NCS here. How do you soothe baby overnight when you are cosleeping? If the answer is “nursing,” then you don’t have a nanny problem, you just didn’t have a realistic sense of how big a transition you were asking for. You are essentially changing 5 major things at once:
1) Caregiver
2) Sleep location (bed vs crib)
3) Sleep position (on side nursing vs. flat on back per SIDS guidelines)
4) Soothing method (suckling vs. rocking/patting etc.)
5) Overnight feeding schedule
You will need to either reduce some of these transitions or expect it to be rough.