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Anonymous

05/01/2026 15:04 Subject: Re:2030 Girls Lacrosse

Anonymous wrote:Mnd black parents and players are in an uproar now that they’ve started using depth charts to determine who’s starting and how much playing time (if any) a player gets. Understandably, a few are nervous about tryouts - especially the goalie that came close to getting replaced last year.

Once M&D gets to recruiting, they'll play equal playing time so players just need to get through this summer. I think that's how most team play in high school to get the girls recruiting

Anonymous

05/01/2026 15:00 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

I should have also said would they want the two strongest possible to be able to split games as the standard or no they’d rather have one goalie play and a backup? Thanks!

Anonymous

05/01/2026 14:58 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

Anonymous wrote:BLC parent behavior has gotten out of control

Future Capital parent?

Anonymous

05/01/2026 14:58 Subject: Re:2030 Girls Lacrosse

Anonymous wrote:Mnd black parents and players are in an uproar now that they’ve started using depth charts to determine who’s starting and how much playing time (if any) a player gets. Understandably, a few are nervous about tryouts - especially the goalie that came close to getting replaced last year.

Interesting. So the players are aware of where they are on the depth chart?

Not sure why you called out the goalie, unless you have a personal interest in doing so.

Re: goalies and this purported replacement, what are teams typically trying to achieve with their goalies as of Middle School time and entering High School? Are they all trying for the best two they can get and ideally they would be of equivalent talent/skill/performance? Or they focus on just one star and the other purposefully lesser who would accept being a backup and never playing? Or would teams be perfectly happy or prefer one star and no backup to contend with. What is the ideal or ideals that teams are working towards or would want? Thanks!

Anonymous

05/01/2026 14:28 Subject: Re:2030 Girls Lacrosse

Mnd black parents and players are in an uproar now that they’ve started using depth charts to determine who’s starting and how much playing time (if any) a player gets. Understandably, a few are nervous about tryouts - especially the goalie that came close to getting replaced last year.

Anonymous

05/01/2026 14:22 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

Anonymous wrote:Suspended for the rest of the season is an empty threat. We headed into the last weekend. It only matters if your team going to the playoffs.

Then it matters

Anonymous

05/01/2026 14:09 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

BLC parent behavior has gotten out of control

Anonymous

05/01/2026 12:29 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

Suspended for the rest of the season is an empty threat. We headed into the last weekend. It only matters if your team going to the playoffs.

Anonymous

05/01/2026 12:05 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

What’s going on with the nglll email regarding parent behavior? I did see one instance of BLC parent getting dressed down by a ref, people need to relax.

Anonymous

04/30/2026 20:29 Subject: M&D Red 2030

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any further word on shake-ups now that all offers seem to be out?

Curious about this as well. Heard NL got some quality players from other teams. Sounds like they will improve over last year.

Outside of that. There’s not a lot of info out there.

Anonymous

04/30/2026 20:25 Subject: M&D 2030 Red

Anonymous wrote:What options exist outside of MC, BLC, NL, Pride and Stars? Are tryouts over? We are new to the area and looking for a club. My athletic daughter has played for 2 years.

Anonymous

04/30/2026 19:15 Subject: 2030 Girls Lacrosse

Anonymous wrote:That makes sense. YJMA lost their 3 best players to Hero's Green and BLC over the past two years.

True, everyone left is awful. Zero talent on that team.

This is a completely unnecessary comment. Just say the team is not a strong as it was previously. These are kids you're making this flip comment about. My lord

Agreed. Probably a parent living out their fantasies through their kid. Taking middle school lax way too seriously