Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:53
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How did she trap him? He seems to have loved her and while he treated her like crap, she’s been a good partner to him. Even taking him to rehab post divorce.
People are just speculating, presuming she got knocked up on purpose to get him to marry her. No-one knows what really happened. And no-one denies that he was incredibly lucky to have her, then and now.
Again, who knows about their private dynamic but based on public perception, Ben was incredibly lucky to meet and marry Jen. She seems to be the most maternal, problem free and grounded woman he could have found to have a family with. She appeared to be absolutely besotted with him, was incredibly loyal and accommodating. Because she took care of the home front, he was able to focus on his career while having a bunch of happy, well adjusted children.
Jen G was an angel to put up with his bad behavior though.
Or he married Jen G because of the pregnancy instead of someone who was a better fit for him and for whom he had true love and passion.
It is entirely possible. I did always think there appeared to be a mis-match between the two based on public appearances. Jen is super sweet, West Virginia raised self described "goody goody" while Ben is a LMC junkie with mental health problems. He probably cannot relate to Jen's normalcy and missed excitement and passion.
He would be a better fit for someone with a more troubled past.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:50
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
How did she trap him? He seems to have loved her and while he treated her like crap, she’s been a good partner to him. Even taking him to rehab post divorce.
People are just speculating, presuming she got knocked up on purpose to get him to marry her. No-one knows what really happened. And no-one denies that he was incredibly lucky to have her, then and now.
Again, who knows about their private dynamic but based on public perception, Ben was incredibly lucky to meet and marry Jen. She seems to be the most maternal, problem free and grounded woman he could have found to have a family with. She appeared to be absolutely besotted with him, was incredibly loyal and accommodating. Because she took care of the home front, he was able to focus on his career while having a bunch of happy, well adjusted children.
Jen G was an angel to put up with his bad behavior though.
Or he married Jen G because of the pregnancy instead of someone who was a better fit for him and for whom he had true love and passion.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:49
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
You people are so boring telling us these tales of your friends who had babies by accident. That definitely doesn't qualify as "entertainment and pop culture" in my book. Gah.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:40
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Indeed, but takes two to tango. Doubt he was an unwilling party to the deed.
How did she trap him? He seems to have loved her and while he treated her like crap, she’s been a good partner to him. Even taking him to rehab post divorce.
People are just speculating, presuming she got knocked up on purpose to get him to marry her. No-one knows what really happened. And no-one denies that he was incredibly lucky to have her, then and now.
Again, who knows about their private dynamic but based on public perception, Ben was incredibly lucky to meet and marry Jen. She seems to be the most maternal, problem free and grounded woman he could have found to have a family with. She appeared to be absolutely besotted with him, was incredibly loyal and accommodating. Because she took care of the home front, he was able to focus on his career while having a bunch of happy, well adjusted children.
Jen G was an angel to put up with his bad behavior though.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:28
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Indeed, but takes two to tango. Doubt he was an unwilling party to the deed.
How did she trap him? He seems to have loved her and while he treated her like crap, she’s been a good partner to him. Even taking him to rehab post divorce.
People are just speculating, presuming she got knocked up on purpose to get him to marry her. No-one knows what really happened. And no-one denies that he was incredibly lucky to have her, then and now.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:26
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Indeed, but takes two to tango. Doubt he was an unwilling party to the deed.
How did she trap him? He seems to have loved her and while he treated her like crap, she’s been a good partner to him. Even taking him to rehab post divorce.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:22
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Married friends ended up having their first a little earlier than planned because they had been separated for work and when they reunited wife told him she didn't have b/c. He was willing to chance it, and 9 months later...
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:19
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Indeed, but takes two to tango. Doubt he was an unwilling party to the deed.
I have a friend who did not take the pill so she can have a baby. Her Bf at the time did not know. She got pregnant, they married instantly.
Happy 8 years later.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:17
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Indeed, but takes two to tango. Doubt he was an unwilling party to the deed.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 14:11
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
That is how Jen G trapped him.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 13:57
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
She wanted the secure the bag with at least a baby and he wouldn't. It's obvious. She's in her 30s--clock is ticking--so she can't afford to stick around for a couple of years and hope he changes his mind (or gets caught slipping and impregnates her).
Anonymous
01/19/2021 13:01
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is a great shame that Lindsay Shookus didn't work out.
Right, because he really needs a GF who likes to party.
A girlfriend who likes to party, who has a child living on the opposite coast from his kids, and who has dabbled in infidelity. Thank goodness she is history. #teamben
I mean, she was basically his twin. #teamjengandthekids
Anonymous
01/19/2021 13:00
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is a great shame that Lindsay Shookus didn't work out.
Right, because he really needs a GF who likes to party.
A girlfriend who likes to party, who has a child living on the opposite coast from his kids, and who has dabbled in infidelity. Thank goodness she is history. #teamben
Anonymous
01/19/2021 12:47
Subject: Re:Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Let’s see shall we.
She is in her early thirties and coming off of a successful film. She meets Ben and the two fall in love. They look smitten and are seen frequently in public. Ben is all over her and she posts pictures of him all over her social media. She is seen hanging out with his kids and it is revealed Jen has a cordial relationship with her. She then moved in with Ben. A few months later, they break up.
It would appear that while they were smitten with each other, she was expecting something serious and he, in the midst of his recovery from mental health and alcohol issues, wanted to slow down. He likely isn’t ready for a new baby or a serious commitment at this phase in his life.
Who knows but...just a casual observers observation.
yeah, it looks like she wanted something permanent (marriage, baby) and he didn't.
People is sticking with the "she wants more freedom, doesn't want to be stuck in LA" story.
Anonymous
01/19/2021 12:14
Subject: Ben has a new hot girlfriend and he wants everyone to know about it
Anonymous wrote:It is a great shame that Lindsay Shookus didn't work out.
Right, because he really needs a GF who likes to party.