Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 22:02     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
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We don't need Jackie Chan as our leader cause we are doing just fine. Most minority groups have a "community leader" that speaks for the community, organizes the community, etc.. . Some may lead just the local community, but isn't that a start? You don't think having a "leader" would help your community? I'm not saying every black person is lost. Clearly that is not the case. But don't you think the black community needs to change at all? Or is it that everyone around them needs to change first? Like I said, racism is real. But how is the community helping themselves? Maybe they are and the rest of us just don't see it.

So then what do *you* think needs to happen in the black community? Maybe you are upper class, so this isn't your community. Then this doesn't really apply to you, does it.


Asians are doing just fine? Really? Then why are many of you fighting tooth and nail to get to the US? How are things in your home country? Everyone doing great and not in need of any great Asian leader? How...interesting.

BTW, there is no black community. There is a black race. This idea that we are all interconnected is false and needs to stop. It's asinine and small-minded thinking.


You're an idiot. Was I referring to the black community in Africa? Why are you referencing Asians from Asia? And BTW, it's not just the Asians fighting to get in here... so are the Africans, Hispanics, etc.

Asians in the US are doing fine.. there.. is that better? When they are not, there usually is a community leader that rallies people. As a whole, I would say Asians are faring better than blacks here. Yes, I know part of is racism, but not all of it is.

Fine..there is no black community. Your race is doing fine. There is no problem in the "black community" because there is no such thing as the "black community". There are aberrant black criminals, and because there are a few, now all black people are painted as criminals. All these issues in the non-existent black community is made up by the white people and the media controlled by the white people.

Does that make you feel better?


What does a criminal who happens to be black have anything to do with ALL black people? There is no definite black community. However, there are a variety of communities in America in which black people exist. Do you seriously think that an elite black person gives a damn about a black person living in the ghetto? Do you think a religious black person cares about black homosexuals? Do you think that black people from intact families resemble the ones from broken families? Do you think that all black people who like opera associate with black people who go to Go-Go clubs? Black people are not carbon copies of each other. The African Diaspora is made of different cultures, religions, soci-economic status, languages, etc. Stop being obtuse! No one thinks that hillbilly redneck whites represents all white people. So why do you think some black criminal represents all black people?

Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 22:01     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:
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We don't need Jackie Chan as our leader cause we are doing just fine. Most minority groups have a "community leader" that speaks for the community, organizes the community, etc.. . Some may lead just the local community, but isn't that a start? You don't think having a "leader" would help your community? I'm not saying every black person is lost. Clearly that is not the case. But don't you think the black community needs to change at all? Or is it that everyone around them needs to change first? Like I said, racism is real. But how is the community helping themselves? Maybe they are and the rest of us just don't see it.

So then what do *you* think needs to happen in the black community? Maybe you are upper class, so this isn't your community. Then this doesn't really apply to you, does it.


Asians are doing just fine? Really? Then why are many of you fighting tooth and nail to get to the US? How are things in your home country? Everyone doing great and not in need of any great Asian leader? How...interesting.

BTW, there is no black community. There is a black race. This idea that we are all interconnected is false and needs to stop. It's asinine and small-minded thinking.


You're an idiot. Was I referring to the black community in Africa? Why are you referencing Asians from Asia? And BTW, it's not just the Asians fighting to get in here... so are the Africans, Hispanics, etc.

Asians in the US are doing fine.. there.. is that better? When they are not, there usually is a community leader that rallies people. As a whole, I would say Asians are faring better than blacks here. Yes, I know part of is racism, but not all of it is.

Fine..there is no black community. Your race is doing fine. There is no problem in the "black community" because there is no such thing as the "black community". There are aberrant black criminals, and because there are a few, now all black people are painted as criminals. All these issues in the non-existent black community is made up by the white people and the media controlled by the white people.

Does that make you feel better?


Well now that you put it that way, yes it does.


Again.. no intelligent answers, just flippant remarks - assuming you are the PPP. Then if you think there are no problems, case closed. Let's not belabor this issue. Move on.

Should I just tell Jeff to delete this thread since apparently there are no issues in the non-existent black community?


Case in point. White entitlement. You feel that you can now tell the web owner what threads to delete and close. LOL.


First of all, anyone can tell Jeff to delete a thread. And secondly, you are a fool... I'm Asian. And believe me, most Asians don't feel they have any entitlement to anything.


You don't tell Jeff shit. You ask Jeff. Maybe you are totally assimilated because the entitlement has rubbed off. was it you who said you were the model immigrant. And when you call someone a fool, I suppose you are talking about your mother.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 22:00     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
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Anonymous wrote:I really don't get the "black community" hate. I hear this by black people all the time. So, you think they are wrong, too? I'm thinking most black people in this country do use the term "black community".


I just posted, and I brought up that very same point.

I hear black community all the time. "In the black community, this is how we . . . "

OK - So it's not offensive - at least to some.

I mentioned how my community is my heritage, especially as a first generation who's bilingual. I am proud being part of this community. It's tied to a country, however, which may be the main difference.

Black community is defined how? as black American? as African American? And if it's the latter, how close are AAs to an African nation? Do most AAs trace their roots?


Eventually, we all lose ties, I imagine, as the older generation dies off.

So community takes on different meanings. I'm just not sure I'll be using it around others much longer . . .


You've answered your own question.

I'm African American. Do you know what that means? If you did, you wouldn't suggest that I stop using it because I have no ties to my ancestors. I honor their sacrifice and NO white person will tell me I can/can't do this in the way I see fit.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 22:00     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
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Anonymous wrote:20:40 you state that 50% of the black people you work with save for their children's college. The other 50% do not and do not think it is the best investment for their children. Are you telling me that 100% of white folks in America save for their children to attend college and 100% believe college is a good investment?


Whether you can save or not is obviously up to your income level -- but more than 50% of whites do think some kind of college is best for kids; I mean look at the rise of for profit universities and online colleges. I have not heard whites mock college and "book learning" the way I've heard blacks do so -- sorry -- just my experience. I'm sure I'll be told I'm wrong.


You're wrong. But we aren't really talking about more than 50%, but it was mighty white of you to move the goal post. Your original diatribe was 50% of blacks saved and talked about college. Whereas the other 50% of the 30 black folks you worked with did not. Again, for you, where are these 100% white folks who save for college?

Oh, and there was just within the last week a long thread from white posters stating that if they had to do it over, they would not go to college, but to trade school. There is another thread where posters state that they will not save for their children to attend college, as it would be best if the kid had some financial teeth in their own education. The demographics of DCUM skews white, middle class, female, so take the posts for what they are worth.


Talking about one race at 50% and another at more than 50% is not moving the goal post. Maybe take a statistics class. And the truth remains the same -- I have heard numerous blacks mock college and "book learning." This would be blacks living in big cities, not rural Alabama blacks. I don't hear that same mocking from big city whites.

And to those who said I worked with 30 black people in an office. Clearly you've never stepped foot in a large company in Philadelphia. You step foot into the departments of Comcast, Blue Cross & Blue Shield or another Phil. company -- departments that don't require a college degree like customer service or claims, you're not seeing 30 black people. You are seeing entire floors of black people. An all black department -- where you've got 100 out of 200 women taking an attitude about college, well that's at least 100 kids in North or West Philadelphia (and likely more as each woman generally has more than 1 kid) that are hearing from their moms that higher education does not matter. If you're already living in the ghetto (which both of those areas of Phil. are), you may want to keep your both shut about how education doesn't matter and help your kid figure out some way to get out of the hood -- lest he be hanging with the Michael Browns of the world.


Oh I understand. So for black folks its 50% who uphold the benefits of college, and 52, 53, 55% of white folks who do the same. White folks in America have always had free education at their advantage., so they should be at 100%, not over 50%. However, you don't or want to address that. More importantly, you think you can just exclude white folks living in suburbia, exurbia, and rural america from your numbers. Bitch bye.


Exhibit A of why AAs can't get ahead. You only hear what you want to hear and you only hear it through the lens of -- AAs MUST always be the victim in every situation.

Case closed.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:59     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
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Anonymous wrote:I really don't get the "black community" hate. I hear this by black people all the time. So, you think they are wrong, too? I'm thinking most black people in this country do use the term "black community".


There are MILLIONS of black people in the US from many different backgrounds. How can you make this assertion with a straight face?


I think recent African immigrants self-segregate from the American black community. So when people say "black community', they mean those that identify as American blacks, not those who are recent immigrants.

Most American blacks who have been here for generations do not say "Nigerian-American", "Kenyan-American", mostly because obviously they don't really know where their lineage comes from.


The first generation does. Their children and grand children do not.

. I suppose it's akin to the recent Russian immigrants in NYC. The children who move away for work or college will simply consider themselves white. The ones who remain insulated in the Russian community will probably self identify as Russian or Russian American
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:57     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
We don't need Jackie Chan as our leader cause we are doing just fine. Most minority groups have a "community leader" that speaks for the community, organizes the community, etc.. . Some may lead just the local community, but isn't that a start? You don't think having a "leader" would help your community? I'm not saying every black person is lost. Clearly that is not the case. But don't you think the black community needs to change at all? Or is it that everyone around them needs to change first? Like I said, racism is real. But how is the community helping themselves? Maybe they are and the rest of us just don't see it.

So then what do *you* think needs to happen in the black community? Maybe you are upper class, so this isn't your community. Then this doesn't really apply to you, does it.


Asians are doing just fine? Really? Then why are many of you fighting tooth and nail to get to the US? How are things in your home country? Everyone doing great and not in need of any great Asian leader? How...interesting.

BTW, there is no black community. There is a black race. This idea that we are all interconnected is false and needs to stop. It's asinine and small-minded thinking.


You're an idiot. Was I referring to the black community in Africa? Why are you referencing Asians from Asia? And BTW, it's not just the Asians fighting to get in here... so are the Africans, Hispanics, etc.

Asians in the US are doing fine.. there.. is that better? When they are not, there usually is a community leader that rallies people. As a whole, I would say Asians are faring better than blacks here. Yes, I know part of is racism, but not all of it is.

Fine..there is no black community. Your race is doing fine. There is no problem in the "black community" because there is no such thing as the "black community". There are aberrant black criminals, and because there are a few, now all black people are painted as criminals. All these issues in the non-existent black community is made up by the white people and the media controlled by the white people.

Does that make you feel better?


Well now that you put it that way, yes it does.


Again.. no intelligent answers, just flippant remarks - assuming you are the PPP. Then if you think there are no problems, case closed. Let's not belabor this issue. Move on.

Should I just tell Jeff to delete this thread since apparently there are no issues in the non-existent black community?


Case in point. White entitlement. You feel that you can now tell the web owner what threads to delete and close. LOL.


First of all, anyone can tell Jeff to delete a thread. And secondly, you are a fool... I'm Asian. And believe me, most Asians don't feel they have any entitlement to anything.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:57     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Hey if I am perceived as not manly enough does that mean I am "acting Asian"?
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:56     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Talking about one race at 50% and another at more than 50% is not moving the goal post. Maybe take a statistics class. And the truth remains the same -- I have heard numerous blacks mock college and "book learning." This would be blacks living in big cities, not rural Alabama blacks. I don't hear that same mocking from big city whites.

And to those who said I worked with 30 black people in an office. Clearly you've never stepped foot in a large company in Philadelphia. You step foot into the departments of Comcast, Blue Cross & Blue Shield or another Phil. company -- departments that don't require a college degree like customer service or claims, you're not seeing 30 black people. You are seeing entire floors of black people. An all black department -- where you've got 100 out of 200 women taking an attitude about college, well that's at least 100 kids in North or West Philadelphia (and likely more as each woman generally has more than 1 kid) that are hearing from their moms that higher education does not matter. If you're already living in the ghetto (which both of those areas of Phil. are), you may want to keep your both shut about how education doesn't matter and help your kid figure out some way to get out of the hood -- lest he be hanging with the Michael Browns of the world.


You must be an awesome person if you somehow manage to learn how ALL black folks where you work confide in you about how they view education. Gold star for you!

re: education and big city/rural whites. A lesson for you: During redlining, housing discrimination, etc blacks weren't allowed to live in the suburbs with well to do white people. They were pushed to the city. And poor white people stick to the boonies.

Now, whites (who are middle/upper class) are moving back to the cities. So, you are comparing successful white people with poor black people. NOT a fair comparison. If you compared poor black inner city residents with poor rural white residents there would be MANY similarities. BUT, since poor whites are in rural America, they're out of sight. Much easier to shake your head at those misbehaving city black folks.

You continue to ignore the reality that MANY white people shun education. Just look at the Tea Party and or poor conservatives. Look at how so many scorned Obama/Democrats for being elitist. Look at how Southerners show disdain for Northerners who think they're high and mighty because they went to "some fancy college."

You are completely clueless about so many things. So many things...
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:55     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
We don't need Jackie Chan as our leader cause we are doing just fine. Most minority groups have a "community leader" that speaks for the community, organizes the community, etc.. . Some may lead just the local community, but isn't that a start? You don't think having a "leader" would help your community? I'm not saying every black person is lost. Clearly that is not the case. But don't you think the black community needs to change at all? Or is it that everyone around them needs to change first? Like I said, racism is real. But how is the community helping themselves? Maybe they are and the rest of us just don't see it.

So then what do *you* think needs to happen in the black community? Maybe you are upper class, so this isn't your community. Then this doesn't really apply to you, does it.


Asians are doing just fine? Really? Then why are many of you fighting tooth and nail to get to the US? How are things in your home country? Everyone doing great and not in need of any great Asian leader? How...interesting.

BTW, there is no black community. There is a black race. This idea that we are all interconnected is false and needs to stop. It's asinine and small-minded thinking.


You're an idiot. Was I referring to the black community in Africa? Why are you referencing Asians from Asia? And BTW, it's not just the Asians fighting to get in here... so are the Africans, Hispanics, etc.

Asians in the US are doing fine.. there.. is that better? When they are not, there usually is a community leader that rallies people. As a whole, I would say Asians are faring better than blacks here. Yes, I know part of is racism, but not all of it is.

Fine..there is no black community. Your race is doing fine. There is no problem in the "black community" because there is no such thing as the "black community". There are aberrant black criminals, and because there are a few, now all black people are painted as criminals. All these issues in the non-existent black community is made up by the white people and the media controlled by the white people.

Does that make you feel better?


Well now that you put it that way, yes it does.


Again.. no intelligent answers, just flippant remarks - assuming you are the PPP. Then if you think there are no problems, case closed. Let's not belabor this issue. Move on.

Should I just tell Jeff to delete this thread since apparently there are no issues in the non-existent black community?


Case in point. White entitlement. You feel that you can now tell the web owner what threads to delete and close. LOL.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:53     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I really don't get the "black community" hate. I hear this by black people all the time. So, you think they are wrong, too? I'm thinking most black people in this country do use the term "black community".


There are MILLIONS of black people in the US from many different backgrounds. How can you make this assertion with a straight face?


I think recent African immigrants self-segregate from the American black community. So when people say "black community', they mean those that identify as American blacks, not those who are recent immigrants.

Most American blacks who have been here for generations do not say "Nigerian-American", "Kenyan-American", mostly because obviously they don't really know where their lineage comes from.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:53     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:20:40 you state that 50% of the black people you work with save for their children's college. The other 50% do not and do not think it is the best investment for their children. Are you telling me that 100% of white folks in America save for their children to attend college and 100% believe college is a good investment?


Whether you can save or not is obviously up to your income level -- but more than 50% of whites do think some kind of college is best for kids; I mean look at the rise of for profit universities and online colleges. I have not heard whites mock college and "book learning" the way I've heard blacks do so -- sorry -- just my experience. I'm sure I'll be told I'm wrong.


You're wrong. But we aren't really talking about more than 50%, but it was mighty white of you to move the goal post. Your original diatribe was 50% of blacks saved and talked about college. Whereas the other 50% of the 30 black folks you worked with did not. Again, for you, where are these 100% white folks who save for college?

Oh, and there was just within the last week a long thread from white posters stating that if they had to do it over, they would not go to college, but to trade school. There is another thread where posters state that they will not save for their children to attend college, as it would be best if the kid had some financial teeth in their own education. The demographics of DCUM skews white, middle class, female, so take the posts for what they are worth.


Talking about one race at 50% and another at more than 50% is not moving the goal post. Maybe take a statistics class. And the truth remains the same -- I have heard numerous blacks mock college and "book learning." This would be blacks living in big cities, not rural Alabama blacks. I don't hear that same mocking from big city whites.

And to those who said I worked with 30 black people in an office. Clearly you've never stepped foot in a large company in Philadelphia. You step foot into the departments of Comcast, Blue Cross & Blue Shield or another Phil. company -- departments that don't require a college degree like customer service or claims, you're not seeing 30 black people. You are seeing entire floors of black people. An all black department -- where you've got 100 out of 200 women taking an attitude about college, well that's at least 100 kids in North or West Philadelphia (and likely more as each woman generally has more than 1 kid) that are hearing from their moms that higher education does not matter. If you're already living in the ghetto (which both of those areas of Phil. are), you may want to keep your both shut about how education doesn't matter and help your kid figure out some way to get out of the hood -- lest he be hanging with the Michael Browns of the world.


Oh I understand. So for black folks its 50% who uphold the benefits of college, and 52, 53, 55% of white folks who do the same. White folks in America have always had free education at their advantage., so they should be at 100%, not over 50%. However, you don't or want to address that. More importantly, you think you can just exclude white folks living in suburbia, exurbia, and rural america from your numbers. Bitch bye.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:52     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:I really don't get the "black community" hate. I hear this by black people all the time. So, you think they are wrong, too? I'm thinking most black people in this country do use the term "black community".


I just posted, and I brought up that very same point.

I hear black community all the time. "In the black community, this is how we . . . "

OK - So it's not offensive - at least to some.

I mentioned how my community is my heritage, especially as a first generation who's bilingual. I am proud being part of this community. It's tied to a country, however, which may be the main difference.

Black community is defined how? as black American? as African American? And if it's the latter, how close are AAs to an African nation? Do most AAs trace their roots?


Eventually, we all lose ties, I imagine, as the older generation dies off.

So community takes on different meanings. I'm just not sure I'll be using it around others much longer . . .
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:49     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:So whites AND Asians are perfect parents is that the consensus here?


Don't you know.. Asians are the model minorities.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:48     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
Anonymous wrote:I really don't get the "black community" hate. I hear this by black people all the time. So, you think they are wrong, too? I'm thinking most black people in this country do use the term "black community".


There are MILLIONS of black people in the US from many different backgrounds. How can you make this assertion with a straight face?
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2014 21:47     Subject: s/o what are AA parents teaching their kids?
So whites AND Asians are perfect parents is that the consensus here?