Anonymous wrote:Your son’s well being must be #1 and she sounds like someone who would not really care about that. Either maintain the status quo or move on and find someone who would love your son.

Anonymous wrote:The relationship is the relationship. Whatever you're feeling now, Op doesn't change with "marriage"

Don't get married. Date. Don't live together. See each other, or not. Eventually if you can develop a better relationship with someone else, you have that path.

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you would even consider getting married in this situation. Don’t.

Regular sex. Security. The feeling of being loved.