Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
It means they realize fentanyl is laced in everything and someone could be given one pill or a few puffs of weed and literally collapse and die. This isn’t the 80’s sweetie
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
And you're THAT parent, who breathlessly insists that they AREN'T encouraging their kids to have sex and do drugs while steadily refreshing the condom and Narcan supply without question. For some reason, THAT makes sense to you.
It makes sense to more than one of us. If you want to tell your kid “don’t have sex”, and then let the chips fall where they may when he does, have at it. I have managed to tell both of my kids that they’re not ready for sex, but when the time comes I will help them do it safely. If you think this is encouraging them, you don’t get the subtle nuances of the conversation. There is zero encouragement to go out and have sex. ZERO.
There's also more than one person in this thread who agrees with me that supplying your kids with Narcan and condoms is encouraging the behavior you say you aren't. So we're even. Some people agree with you and some people agree with me.
There are clearly multiple schools of thought on this issue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
And you're THAT parent, who breathlessly insists that they AREN'T encouraging their kids to have sex and do drugs while steadily refreshing the condom and Narcan supply without question. For some reason, THAT makes sense to you.
It makes sense to more than one of us. If you want to tell your kid “don’t have sex”, and then let the chips fall where they may when he does, have at it. I have managed to tell both of my kids that they’re not ready for sex, but when the time comes I will help them do it safely. If you think this is encouraging them, you don’t get the subtle nuances of the conversation. There is zero encouragement to go out and have sex. ZERO.
There's also more than one person in this thread who agrees with me that supplying your kids with Narcan and condoms is encouraging the behavior you say you aren't. So we're even. Some people agree with you and some people agree with me.
There are clearly multiple schools of thought on this issue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
And you're THAT parent, who breathlessly insists that they AREN'T encouraging their kids to have sex and do drugs while steadily refreshing the condom and Narcan supply without question. For some reason, THAT makes sense to you.
It makes sense to more than one of us. If you want to tell your kid “don’t have sex”, and then let the chips fall where they may when he does, have at it. I have managed to tell both of my kids that they’re not ready for sex, but when the time comes I will help them do it safely. If you think this is encouraging them, you don’t get the subtle nuances of the conversation. There is zero encouragement to go out and have sex. ZERO.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
And you're THAT parent, who breathlessly insists that they AREN'T encouraging their kids to have sex and do drugs while steadily refreshing the condom and Narcan supply without question. For some reason, THAT makes sense to you.
It makes sense to more than one of us. If you want to tell your kid “don’t have sex”, and then let the chips fall where they may when he does, have at it. I have managed to tell both of my kids that they’re not ready for sex, but when the time comes I will help them do it safely. If you think this is encouraging them, you don’t get the subtle nuances of the conversation. There is zero encouragement to go out and have sex. ZERO.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
And you're THAT parent, who breathlessly insists that they AREN'T encouraging their kids to have sex and do drugs while steadily refreshing the condom and Narcan supply without question. For some reason, THAT makes sense to you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
So your that mom. Yes, I've heard you mention this. We make different parenting choices.
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Try again. I have a 16 year old son. My stance on sex and drugs is clear. We’ve had a lot of conversations with him about why we hold those stances and our expectations of him.
If he chooses to disobey and deviate from that despite that understanding, then that is his choice and the consequences are on him. But he can’t say he made those choices because he thought it was ok with us.
By supplying your kids with a steady supply of condoms and Narcan, you ARE normalizing that behavior, whether you want to acknowledge that or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
You don't get the situation out there. I don't have too much experience with the condom issue but it is irresponsible for you to pontify about Narcan. Sounds like you are one of those 60 year olds who like to post on this forum or a mom of a little kid, you seem so out of touch.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I only have girls (14, 16) and I purchase condoms and leave them in the bathroom under the counter. They should always have 2 on them. Give them to friends too. It shouldn’t be just the guy’s responsibility. They also carry Narcan. Does that mean I am ok with them being around drugs?
I mean, yes, it does. What do you think it means?
You're crazy. I've shown my goody-two-shoes kids how to administer Narcan if they should ever be in that position as well as telling them how to do CPR and use a defibrillator. It's that kind of world now.
Do you have nicotine patches in case they get hooked on cigarettes or tobacco vapes and need them?
Do you have suboxone just in case they become addicted to opioids?
If yes, then your logic with condoms and Narcan is consistent.
If not, ask yourself why you’re stocking condoms and Narcan, even though you insist you’re not encouraging adolescent sex and drug use, just in case but not those other items, just in case.
Because we don’t want a dead kid or to be an early grandma. The reason seems very obvious.
So basically you’re inconsistent and contradictory with your logic and you don’t like being called out on it. That’s unfortunate.