Anonymous
Post 10/09/2021 20:52     Subject: I FOUND THE MOST WONDERFUL MAN BUT WORRIED
He's probably used to dating whoever he wants and might need a chase to feel the need to settle down. I dated a few charmers like that but ultimately wasn't interested in them enough to stroke their egos with a prolonged cat and mouse game.

Anonymous
Post 10/09/2021 19:22     Subject: I FOUND THE MOST WONDERFUL MAN BUT WORRIED
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guy here, and maybe this is cocky, but I think I was a good catch -- well educated, good job, etc. It just hit me at some point that I wanted to settle down. Not even start a family necessarily. But I was hanging out with friends who were married, and it seemed really nice to have a partner in life like that. And it is!

So many relationships are 50% timing. I could have met my wife at 22, and I wouldn't have married her.


Another guy here and this is it. He probably wasn't ready to settle down before. It's more about timing for men with options than actually finding the one.


Wow, so women are just a commodity then, more about "well i'm ready to find someone to take care of me in my old age" than a special loving relationship?


Why does that matter? Many women just pick a guy because they want to why married and have kids. Both sexes pick partners out of convenience, not love. What’s why so many people divorce.


My ex husband pulled a bait and switch and wanted a baby oven. So I disagree. I wanted a life partner. I did not want to be a wallet and a uterus…that is why he married me.
Anonymous
Post 10/09/2021 18:57     Subject: I FOUND THE MOST WONDERFUL MAN BUT WORRIED
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Guy here, and maybe this is cocky, but I think I was a good catch -- well educated, good job, etc. It just hit me at some point that I wanted to settle down. Not even start a family necessarily. But I was hanging out with friends who were married, and it seemed really nice to have a partner in life like that. And it is!

So many relationships are 50% timing. I could have met my wife at 22, and I wouldn't have married her.


Another guy here and this is it. He probably wasn't ready to settle down before. It's more about timing for men with options than actually finding the one.


Wow, so women are just a commodity then, more about "well i'm ready to find someone to take care of me in my old age" than a special loving relationship?


Why does that matter? Many women just pick a guy because they want to why married and have kids. Both sexes pick partners out of convenience, not love. What’s why so many people divorce.
Anonymous
Post 10/09/2021 17:52     Subject: Re:I FOUND THE MOST WONDERFUL MAN BUT WORRIED
Could be timing, that simple.

Check court records, free, and easy if Maryland, “ Maryland Judiciary Case Search”. I do for dating, and business….