hear about the guy making a buck by selling watered down honey as honey!

Mail fraud is another story…


Your attention please: impersonating a postal carrier is not "mail fraud." And ask yourself this, how could anyone have mistaken him for a bonafide postal carrier when he was clearly wearing a poly cotton beekeeper's veil-and-round-hat combo? Makes no sense, but that's "justice."
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:11     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH has a couple of charges for impersonating a postal carrier and, unrelated to those incidents (misunderstandings), unauthorized use of beekeeping equipment, honey and honey by-products. Still, even months after these events, people judge him as less than. It is not fair and indicative of a larger problem in "your" society.


I’m intrigued.


Who wouldn’t be? I need to hear about the postal carrier one


And I want to hear about the guy making a buck by selling watered down honey as honey!

Mail fraud is another story…
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:10     Subject: Criminal record = dealbreaker?
No stable job or actual skills, No thanks.

Side hustles like what?
Anonymous
Post 12/31/2021 16:07     Subject: Re:Criminal record = dealbreaker?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH has a couple of charges for impersonating a postal carrier and, unrelated to those incidents (misunderstandings), unauthorized use of beekeeping equipment, honey and honey by-products. Still, even months after these events, people judge him as less than. It is not fair and indicative of a larger problem in "your" society.


I’m intrigued.


Who wouldn’t be? I need to hear about the postal carrier one