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Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

I have seen many UMC women have longer nails, but they generally dont work in DC and are in more fashion forward fields like entertainment, PR, fashion etc and live in places like New York or Los Angeles. But yeah, youre not gonna find many feds with long acrylics

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Nyc finance, sales, crypto, media umc millennial and gen z women have longer nails.

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Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

I have seen many UMC women have longer nails, but they generally dont work in DC and are in more fashion forward fields like entertainment, PR, fashion etc and live in places like New York or Los Angeles. But yeah, youre not gonna find many feds with long acrylics

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Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

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Anonymous wrote:Like a WASP.

You cannot look like a WASP if youre Pakistani. It would be literally impossible.

Better to give OP some real, actionable advice. Make sure you look clean, spray some perfume on, make sure you're not cooking with heavily smelly middle eastern flavors like curry as that can stick to you, wear flattering clothes that show off your figure, master a pretty, flattering makeup routine.

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Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

Anonymous wrote:Thank god my UC DH isn’t a superficial narcissist. He loves me however I dress.

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Anonymous wrote:OP I am open to dating UMC white or Indian or Pakistani men. My parents are very worldly and modern and I was raised in Geneva and Cairo. I moved to the U.S for college and have been here since. I was shy and very insecure when I was younger so I never made myself available until now.

Why not a Pakistani cricketer or cricket exec like Malala?

Anonymous wrote:OP I am open to dating UMC white or Indian or Pakistani men. My parents are very worldly and modern and I was raised in Geneva and Cairo. I moved to the U.S for college and have been here since. I was shy and very insecure when I was younger so I never made myself available until now.