Anonymous wrote:Shake giving up being a vet and moving to Miami, of course. How long before the new gf dumps him, do we think? I give them six months.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Omg, np and finally watched the season over the last week. Totally agree with all those people who said all the couples are troubling and not worth rooting for. I guess my fav was Iyanna and Jarrett if I had to choose but he's a bit shady. However, I am just really floored at how *colonized* both Shake and Deepti seemed. WTF? I'm desi, in my early 40s, and I (sadly) had a lot of cousins/family friends in my early adulthood who would never date a person from our race. But it seemed like it had been changing at least here in the US, and it's so sad to me that this type of self-hatred is still so common. In my 20s, I met guys like Shake (Indian guys who'd never dated Indian girls) and I always ran far, far away. WHY would you date someone who doesn't like the way your people look and is only attracted to the race that subjugated your people for 300 years ? It's such a recipe for heartbreak.
Lol. What is this nonsense?
+1
Shake is a headcase, for sure. Major identity issues. I didn’t feel that way at all about Deepti! She was very proud to be Indian. I think she made that quite clear.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unpopular opinion alert:
Was anyone else kind of skeeved out by Iyana's "parents?"
I can't remember the specifics but didn't she say that they adopted her pretty recently, like around age 22? I find it weird that they focus so much on using the term parents. And her dad was talking about children growing up. I mean I know they were her godparents but it all seemed just really a bit much. Like their need to constantly use language about being her parents.
I saw nothing "skeevy" about them, or their relationship as her parents. After all, they were her Godparents before they were her parents. That is the literal definition of a Godparent. The fact that they stepped in and took on that responsibility even later in her life is commendable and selfless of them. I find it interesting that you took a beautiful relationship and twisted it into something suspect, and gross.
I'm a NP. Just binged the season. Her adoptive father was 100% on the down low. Omg, when he hugged Iyanna in her wedding dress? That crouch! So awkward! Definitely skeevy. And honestly I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt when I say closeted, because my second hunch is molester.
What does down low mean? Gay? I didn’t get that vibe, or molester vibe! He just seemed deeply conservative, traditional and formal. I liked them, and really felt they had her best interests at heart.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Omg, np and finally watched the season over the last week. Totally agree with all those people who said all the couples are troubling and not worth rooting for. I guess my fav was Iyanna and Jarrett if I had to choose but he's a bit shady. However, I am just really floored at how *colonized* both Shake and Deepti seemed. WTF? I'm desi, in my early 40s, and I (sadly) had a lot of cousins/family friends in my early adulthood who would never date a person from our race. But it seemed like it had been changing at least here in the US, and it's so sad to me that this type of self-hatred is still so common. In my 20s, I met guys like Shake (Indian guys who'd never dated Indian girls) and I always ran far, far away. WHY would you date someone who doesn't like the way your people look and is only attracted to the race that subjugated your people for 300 years ? It's such a recipe for heartbreak.
Lol. What is this nonsense?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unpopular opinion alert:
Was anyone else kind of skeeved out by Iyana's "parents?"
I can't remember the specifics but didn't she say that they adopted her pretty recently, like around age 22? I find it weird that they focus so much on using the term parents. And her dad was talking about children growing up. I mean I know they were her godparents but it all seemed just really a bit much. Like their need to constantly use language about being her parents.
I saw nothing "skeevy" about them, or their relationship as her parents. After all, they were her Godparents before they were her parents. That is the literal definition of a Godparent. The fact that they stepped in and took on that responsibility even later in her life is commendable and selfless of them. I find it interesting that you took a beautiful relationship and twisted it into something suspect, and gross.
I'm a NP. Just binged the season. Her adoptive father was 100% on the down low. Omg, when he hugged Iyanna in her wedding dress? That crouch! So awkward! Definitely skeevy. And honestly I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt when I say closeted, because my second hunch is molester.
Anonymous wrote:Omg, np and finally watched the season over the last week. Totally agree with all those people who said all the couples are troubling and not worth rooting for. I guess my fav was Iyanna and Jarrett if I had to choose but he's a bit shady. However, I am just really floored at how *colonized* both Shake and Deepti seemed. WTF? I'm desi, in my early 40s, and I (sadly) had a lot of cousins/family friends in my early adulthood who would never date a person from our race. But it seemed like it had been changing at least here in the US, and it's so sad to me that this type of self-hatred is still so common. In my 20s, I met guys like Shake (Indian guys who'd never dated Indian girls) and I always ran far, far away. WHY would you date someone who doesn't like the way your people look and is only attracted to the race that subjugated your people for 300 years ? It's such a recipe for heartbreak.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unpopular opinion alert:
Was anyone else kind of skeeved out by Iyana's "parents?"
I can't remember the specifics but didn't she say that they adopted her pretty recently, like around age 22? I find it weird that they focus so much on using the term parents. And her dad was talking about children growing up. I mean I know they were her godparents but it all seemed just really a bit much. Like their need to constantly use language about being her parents.
I saw nothing "skeevy" about them, or their relationship as her parents. After all, they were her Godparents before they were her parents. That is the literal definition of a Godparent. The fact that they stepped in and took on that responsibility even later in her life is commendable and selfless of them. I find it interesting that you took a beautiful relationship and twisted it into something suspect, and gross.
Also bad filters.Anonymous wrote:There is so much plastic surgery and makeup in this one image 😬
https://www.instagram.com/p/B9haxAuFMeQ/