Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 13:51     Subject: Re:Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my experience, having a sex buddy can be great as long as neither of you wants to date the other and as long as it doesn’t continue for more than three months.


I wish I could find one. My sex therapist said after my last breakup with a girlfriend I just need to find someone to practice my sexuality with and that I don't necessarily need a relationship for that.


Will the therapist provide that comfort?
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 13:46     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.


Yes. It is. I’ve slept with nearly all of my female friends too.


Yeah, in both cases you can probably make this claim because you have no female friends.


Or, if your claim is true, things are about to get really complicated out there, since such a large percentage of the young generation is pansexual, or bisexual or what have you. Soon everyone will have slept with all their friends!
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 13:24     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.


Yes. It is. I’ve slept with nearly all of my female friends too.
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 11:38     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.


If you find the woman attractive then yes it is. I've slept with all my attractive female friends. And a couple of the fugly ones, not that I'm proud about those.
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 08:00     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.

Let me guess, you are a woman.


I'm male and new to the thread. I have had many female friends and slept with very few. Almost none. Once in a while there's some sexual tension but not usually. Maybe I'm unusual but I'm not unique.


I don’t think that’s even unusual.
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 07:56     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.

Let me guess, you are a woman.


I'm male and new to the thread. I have had many female friends and slept with very few. Almost none. Once in a while there's some sexual tension but not usually. Maybe I'm unusual but I'm not unique.


PP, thank you for not looking at all women through the lens of their potential as a sexual partner. I have a deep respect for you.
Anonymous
Post 10/26/2021 07:37     Subject: Re:Had Sex With Friend
The dynamic will most definitely be changed.

The fact that he cheated on his wife with you is a telling fact that this person may not be a person w/a decent moral character.
Or he could be a nice person > just one who doesn’t have the balls to leave an unfulfilling marriage.

Things to keep in mind.
Good luck‼️
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 23:59     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.

Let me guess, you are a woman.


I'm male and new to the thread. I have had many female friends and slept with very few. Almost none. Once in a while there's some sexual tension but not usually. Maybe I'm unusual but I'm not unique.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 18:35     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


No, it’s really not.

Let me guess, you are a woman.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 17:34     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.


So you're a slut. OK, well definitely start making better choices. And block and delete him.


And you PP are a judgemental b***tch.


NP, but knowingly sleeping with a married person is pretty much the definition of a sl@T. Do better, pp.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 15:57     Subject: Re:Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:In my experience, having a sex buddy can be great as long as neither of you wants to date the other and as long as it doesn’t continue for more than three months.


I wish I could find one. My sex therapist said after my last breakup with a girlfriend I just need to find someone to practice my sexuality with and that I don't necessarily need a relationship for that.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 15:55     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.


So you're a slut. OK, well definitely start making better choices. And block and delete him.


And you PP are a judgemental b***tch.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 10:25     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.


The very definition of a morally casual attitude.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 10:20     Subject: Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.


So you're a slut. OK, well definitely start making better choices. And block and delete him.


NO NO NO. No reason to think she's a slut. He's a cheater, yes, but that doesn't make her a slut.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2021 10:00     Subject: Re:Had Sex With Friend
Anonymous wrote:At this point op you have 2 choices . First is to back way off, cool things down and reinstate boundaries and hope friendship lasts..second is to go for it, and see what happens. Either way things are officially different than they were before, personally if sex was good and you like each other as people why not go for it?


There is not going to be a friendship after this.

It’s either a relationship (including sex) or part ways.

OP is a grownup.