Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:37     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:These links need a TW. This is really really awful


This many times over.


You mean like this, right before the link?

But the charging documents are here and major trigger warning

Because it’s already there…. You want a double TW?
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:30     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Gotta watch out for letting fetishes take over your life. See also Joe Price, another grad of a VA uni.

For those who knew her, any signs of hard drug use? This really says meth to me.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:27     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
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Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.



YOU aren't clear on how this works, it is often about power and reinacting trauma.
That's not true, there are sex offender treatment programs - that are private and expensive. They use technology to measure sexual arousal and discourage it as a part of a larger treatment program.


And years later they are still aroused on scans after “treatment.”


This. There is no treatment without removing sexual organs the rest of the treatments are bogus.


They can use objects, the BRAIN is the problem. This woman, without a penis, brought a sex toy along to r@pe a kid.


Objects are what this is about it so to remove the source of pleasure, the arousal. If you vagina can no longer be aroused are you still interested in sex? If you remove your penis and testicles, are you still aroused?

You aren’t clear on how this works. It is chemical castration for males and females. That is why it’s used with those with a high risk of offending. It’s been the only solid treatment for stopping sexual offenses in these people. Tons of articles are available for you to learn more. It’s not about them using objects, it removes the sexual desire.


No, YOU are not clear that it is a brain issue, it is often about power, about reincating trauma reversing roles. There was recently a guy in late 80s arrested for perving on kids. His T level was not the driver. Stop spreading misinformation.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:13     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:http://ewsocis1.courts.state.va.us/CJISWeb/Search.do

DCUM lawyers, what do all these cases dated 3/23 mean?


link doesn't work (at least for me)


I'm not the pp who posted the link, but
If you google "VA court case info" it will give you a data base where you can look up most VA court cases. Go to "Circuit court" and Albermarle county to look up her previous and current cases.
You can also search the General court cases for all of VA

It's pretty interesting-you can look up other people you know in VA too.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:02     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:Obviously this is not the norm, but often people who are trying to deny an urge or desire that they think is wrong cope by outwardly advocating against it. There are so many examples of religious and conservative men who not only condemn homosexuality or promiscuity, but have actually made it their life’s work to condemn it. Larry Craig, Jerry Falwell jr, robert bauman, George Rekers (my personal favorite story), Roy ashburn, bob Allen, mark foley (remember this guy?), Phillip hinkle, ted haggard, Matt Schlapp. The crazy thing was the ones just wanted a rendezvous with adult men had to build a life of lies to do this. No one should give an F if old man are attracted to 20-30 year old adult men.

I won’t pretend to understand the psychology behind it.


ETA, so maybe that is why this woman signed up for the children advocacy jobs.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 17:01     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Obviously this is not the norm, but often people who are trying to deny an urge or desire that they think is wrong cope by outwardly advocating against it. There are so many examples of religious and conservative men who not only condemn homosexuality or promiscuity, but have actually made it their life’s work to condemn it. Larry Craig, Jerry Falwell jr, robert bauman, George Rekers (my personal favorite story), Roy ashburn, bob Allen, mark foley (remember this guy?), Phillip hinkle, ted haggard, Matt Schlapp. The crazy thing was the ones just wanted a rendezvous with adult men had to build a life of lies to do this. No one should give an F if old man are attracted to 20-30 year old adult men.

I won’t pretend to understand the psychology behind it.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:32     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:Wow. This woman is exactly like Ghislaine Maxwell. What is it with wealthy, privileged society ladies r*ping kids?? Sick. I went to UVA over a decade ago but otherwise don't have any connections to the area. Never heard of this woman but the fact that I didn't hear of this until DCUM announced it is...telling.

Let's not let this pedo woman escape public disgrace just because her family is trying to buy off the Press. Hope this goes viral on social media.

Yes. Why isn't Virginia's Ghislaine Maxwell not being publicly shamed for this? Disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:32     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
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People like her eventually end up being killed in prison anyhow because even criminals have "standards" when it comes to crimes committed. You touch a child, you're good as dead in there.


Not sure the part about being killed in prison is so true in women's prisons. But she would probably be alone in there.


That's the second time someone has posted that in this thread. My coworker was caught by an undercover FBI sting very similar to this, with an alleged dad with a 10yo girl (I think it was 10; it has been a while since I read the complaint). He did not go to the meetup but they had him under surveillance and got him on the child porn he'd sent to the undercover agent, some of which involved children as young as 4. He was sentenced to 5 years and got out in less than that. He wasn't killed in prison.

People post that thing about molesters being most hated and killed in prison as if they actually know what they are talking about. If you look at sex offender lists there are plenty of people who made it through prison.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:27     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:I am one of the PP that has known her a very long time. Her parents are super snobs and very rude. Her brother used be a pain and got in trouble with the law as a teen (but nothing like this) and his parents quietly got him out it. He’s living a low key life, seems to have calmed down. His fb has now disappeared.

I have always liked the exH and never understood why he dated or married her. I don’t know if it was her father’s law connections or what. the ex is a nice guy, good looking, smart, maybe a bit goofy but he never had problem getting dates. Remains a big mystery to a lot of us.

Eleanor has always been like her parents. Rude and mean. She seemed to be mainstream, have friends, run with the popular kids in a way that money buys. Nothing really stands out as abnormal until she got arrested a few years ago which the article touches on. From what I have heard, while she was still married she got caught having sex in a public park with some random guy which produced the “unlawful dressing” charge in Chesterfield, which is south of Richmond and not near Charlottesville. It’s a really weird story, but I believe this is what caused the divorce. The rumor being pushed through is that she has severe mental health issues but IMO that in no way excuses any of what she’s done. She should never get out of prison.

Thank you for the tea. She sounds like a typical Mean Girl so I feel like I'm mainlining schedenfreude right now. (while also not being at all okay with what happened to those poor kids)
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:26     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:I don't care if she has a brain tumor or was assaulted in her youth. She is now harming children. We don't make excuses for other people, so why her.


Those are not excuses, just predictions.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:15     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
She was into kink when I was at UVA, but nothing about kids. Just really obsessed with oral.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:14     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:EW…she’s so creepy looking. WTF.


I know, someone in the thread referred to her as attractive, and I was like, “what?!”
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:12     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:Oh gif, I just looked at her fb profile. I literally am sick to my stomach. She is a monster and blessed with those two beautiful girls. Her ex-husband, I wonder what happened with him. Like, did he know? Why did he leave his kids with her? Why didn’t he report her? All those people with kids in their circle that I know she had access too and maybe even sleepovers and vacations with… I am just so sick. I am trusting no one with my kids.


According to comments In the article he sued for custody 3days after her arrest.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:09     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
EW…she’s so creepy looking. WTF.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 16:07     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:These links need a TW. This is really really awful


This many times over.