Anonymous
11/24/2021 15:41
Subject: Dressing my non-binary child
My ten year old is gender nonconforming with clothing too. I had great luck with used clothing sites like the Real Real and Poshmark—they have beautiful blazers and jackets from European brands that work well with simple black pants and a simple cotton t underneath—not even a button down.
Anonymous
11/24/2021 15:35
Subject: Re:Dressing my non-binary child
Be a parent OP.
Anonymous
11/24/2021 15:26
Subject: Re:Dressing my non-binary child
Mix and match masculine and feminine elements of an outfit. For example, a tie with a skirt. My nonbinary child does this all the time to family events.
Anonymous
10/21/2021 12:17
Subject: Dressing my non-binary child
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How formal? Like a school dance? A wedding?
2 weddings and one "formal" church event with my very conservative parents. The church event is the one I'm dreading because when they don't show up in a dress, my mother will flip out.
This last one is a 'your mother' problem. I'm cis female, go to church weekly, and NEVER wear a dress.
Kohls has some nice button down dress shirts (that aren't overly feminine, but cut narrower) and plain slacks. That's where I'd go.
Anonymous
10/21/2021 10:36
Subject: Dressing my non-binary child
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm finding it hard to imagine any 13-yr-old who doesn't want to pick out their own clothing.
I’m 52 and there wasn’t a time in my life I enjoyed picking out clothes.
You must have a very unfortunate build.
Anonymous
10/21/2021 10:26
Subject: Dressing my non-binary child
Anonymous wrote:My child, who prefers to go by they/them and considers themselves non-binary is having a hard time shopping for clothing for formal situations. We have three family events coming up in the future and trying to find clothes have been challenging. They were born female and present that way. They are more comfortable in non-gender conforming clothing. Any tips from either folks who have found places to shop (or dressy outfits that are NOT dresses, skirts etc.) or parents with kids going through something similar?
My child is 13 - if that makes a difference.
gay
Anonymous
10/19/2021 18:30
Subject: Dressing my non-binary child
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm finding it hard to imagine any 13-yr-old who doesn't want to pick out their own clothing.
I’m 52 and there wasn’t a time in my life I enjoyed picking out clothes.
Ha! 47 and same.