Anonymous wrote:How do they balance the teams without having a draft?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All rec leagues have drafts by 5th grade so she wouldn’t be able to just “join” a team. This coach may be drafting all the girls from one school, but it’s never a sure thing.
If your dd has never played before and you aren’t really close with the coach then she will never get on this team.
Why do people make these blanket statements? Where are you from? Every rec league on the planet has drafts by 5th grade? You are on a DMV message board. I'm in Montgomery County, MD. Our rec league does not have drafts, ever.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All rec leagues have drafts by 5th grade so she wouldn’t be able to just “join” a team. This coach may be drafting all the girls from one school, but it’s never a sure thing.
If your dd has never played before and you aren’t really close with the coach then she will never get on this team.
Why do people make these blanket statements? Where are you from? Every rec league on the planet has drafts by 5th grade? You are on a DMV message board. I'm in Montgomery County, MD. Our rec league does not have drafts, ever.
Anonymous wrote:All rec leagues have drafts by 5th grade so she wouldn’t be able to just “join” a team. This coach may be drafting all the girls from one school, but it’s never a sure thing.
If your dd has never played before and you aren’t really close with the coach then she will never get on this team.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My 6th grader’s rec team has always capped it at 8. As others have said, there’s a minimum number of quarters that must be played.
cap it at 10 allows that too
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In Arlington, it’s 9 at 5th grade.
How about 6th grade? do you know?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My 6th grader’s rec team has always capped it at 8. As others have said, there’s a minimum number of quarters that must be played.
cap it at 10 allows that too
Anonymous wrote:
OP here. I appreciate your posts, and the perspectives from a successful championship coach. However the issue is DD wants to play with her friends/be on that team, so me coaching a team won't satisfied that. But again I respect the league's rules on roster size, it's just that I still can't fully grasp the difference of 9 vs 10 players on a rec team. DD plays rec soccer since 1st grade and it's never been an issue with roster sizes so this is all new to us.
Anonymous wrote:OP. Only 5 kids can be out on the court at a time. It is a lot less than soccer, therefore, you don't need as large of a roster. Not sure why this is so difficult to understand for some folks. Especially for rec, where kids are typically guaranteed playing time.
Anonymous wrote:to OP, this is PP coach. We had several kids try to get on our team because we were also a team that was comprised of kids all from the same school. It became an issue when multiple requests were mad in who would we pick over the other and didn't want the politics involved with hurt feelings and fall outs. I suggest to one of the parents that they could probably start their own team with kids from school and gave her the names of who had asked to join and she actually did exactly that.
I'm sorry that your DD really wants to play with this particular group. That happens and it can sting. But perhaps instead of being stuck on 9 vs 10 you can ask those coaches if they know anyone else who wants to join, contact them, ask other families from school too and make your own team. You seem to want to be able to snap your fingers and push your kid onto this team when that team is telling you no. So you can either sulk and pout and say "it's not fair" or you can be something about it. Try it, what do you have to lose?