Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read most of the responses. While this would concern me, I would not hugely jump to conclusions.

Are you sure you never used condoms briefly or considered them at all- like after the birth of one of your kids etc. We did, for a time- and those years were such a blur.

Otherwise a buddy who stashed it in there or something- who knows. Gag gift from work, or some type of joke thing or gag at a bachelor party, or even it fell out of a buddy’s pocket and he flung it in there quickly without thinking. I could see some scenarios.

Don’t get me wrong- I’m not naive and it would concern me yes. But I wouldn’t automatically accuse my otherwise trustworthy DH of cheating based on this alone.

Personally I’d ask - just show it to him, and casually ask him in a lighthearted tone with a little laugh. See what he says. If there is an immediate story/excuse I’d tend to believe him. If he says he has no idea or hesitates etc I’d be much more wary- probably guilty. But you know your DH best.

This post was reopened by a woman whose husband passed away and she was cleaning his car and found a condom. So new topic on an old topic.

This post is three years old and the OP is probably divorced and remarried already

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t read most of the responses. While this would concern me, I would not hugely jump to conclusions.

Are you sure you never used condoms briefly or considered them at all- like after the birth of one of your kids etc. We did, for a time- and those years were such a blur.

Otherwise a buddy who stashed it in there or something- who knows. Gag gift from work, or some type of joke thing or gag at a bachelor party, or even it fell out of a buddy’s pocket and he flung it in there quickly without thinking. I could see some scenarios.

Don’t get me wrong- I’m not naive and it would concern me yes. But I wouldn’t automatically accuse my otherwise trustworthy DH of cheating based on this alone.

Personally I’d ask - just show it to him, and casually ask him in a lighthearted tone with a little laugh. See what he says. If there is an immediate story/excuse I’d tend to believe him. If he says he has no idea or hesitates etc I’d be much more wary- probably guilty. But you know your DH best.

Anonymous wrote:Hold on, let's not have a rush to judgment, liberals. Has he been transporting paint, or is he likely to in the near future? Condoms are a common vessel for transporting paint, primer and other supplies. [/quote

Run along, Right-winger. Adults are talking here.