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I truly suspect my DH would be happy with any woman as long as she enjoyed sex and gave blow jobs. I don't think he'd be very focused on the woman's weight at all. That's just my impression. Haven't directly asked.



I assume you have a happy husband! I agree with you. I'm somewhat overweight (145 @5'6") and I enjoy sex and frequently give my DH blow jobs. I'm sure he'd like for me to lose a few pounds and I'm trying to but he seems pretty happy. He sure was last night!

Good lord, that's not overweight

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, to the women saying their husband is thrilled with their weight gain, don't count on it. They might tell you that or make you feel that way because they know commenting otherwise would endanger their chances of having sex.

It's pretty simple, really. Weight gained is ALWAYS unattractive. Were you thin/in-shape when he proposed to you? Have you gained weight since then? Assume he finds that unattractive.

The men who are attracted to heavier women would have dated/married a heavier woman.

I don’t get this, size?? I am not sure if there is a size I would rule out. Height-wise, I would love to be with a really tall gal, like well over 6 ft.

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, to the women saying their husband is thrilled with their weight gain, don't count on it. They might tell you that or make you feel that way because they know commenting otherwise would endanger their chances of having sex.

+1 - If I made a comment about my wife's weight she'd freeze me out for two weeks. Even if she asks "do you think this dress looks too tight on my" and it does I come up with some stupid answer such as "the color doesn't seem to work.". Lame, but harmless...to me.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
I truly suspect my DH would be happy with any woman as long as she enjoyed sex and gave blow jobs. I don't think he'd be very focused on the woman's weight at all. That's just my impression. Haven't directly asked.



I assume you have a happy husband! I agree with you. I'm somewhat overweight (145 @5'6") and I enjoy sex and frequently give my DH blow jobs. I'm sure he'd like for me to lose a few pounds and I'm trying to but he seems pretty happy. He sure was last night!

Yep. I'd take your size with sex over a slim model size without sex any day.

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I truly suspect my DH would be happy with any woman as long as she enjoyed sex and gave blow jobs. I don't think he'd be very focused on the woman's weight at all. That's just my impression. Haven't directly asked.



I assume you have a happy husband! I agree with you. I'm somewhat overweight (145 @5'6") and I enjoy sex and frequently give my DH blow jobs. I'm sure he'd like for me to lose a few pounds and I'm trying to but he seems pretty happy. He sure was last night!

Yeah, to the women saying their husband is thrilled with their weight gain, don't count on it. They might tell you that or make you feel that way because they know commenting otherwise would endanger their chances of having sex.

Anonymous wrote:I truly suspect my DH would be happy with any woman as long as she enjoyed sex and gave blow jobs. I don't think he'd be very focused on the woman's weight at all. That's just my impression. Haven't directly asked.

I would suspect that there is an upper limit -- a weight beyond which her sexual enthusiasm and BJ skills did not matter because she was simply too repulsive.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly skinny women are not sexy in the least. Big hips, butt and thighs are sexy. Big boobs are sexy if they are natural, but all sizes are nice (and natural).

Says a woman.

If you are attracted to lollies like Kelly Ripa, you might be gay.

Heterosexuals like boobs and curves. Kelly is flat and muscular...like a little boy.

A gay friend pointed this out to me when some straight men in our group were debating Paris Hilton and the Kardashians.

None of the Kardashians are overweight. They are all height/build/weight proportional. Even Khloe at her heaviest was not really overweight, she's 5'10 with a medium/large build. Kourtney is the definition of a slim small build woman who is also curvy.

Yes, men like curvy women but shaped like an hourglass with a defined waist not curvy as in round like a beach ball/beer belly.

Anonymous wrote:I am a size 12/14 and hooked up with a totally buff ex Marine half my age this weekend Size is not the determining factor for all men.

I'm happy for you but the question is, was there a repeat performance or was it a case of "any port in a storm?" know your audience. Some service men pride themselves on a lack of discrimination. It's not unusual for wagers to be made over conquests. I speak from experience when I say this.

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This picture is ridiculously wrong.
From L-R: Size 0, size 6, size 10-12

I'm attracted to all 3 but the one in the middle would be my first choice.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly skinny women are not sexy in the least. Big hips, butt and thighs are sexy. Big boobs are sexy if they are natural, but all sizes are nice (and natural).

Says a woman.

If you are attracted to lollies like Kelly Ripa, you might be gay.

Heterosexuals like boobs and curves. Kelly is flat and muscular...like a little boy.

A gay friend pointed this out to me when some straight men in our group were debating Paris Hilton and the Kardashians.

Ah yes, the classic "you must be gay" attack on guys who don't like large women.

Apparently they’re not only gay, but pedophiles.

I truly suspect my DH would be happy with any woman as long as she enjoyed sex and gave blow jobs. I don't think he'd be very focused on the woman's weight at all. That's just my impression. Haven't directly asked.

I do notice that in the picture all the women are highly proportional, which is why they all look good, even the largest woman in the picture. In real life, many women who are on the heavy side are not proportional because maybe they were once smaller framed women who gained and it looks paunchy on them. So I think the bottom line here is that you can be a large size, as long as you're proportional, but that it's harder to be attractive if you're over-weight for the size of your frame or if the weight is heavily weighted to your lower half...

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly skinny women are not sexy in the least. Big hips, butt and thighs are sexy. Big boobs are sexy if they are natural, but all sizes are nice (and natural).

Says a woman.

If you are attracted to lollies like Kelly Ripa, you might be gay.

Heterosexuals like boobs and curves. Kelly is flat and muscular...like a little boy.

A gay friend pointed this out to me when some straight men in our group were debating Paris Hilton and the Kardashians.

Ah yes, the classic "you must be gay" attack on guys who don't like large women.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly skinny women are not sexy in the least. Big hips, butt and thighs are sexy. Big boobs are sexy if they are natural, but all sizes are nice (and natural).

Says a woman.

If you are attracted to lollies like Kelly Ripa, you might be gay.

Heterosexuals like boobs and curves. Kelly is flat and muscular...like a little boy.

A gay friend pointed this out to me when some straight men in our group were debating Paris Hilton and the Kardashians.

None of the Kardashians are overweight. They are all height/build/weight proportional. Even Khloe at her heaviest was not really overweight, she's 5'10 with a medium/large build. Kourtney is the definition of a slim small build woman who is also curvy.