Anonymous wrote:My current 11th grader got dragged as a 9th grader to an older sibling's tours (but I did tell him that's when his tours started!).
We would have toured schools in 10th grade but everything was closed. We did go to one school 2 hours away during spring break because he was interested. They were only doing tours for 11th or 12th graders then.
So this Fall, we prioritized going to the Open Houses of our state schools. We went to 6 of them and it was great to see how each school had something really good. I am glad we got those tours of the state schools and we don't plan to do anymore in the spring so he can focus on his school activities and AP tests. I do remember with my older kid that the Open Houses in the spring were limited to admitted students only. This summer we plan to do some road trips for out-of-state options. I've been looking at fly-in programs that he can qualify for as a URM.
We did a couple open houses this Fall too for my junior and it was much more useful than a basic tour. She had a firm academic interest and at the open houses was able to see special facilities related to that and talk with faculty of that program. Places where she did a regular tour she came away feeling like she wasn't sure what they offered in that program. I explained that's what the website is for or she could email faculty to answer her Qs but still it didn't not give as positive an impression from the visit.