Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 11:35     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m the pp from 15:32. And I’m BIOPIC.

One fond memory from my college days was self-selection or segregation I guess, by Latin students. I’m not Latin, but had a friend who was. They self segregated based on language, economics (out of country at top private college so wealthy) and race/culture.

A group of students owned a house off campus, paid for by one of the dads. During those days I had access to the weekend parties— all Latin music and culture.

When I would see my friends on campus, they always sat together and spoke Spanish or Portuguese. But no one cared.

In my dorm were a few girls from Central America. They mainly did things with each other, roomed together, etc.

My friends from the Middle East. Same thing. They aggregated a bit more and had closer relations.

This is common, even today, and that was many moons ago.

I just tire of the narrative always being twisted as AA’s wanting segregation again because they don’t spend and won’t spend 200 percent of their time in college integrating. No other groups did.

It’s the double standard that is nauseating.



The original question was about "diversity". People should just say what they really mean. They just want to know how many people exactly like them will be on campus so that they can sequester themselves enough to feel "safe". Oddly that is called "diversity" and is viewed as an asset and better for all students.


Each college should ensure that there is no discrimination in their admission process and then let students choose where they want to go to school. If some schools end up with heavy majorities of one race, so be it.
Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 10:41     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m the pp from 15:32. And I’m BIOPIC.

One fond memory from my college days was self-selection or segregation I guess, by Latin students. I’m not Latin, but had a friend who was. They self segregated based on language, economics (out of country at top private college so wealthy) and race/culture.

A group of students owned a house off campus, paid for by one of the dads. During those days I had access to the weekend parties— all Latin music and culture.

When I would see my friends on campus, they always sat together and spoke Spanish or Portuguese. But no one cared.

In my dorm were a few girls from Central America. They mainly did things with each other, roomed together, etc.

My friends from the Middle East. Same thing. They aggregated a bit more and had closer relations.

This is common, even today, and that was many moons ago.

I just tire of the narrative always being twisted as AA’s wanting segregation again because they don’t spend and won’t spend 200 percent of their time in college integrating. No other groups did.

It’s the double standard that is nauseating.



The original question was about "diversity". People should just say what they really mean. They just want to know how many people exactly like them will be on campus so that they can sequester themselves enough to feel "safe". Oddly that is called "diversity" and is viewed as an asset and better for all students.


Diversity is having full representation of students of races and ethnicities on campus and in the classroom. Especially for those who were excluded in the past.

This is / should be possible in the U.S.

How young adults choose to socialize is up to them.
Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 10:36     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

Anonymous wrote:As far as reach-schools, what percentage of the college are BIPOCs, and is diversity likely to sway your child’s decision?


Colleges at all levels have been hard at work building diverse classes. There will be enough students of each type (race, ethnicity, etc.) to facilitate self segregation almost anywhere a kid decides to go.
Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 10:23     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

Anonymous wrote:I’m the pp from 15:32. And I’m BIOPIC.

One fond memory from my college days was self-selection or segregation I guess, by Latin students. I’m not Latin, but had a friend who was. They self segregated based on language, economics (out of country at top private college so wealthy) and race/culture.

A group of students owned a house off campus, paid for by one of the dads. During those days I had access to the weekend parties— all Latin music and culture.

When I would see my friends on campus, they always sat together and spoke Spanish or Portuguese. But no one cared.

In my dorm were a few girls from Central America. They mainly did things with each other, roomed together, etc.

My friends from the Middle East. Same thing. They aggregated a bit more and had closer relations.

This is common, even today, and that was many moons ago.

I just tire of the narrative always being twisted as AA’s wanting segregation again because they don’t spend and won’t spend 200 percent of their time in college integrating. No other groups did.

It’s the double standard that is nauseating.



The original question was about "diversity". People should just say what they really mean. They just want to know how many people exactly like them will be on campus so that they can sequester themselves enough to feel "safe". Oddly that is called "diversity" and is viewed as an asset and better for all students.
Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 10:20     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

I am sure when women were only a handful in universities, they stuck together as well.
Anonymous
Post 11/11/2025 10:17     Subject: Percentage of BIPOCs at your child’s top pick

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A college can look diverse on paper but the actual social life on campus can be very segregated by race, class, etc.


Yes, and having “safe spaces” for POC, in my view, is not a bad thing. For many of these students, going to college might be their first time attending school that is majority White (and / or Asian). Self-segrating, gives these students a path into integrating into the bigger society. I am a POC, but I grew up in mostly white middle class town. Most of my friends in college were white, because we shared common experiences growing up.


Have you considered/toured any HBCU s ?


What does this have to do with anything? She said that she went to college a long time ago. She's just providing an opinion about why certain students might cluster together in college.

It's odd that athletes can self segregate, other students with specific interests (like investment club or frat bros) can self-segregate, but if minorities self-segregate then its viewed as something completely different. It's the same -- students at times group themselves based on interests at that time. No different.



Did you seriously just equate interest groups and sports, with race? in America?? omg