Overall look of being "unkept".

No thanks to: Giant areolas that blend with the surrounding skin. Nipples that don't get hard. Stretch marks on breasts. Puffy nipples.

A smoker is the big one! Rest...over weight, tats, piercings, unkempt. Femy men.

I still don't really understand what a FUPA is - or at least what distinguishes this from a "gut" or just being overweight all over. And I just googled it at work. (Bad idea, but basically just got me many many picture of obese women.) I'm going to go out on a limb and say that for anyone that isn't significantly overweight, this is not a real "thing," and you probably look just fine!

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Anonymous wrote:We need more men to answer this question

Short hair.
Trashy tattoos
I know this is a weird one but - Louis Vutton or other extremely high end purses or diaper bags. Screams materialistic

+1 Bling and labels, and the dehumanizing clone look (yoga pants, athletic top, blond shoulder length hair, oversized shades) also respect killers., turn offs.

M

Agreed to both pp's.

My DH loves, loves, loves this on me. Funny.

Are you sure you just can't rock the look, PPs? That is what it sounds like.

Nope. I have more than enough money to buy all the labels I want. But I go out of my way to avoid obvious labels. And you know, that's the trend for the super wealthy anyway, hence the decline of the "louis vuitton" pattern bags and the rise of discreet, labelless brands like bottega venetta. But go ahead, keep feeling smug about your look that would be the height of cool... if this was 2004.

Good post, you are exactly right. To me no matter what their background it makes a person look ignorant. All my siblings are the same way, one lives near M.J.'s former Neverland.
It's definitely a security thing for people that overdo it.

"those men that you know spend more time getting ready than your typical female - perfectly coiffed hair (i hate gel, in general), pink or coral pants with patterned socks, ugh. just the total preppy or total hipster-but-the-kind-of-hipster-that-definitely-cares-what-he-looks-like-but-wants-you-to-think-he-doesn't - yuck. also long hair on men. give me a break. "

I agree with above, they are often feminine type men..total turn off. A tattoo or 2 is ok if it's discreet...covered usually tells me the cheese has slipped a little from the cracker.

Facial hair on women. Raised facial moles.

Hairless vaginas definitely a pet peeve alongside obesity.

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Anonymous wrote:We need more men to answer this question

Short hair.
Trashy tattoos
I know this is a weird one but - Louis Vutton or other extremely high end purses or diaper bags. Screams materialistic

+1 Bling and labels, and the dehumanizing clone look (yoga pants, athletic top, blond shoulder length hair, oversized shades) also respect killers., turn offs.

M

Agreed to both pp's.

My DH loves, loves, loves this on me. Funny.

Are you sure you just can't rock the look, PPs? That is what it sounds like.

Nope. I have more than enough money to buy all the labels I want. But I go out of my way to avoid obvious labels. And you know, that's the trend for the super wealthy anyway, hence the decline of the "louis vuitton" pattern bags and the rise of discreet, labelless brands like bottega venetta. But go ahead, keep feeling smug about your look that would be the height of cool... if this was 2004.

Anonymous wrote:those men that you know spend more time getting ready than your typical female - perfectly coiffed hair (i hate gel, in general), pink or coral pants with patterned socks, ugh. just the total preppy or total hipster-but-the-kind-of-hipster-that-definitely-cares-what-he-looks-like-but-wants-you-to-think-he-doesn't - yuck. also long hair on men. give me a break.

+1

Too grandma-like!

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Anonymous wrote:We need more men to answer this question

Short hair.
Trashy tattoos
I know this is a weird one but - Louis Vutton or other extremely high end purses or diaper bags. Screams materialistic

+1 Bling and labels, and the dehumanizing clone look (yoga pants, athletic top, blond shoulder length hair, oversized shades) also respect killers., turn offs.

M

Agreed to both pp's.

My DH loves, loves, loves this on me. Funny.

Are you sure you just can't rock the look, PPs? That is what it sounds like.

Anonymous wrote:Sadly, I suspect you're boring & predictive as hell, you FUPA free, hairless screeching cat with perfect fangs.

In between Pilates and your next paleo lunch, please consider reading a real book. I recommend The Yellow Wallpaper as a starter.

Yes, I'm mean. It's tough love. We're all going to die. Shouldn't you focus some time on neurons firing vs. worrying about your tight ass, that will frankly never compete again with the younger ladies.

LMAO!

Love everything about this post.

It should go into the DCUM hall of fame.

Sadly, I suspect you're boring & predictive as hell, you FUPA free, hairless screeching cat with perfect fangs.

In between Pilates and your next paleo lunch, please consider reading a real book. I recommend The Yellow Wallpaper as a starter.

Yes, I'm mean. It's tough love. We're all going to die. Shouldn't you focus some time on neurons firing vs. worrying about your tight ass, that will frankly never compete again with the younger ladies.

48 year old mother of 4 and I'm FUPA - free. Any facial hair, bad teeth and too much complaining are total turn offs for me.

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Which MOST women have .

What is FUPA?

Fat upper pussy area