Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 10:12     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Anonymous wrote:Shouldn’t have purchased a vehicle that requires expensive tires, parts, etc. I would have told her to go F herself


This was my EXACT thought.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 10:09     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Your wife's insanity -- is this a new development or has she always been like this?

If it's a new development, maybe have her see a doctor for a physical?
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 10:06     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

You are a nauseating doormat. Man up, you spineless whelp.

"She told me to find the cheapest fix" -- make your own decision about what tires you want on your car FFS.

"I was texting my DW periodically with updates" -- what are you, a little boy who needs constant reassurance and approval from mommy?

"I apologized in the moment" -- pardon me while I puke.

As for all the demands for apology and nagging, what you should do is read When I Say No, I Feel Guilty and use some of its techniques such as fogging.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 10:01     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Apologize for what? She sounds nuts!
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 09:54     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

What a horror. Sounds like my husband who whenever he gets angry at something, likes to point fingers at others and demand ridiculous apologies.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 09:52     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Anonymous wrote:Is your wife a Virgo?


I’m a Virgo and I’d feel sorry for my husband for having such a sh—-ty day!
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 08:20     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Anonymous wrote:This is silly. It’s not about the tires. There’s something else going on - do you guys have great sex? Dates? Does she feel loved, cherished and supported? Do you TALK to her when you’re upset in an empathetic way? Does she feel she can influence you when you don’t agree with her?

She sounds like she’s a little nuts, but so do you. Like attracts like. Work on it and grow together!


You are nuts!
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 08:19     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Anonymous wrote:You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.


Take care of what?
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 08:18     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

I would be reaching for something harder than seltzer in this particular situation.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 07:18     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

you sound super whiney, no wonder she’s pissed - she’s dealing with a baby
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 07:15     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

Anonymous wrote:You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.
+1
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 07:14     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

This is silly. It’s not about the tires. There’s something else going on - do you guys have great sex? Dates? Does she feel loved, cherished and supported? Do you TALK to her when you’re upset in an empathetic way? Does she feel she can influence you when you don’t agree with her?

She sounds like she’s a little nuts, but so do you. Like attracts like. Work on it and grow together!
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 05:06     Subject: Re:Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

You seem miserable. Any kids? If no kids, divorce her. Trust me. You will be so much happier
Life is too short.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 04:50     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

400k income she’s freaking out about a $500 repair?
Flat tires happen. That it why people having savings accounts.
Even my ex who did freak out about this stuff (and made wayyyy less money) would not have been so ridiculous to demand an apology.
Anonymous
Post 09/22/2021 01:59     Subject: Wife demanding I apologize to her for a flat tire?

You should appologize. No real man would post this and just take care of it.