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Anonymous wrote:She still looks good. She won’t have any trouble finding another rich husband. She will write a book. She will be featured in a Netflix piece. She has the fame. A rich guy looking for fame will pick her.
She will be fine.

I'm sure that there are tons of wealthy men in their mid/late 40s who are lining up to marry her

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Anonymous wrote:You don’t get any life insurance if it’s suicide. That would mean that anyone could take out large amounts and just off theirselves the next day. She won’t get a fine if that life insurance

People keep saying that and it’s simply not true. It depends on the policy, but most have a two-year rule for suicide. As long as he took out the policy at least two years before his death, it would likely pay out. He seemed smart enough to check that provision before he ended his life.

Anonymous wrote:She still looks good. She won’t have any trouble finding another rich husband. She will write a book. She will be featured in a Netflix piece. She has the fame. A rich guy looking for fame will pick her.
She will be fine.

Anonymous wrote:You don’t get any life insurance if it’s suicide. That would mean that anyone could take out large amounts and just off theirselves the next day. She won’t get a fine if that life insurance

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Anonymous wrote:He's a coward of the worse kind. Suicide doesn't hurt the person dead it punishes the living. His young daughters will spend the rest of their lives mentally wounded. His wife will spend years trying to did out of this mess and will have to witness the mental anguish of her children. Life will be dark and unhappy for quite some time. As a man he should have owned up to his mistakes. Taken whatever punishment was coming his way and.......started over. That's the beauty of living in this country- you can reinvent yourself as many times as you want. He destroyed his entire family and his death solved nothing. He's a coward.

His death will actually help his daughters. He would have ruined their life. He was a bad person. Now they have a chance to become decent human beings without his toxicity.
He did what was needed. He is not coward.

Nope. He did probably have demons and there’s a history of mental health issues on his side of the family, but her family is awful. Completely vapid social climbers bordering on narcissists. Candace, her mom, sister, aunt, etc are all social climbers and use friends, kids, etc as props to get ahead. Those girls don’t stand a chance stuck with just her family now.

Anonymous wrote:Her face really does look insane though. Uncanny valley level.

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Anonymous wrote:He's a coward of the worse kind. Suicide doesn't hurt the person dead it punishes the living. His young daughters will spend the rest of their lives mentally wounded. His wife will spend years trying to did out of this mess and will have to witness the mental anguish of her children. Life will be dark and unhappy for quite some time. As a man he should have owned up to his mistakes. Taken whatever punishment was coming his way and.......started over. That's the beauty of living in this country- you can reinvent yourself as many times as you want. He destroyed his entire family and his death solved nothing. He's a coward.

His death will actually help his daughters. He would have ruined their life. He was a bad person. Now they have a chance to become decent human beings without his toxicity.
He did what was needed. He is not coward.

Nope. He did probably have demons and there’s a history of mental health issues on his side of the family, but her family is awful. Completely vapid social climbers bordering on narcissists. Candace, her mom, sister, aunt, etc are all social climbers and use friends, kids, etc as props to get ahead. Those girls don’t stand a chance stuck with just her family now.

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Anonymous wrote:He's a coward of the worse kind. Suicide doesn't hurt the person dead it punishes the living. His young daughters will spend the rest of their lives mentally wounded. His wife will spend years trying to did out of this mess and will have to witness the mental anguish of her children. Life will be dark and unhappy for quite some time. As a man he should have owned up to his mistakes. Taken whatever punishment was coming his way and.......started over. That's the beauty of living in this country- you can reinvent yourself as many times as you want. He destroyed his entire family and his death solved nothing. He's a coward.

His death will actually help his daughters. He would have ruined their life. He was a bad person. Now they have a chance to become decent human beings without his toxicity.
He did what was needed. He is not coward.

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Anonymous wrote: I can't remember where i read it, but when this store broke,there was a someone who was quoted as saying that, relationships in these circles are very transactional.And it really hit on what i've long observed about the dynamics of relationships amongst this type of crowd.

Poverty is humiliating,isolating and detrimental to one's overall health.But,as a poor person, if you're lucky enough to have someone who cares for you then you know it's as authentic,genuine and sincere as it gets. The fact that this Brandon Miller guy didn't or thought he couldn't talk about the true state of their finances with his so-called wife is just so.....damning and revelatory of the kind of superficial relationships these people entertain.

I don’t think that’s it at all. When you’re in finance in ny, there are wild swings all the time. Look at some of the most successful real estate funds, and most have had moments when they’ve been underwater. Many of the successful managers are former athletes, across the board they’re either very cocky or on the spectrum. They always think there’s the next big thing and they usually have to double down to get there. I’ve seen some wild rides. Obviously they don’t usually end like this, but if every manager gave up when he was down, a lot of funds would fold. This one is more complicated w/ being the second generation, but look how he went after a bigger project when he was in debt. That’s what they do. It just generally doesn’t carry over into extremes in personal spending.
Nothing about their lifestyle was equal to the size of their fund, even if it had been successful. She was spending as if he were a manager at tiger or citadel, not some run of the mill 2nd tier RE fund.

Couple of things

-why didn't or couldn't he tell the wife their lifestyle wasn't sustainable in the short,medium or long term?

- The description of the NY real estate industry doesn't apply to him—he was never even a medium player, not even close.He was at the very bottom of the pole as far as NY real estate is concerned.

- Nothing has described this guy as being in finance. It's been said over and over again that he was in real estate .

He was at his dad’s real estate investment firm. His dad died at an inopportune time where the dad’s business had a lot of debt. Brandon was expecting to inherit 200 million I read, and the dad was in debt and essentially he got nothing. Then COVID happened and killed NYC real estate, especially commercial. They were spending like they were getting a 200mill inheritance and for whatever reason they couldn’t adjust lifestyle once it did not come to fruition. Whatever low 8 figure wealth they had sustained that lifestyle for like 6 years, but it ran out this year and he started swindling his peers, it spiraled over the course of like 6-10 months and ended in his suicide.