Anonymous
Post 08/03/2022 07:09     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

It doesn’t matter how much she worships at the altar of Brandon because how you get them is how you lose them. He probably spent their vacation sexting with someone else.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 22:47     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:“The same with his title of Sr. VP? Who are you Sr over? And who are you VP over. What a f’n joke. You’re a sales dude.”

Brandon is and always has been a total poseur.

He works as a real estate marketer and salesman. No shame in that.

But that’s not enough. He’s got to pose as some sort of big shot executive.


Exactly— not a thing wrong with sales. It’s the having to be something bigger then he is.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 21:24     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

“The same with his title of Sr. VP? Who are you Sr over? And who are you VP over. What a f’n joke. You’re a sales dude.”

Brandon is and always has been a total poseur.

He works as a real estate marketer and salesman. No shame in that.

But that’s not enough. He’s got to pose as some sort of big shot executive.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 20:14     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.


And… she went private. Interesting…..
(There is nothing internet sleuths can’t find. ☺️)


Interesting that she was so “intent” on being public— sort of like let the haters hate… but then, private again. My guess is that she knows this page. And if she does, you know Wanna Be Cowboy Biker Dude does too. Saw his post of Ronnie’s BBQ in Johnson City today. I’ve eaten there a lot. It’s not bad, but it’s always interesting to me that he low key posts his tricked out F-250 diesel in this posts. As if he really ever pulls anything where a diesel is required. The same with his title of Sr. VP? Who are you Sr over? And who are you VP over. What a f’n joke. You’re a sales dude. Embrace it, bro.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 19:50     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.


And… she went private. Interesting…..
(There is nothing internet sleuths can’t find. ☺️)


Maybe she went private because of the terrible things being said about her son? It makes me feel sorry for her and respect her more as a mom. I wonder if she reads this.


Oh please. If she's reading this, she's reading a thread primarily devoted to snarking on her fiance's ex. She's no angel.


Exaaactly. If she’s taking the time to read this, then she cares waaaay too much about the gossip about her and Brandon. And his ex. That’s not something to “respect her as a mom” for…that’s just immaturity.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 19:34     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.


And… she went private. Interesting…..
(There is nothing internet sleuths can’t find. ☺️)


Maybe she went private because of the terrible things being said about her son? It makes me feel sorry for her and respect her more as a mom. I wonder if she reads this.


Oh please. If she's reading this, she's reading a thread primarily devoted to snarking on her fiance's ex. She's no angel.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 18:49     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.


And… she went private. Interesting…..
(There is nothing internet sleuths can’t find. ☺️)


Maybe she went private because of the terrible things being said about her son? It makes me feel sorry for her and respect her more as a mom. I wonder if she reads this.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 15:24     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:I wonder the real reason why Jen didn’t join her internet besties on their annual couples trip. Clearly Jen can afford the time and expense based on her many trips this year. Is it because they called out her unhealthy dynamics with Brandon when they all got together as couples a couple years ago? Like they may spot her weirdness with Tyler? Or perhaps Tyler had no interest to hang out with Jen’s monochromatic crew and their men in a very non diverse location? Based on his comments about his time in north Minnesota he’s pays close attention to racial diversity when traveling.


I wonder this too. At first I thought it was because she just got home from Me Camp but then today she's reposting stories that have her in New York City last week with Tyler. So it wasn't that she couldn't leave again. Seems strange she didn't want to bring her new man to meet her friends. And yeah that friend group is lacking diversity but so is every other thing Jen has invited Tyler to, like her Legacy dinner or that dinner in Minnesota she hosted. All white people but Tyler.

It's weird that she's also posting herself in a salon chair and posted herself at her house a couple days ago opening the book but then these other people are posting about her being in New York at the same time with her roots already done. Is she usually posting stuff way after the fact?

Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 14:05     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Heck I wonder if Brandon wanted to be a pastor, author, social media influencer at all?


Jen posted a handmade card Brandon had given her early in their relationship, and he signed his name with a Jesus fish, so I am thinking he may have had aspirations to some kind of Christian work/ministry. When I saw Jen speak out her in SoCal years ago, she shared that his parents aren't Christian. So Brandon may have "rebelled" by becoming a Christian in college? I hate to sound reductionist.

I feel for Jen because now Brandon is with a woman who loves to party party party - who only has one kid and lots more free time to party and live it up. Vs. having 5 kids. Of course Tina seems more fun . But, I am here for a simple life, too, vs the Jen big big big everything big approach to living.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 13:50     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Branson posts pictures of his assault rifle and his big raised diesel truck and he’s 50. Perhaps rural Texas puts a wee bit more value on guns, trucks and big fake boobs/bleached blondes than other areas? Rural Midwest men like those things but maybe not quite to the same extent.

Showed their IG to my husband who grew up in the rural Pacific northwest who is now an exec in corporate America in wealthy suburbia and he sees the appeal of Brandon’s choices. Kind of horrified me but he thinks a hot blonde who adores Brandon and likes to live like him is a good swap for a narcissistic wife. Ugh. None of the trucks, guns, boats, motorcycles club, booze, bars, drinking buddy girlfriend posts made him cringe. Guess you can take the boy out of the country but not the country out of the boy. Perhaps this was the problem for Brandon, he wasn’t really wanting to be a social justice warrior on a global stage hanging with big name influencers. That’s was Jen’s dream.
Heck I wonder if Brandon wanted to be a pastor, author, social media influencer at all? What were the real dreams of his heart before he met Jen? With her high achiever operating did she pull him along into those high visibility choices? Not that he didn’t enjoy the perks but even in their reality show he seemed less engaged.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 13:33     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.


And… she went private. Interesting…..
(There is nothing internet sleuths can’t find. ☺️)
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 12:43     Subject: Re:Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Brandon’s like on Tina’s May 23rd 2020 Instagram post is gone


Now that is creepy.


Wow. Proof that he’s covering his tracks and that he, or someone close to him, reads this. Busted dude.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 12:42     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:Initially I had the same impressions of Tina and her son. The strong mother son enmeshment and red neck identification. Then I realized this feels like a trauma bond. There are multiple places Tina has alluded to surviving an abusive relationship (s). How Brandon is the protection she needed. Her son seems more like at young teen than mid twenties in his interests and behaviors. There is a reason he’s moving in with Gavin and his girlfriend and not able to get a place on his own or with his friends. I get the sense there are several things off here and it’s cruel to mock them.
There is nothing wrong with a rural way of life. It’s more focused on hanging out with friends and family, drinking, hunting, playing at the lake, good food. The simple pleasures. Millions of Americans embrace this way of life and love it. It appears Brandon has found a more comfortable niche for his personality and affinities.



Posting pics of your mom’s *assets* and your assault rifle are not a normal rural way of life. And if it’s a trauma response, that’s scary as hell. It shouldn’t be celebrated or ignored. Now, I’m not saying it should be mocked, but it absolutely shouldn’t be normalized as the American way.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 12:42     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

Anonymous wrote:Initially I had the same impressions of Tina and her son. The strong mother son enmeshment and red neck identification. Then I realized this feels like a trauma bond. There are multiple places Tina has alluded to surviving an abusive relationship (s). How Brandon is the protection she needed. Her son seems more like at young teen than mid twenties in his interests and behaviors. There is a reason he’s moving in with Gavin and his girlfriend and not able to get a place on his own or with his friends. I get the sense there are several things off here and it’s cruel to mock them.
There is nothing wrong with a rural way of life. It’s more focused on hanging out with friends and family, drinking, hunting, playing at the lake, good food. The simple pleasures. Millions of Americans embrace this way of life and love it. It appears Brandon has found a more comfortable niche for his personality and affinities.



I agree with the trauma bond to an extent. But not the part about rural living. I’m rural and I love the rural redneck life. But his truck is a bit much and not what I would call “rural”. I’m ok with guns but not with putting them on display like you’re somehow a badass. Whatever; different folks for different folks. I know plenty of country folk who aren’t d-bags. And I know plenty who are.
Anonymous
Post 08/02/2022 12:30     Subject: Jen Hatmaker

I’m betting they met out on the lake somehow and gave each other their contact info. He was probably checking out her IG and started to crush on her before the big split. Perhaps even more than that happened.
Even if his affair was with a much younger woman and then he met Tina he was no longer committed to the marriage and would have been open to new women.
It’s a crummy way to treat a 25 year marriage. His midlife crises is pretty textbook, except he tried both individual and couples therapy before the breakup. Most men don’t.