Anonymous wrote:Most of my friends and family could die tomorrow and, aside from maybe 20 people I'm close to, I'd feel so little about it that I would barely think to tell my wife if I found out they died and she didn't already know.

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Anonymous wrote:DH has no idea I identified as bisexual when we married and now identify as a lesbian married to a man. He doesn’t even know I’m attracted to women. If we divorce (which we very well might because we don’t get along for reasons having nothing to do with my sexuality), I’ll never date another man again.

Why do you think it is okay to lie to him about who he married?

I didn’t lie. He never asked about my sexuality, kinks, sexual history, or anything. He’s a very self-absorbed, uncurious person. When I asked him about his sexuality, history etc, his answers were plain and it was clear he had very little sexual experience and was ashamed of that. It made what should’ve been fun conversations feel awkward and needless.

When we were engaged and then soon got married, his lack of questions seemed like he was willing to accept me for whomever I am and just wanted to love me. I knew I wasn’t going to cheat, so bringing up my bisexuality to someone who really didn’t care to have the convo seemed needless. It took time for me to realize his lack of interest in basic details about others is actually a deep narcissism. By the time I realized that, I had too much contempt for him to confide. The rift has widened over time.

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 300 people in five years of college.

How is that possible? Try trying to picture how one might go about this. Not that I will partake, I just wouldn't know how to do this.

There are 365 days in a year. 300 in 5 years is totally possible.

I was friends with a girl who could have totally hit this number.

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Anonymous wrote:I had an affair with my married therapist for the first several years of my marriage.

Umm and then what happened?

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Anonymous wrote:I slept with over 300 people in five years of college.

How is that possible? Try trying to picture how one might go about this. Not that I will partake, I just wouldn't know how to do this.

There are 365 days in a year. 300 in 5 years is totally possible.

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 5 abortions.

Why don't you use birth control? That pattern sounds irresponsible, TBH.

MYOB

You posted your business on a public internet site.

That is sort of inviting other people to comment.

That wasn’t me, the 5 abortions poster. I had a boyfriend with a breeding fetish.

Most people just break up.

Breeding fetish? What does that even mean?

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 5 abortions.

Why don't you use birth control? That pattern sounds irresponsible, TBH.

MYOB

You posted your business on a public internet site.

That is sort of inviting other people to comment.

That wasn’t me, the 5 abortions poster. I had a boyfriend with a breeding fetish.

Most people just break up.

Breeding fetish? What does that even mean?

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve had 5 abortions.

Why don't you use birth control? That pattern sounds irresponsible, TBH.

MYOB

You posted your business on a public internet site.

That is sort of inviting other people to comment.

That wasn’t me, the 5 abortions poster. I had a boyfriend with a breeding fetish.

Most people just break up.

Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Anonymous wrote:I get myself off to pictures & videos of Instagram influencers bf’ing their babies. I’m a mom of 3 fwiw.

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Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Same.

There are two ancestry snoops that follow this thread?! I was already impressed with the oddity of one.

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Anonymous wrote:That I can find anything about them online even things they don’t know. For example I have no things about my uncles ex-wife‘s family that even she has a children do not now because I’ve researched them on ancestry. Some are just individual facts like what country a great great great great great grandmother was from and others are scandals like a murder suicide in 1938 or the details of their mothers first marriage and her ex-husband‘s name and his obituary which includes details about his later life in a second family. Or how I know that one of my half siblings has a brother they don’t even know about from the other side of their family. They have a distant father, my mothers first husband, who I looked up.

So if you know me, I likely know more about you and your family’s ancestry then you do.

Same.