Anonymous
Post 09/08/2025 09:28     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
I think great core probably refers to six pack abs.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2025 09:21     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
Anonymous wrote:Where do I go to meet you? I'm serious. Where do men like you go? I can't find you. Am I really forced to use these apps? I don't want to.

I couldn't give a shit about height. I'm 5'6 and 46 too so it would be perfect.



Anonymous wrote:I'm a 5'8" single guy and am laughing at how I don't meet OP's height requirement. I'm 160 lbs. I prefer women around my height/weight or slightly bigger or taller, but I'm open to dating the petite ladies, just not OP. LOL

Also, I have an MBA but I rarely talk about my college degree. I'm above average intelligence, like many people in the DMV area, but I prefer to live a simple life and not try to impress people with my brain. 🧠

I'm 46 and am noticing a ton of amazing women in the 45 to 55 age group, so that's where I'm focusing my efforts.


This guy just summed up the frustrations that a lot of us are sharing. But is it cynical of me to say that women think they deserve a guy that MUST tick all their boxes else they will never be thankful?
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2025 08:58     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
Anonymous wrote:Where do I go to meet you? I'm serious. Where do men like you go? I can't find you. Am I really forced to use these apps? I don't want to.

I couldn't give a shit about height. I'm 5'6 and 46 too so it would be perfect.



Anonymous wrote:I'm a 5'8" single guy and am laughing at how I don't meet OP's height requirement. I'm 160 lbs. I prefer women around my height/weight or slightly bigger or taller, but I'm open to dating the petite ladies, just not OP. LOL

Also, I have an MBA but I rarely talk about my college degree. I'm above average intelligence, like many people in the DMV area, but I prefer to live a simple life and not try to impress people with my brain. 🧠

I'm 46 and am noticing a ton of amazing women in the 45 to 55 age group, so that's where I'm focusing my efforts.


There’s literally thousands of men exactly like that on apps. Stop being prideful and just sign up for a couple.
Anonymous
Post 09/08/2025 01:46     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
Anonymous wrote:At 5’0” you have a real advantage in you can date men that are much shorter than the average height woman would consider. Why compete with all single women especially when you will be at a disadvantage for the failed marriage? If you lowered your height range to 5’6” you could probably find someone decent and they would still be way taller than you. Also a lot of tall men do not like women your height. My brother is 6’2” and thinks that too much of a height difference looks weird and is inconvenient in other ways.


I never had that issue as a 5ft woman. It's always been tall men over 6ft who ogled me. Even at 43 it happens but maybe that's the nice thing about being petite. You appear younger.
Anonymous
Post 09/07/2025 21:41     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
At 5’0” you have a real advantage in you can date men that are much shorter than the average height woman would consider. Why compete with all single women especially when you will be at a disadvantage for the failed marriage? If you lowered your height range to 5’6” you could probably find someone decent and they would still be way taller than you. Also a lot of tall men do not like women your height. My brother is 6’2” and thinks that too much of a height difference looks weird and is inconvenient in other ways.
Anonymous
Post 09/07/2025 16:49     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
what does "great core" mean?
Anonymous
Post 09/07/2025 11:25     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
Where do I go to meet you? I'm serious. Where do men like you go? I can't find you. Am I really forced to use these apps? I don't want to.

I couldn't give a shit about height. I'm 5'6 and 46 too so it would be perfect.



Anonymous wrote:I'm a 5'8" single guy and am laughing at how I don't meet OP's height requirement. I'm 160 lbs. I prefer women around my height/weight or slightly bigger or taller, but I'm open to dating the petite ladies, just not OP. LOL

Also, I have an MBA but I rarely talk about my college degree. I'm above average intelligence, like many people in the DMV area, but I prefer to live a simple life and not try to impress people with my brain. 🧠

I'm 46 and am noticing a ton of amazing women in the 45 to 55 age group, so that's where I'm focusing my efforts.
Anonymous
Post 09/07/2025 11:09     Subject: 38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a 5'8" single guy and am laughing at how I don't meet OP's height requirement. I'm 160 lbs. I prefer women around my height/weight or slightly bigger or taller, but I'm open to dating the petite ladies, just not OP. LOL

Also, I have an MBA but I rarely talk about my college degree. I'm above average intelligence, like many people in the DMV area, but I prefer to live a simple life and not try to impress people with my brain. 🧠

I'm 46 and am noticing a ton of amazing women in the 45 to 55 age group, so that's where I'm focusing my efforts.


As a 5’8 white woman - my best relationship post divorce was with a 5’8 divorced Asian man. He had wide shoulders great core and medium D. Had multiple degrees and was just all around brilliant
Not sure how 5’8 is too short for OP


Oh and I’m 20 BMI , model looking. his exW was a gorgeous 5’10 former athlete they had gorgeous mixed race kids
Educated charming and successful men of any height can do so much better than desperate to marry ladies who judge them by the height !