Anonymous
02/23/2026 00:23
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
I wonder if the parents' purposely downsized early to avoid hosting the groom for stuff like this.
Yeah I’m sure they sold their house to avoid having their son and a few friends over for a few hours. Sure. Do you always have bizarre thoughts that you just wonder about?
Why don't they host then. The parents can get ready first and clear out and let the groomsmen and groom have space. Isn't that what parents do?
Anonymous
02/22/2026 23:42
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
I wonder if the parents' purposely downsized early to avoid hosting the groom for stuff like this.
Yeah I’m sure they sold their house to avoid having their son and a few friends over for a few hours. Sure. Do you always have bizarre thoughts that you just wonder about?
+1. Precisely my thought, too
Anonymous
02/22/2026 21:52
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
The little darling aka grown man getting married could also pay for it themselves.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 21:51
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
I wonder how many people slamming on are starting posts complaining about their in laws wanting to come for Thanksgiving.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 21:51
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
Every family event involving him will be like this.
Like what? He will come by and maybe eat something? The horror.
Did you not read the op's post? She's being asked to host 7 men for an unspecified number of hours so they can get ready for a wedding. Rather different.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 21:49
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
I wonder if the parents' purposely downsized early to avoid hosting the groom for stuff like this.
Lol, I could see that. They know he's a taker.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 20:03
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
Every family event involving him will be like this.
Like what? He will come by and maybe eat something? The horror.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 20:03
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
I wonder if the parents' purposely downsized early to avoid hosting the groom for stuff like this.
Yeah I’m sure they sold their house to avoid having their son and a few friends over for a few hours. Sure. Do you always have bizarre thoughts that you just wonder about?
Anonymous
02/22/2026 19:58
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
I wonder if the parents' purposely downsized early to avoid hosting the groom for stuff like this.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 19:22
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
He originally wanted to use the parents' home but it's too small. Let them pay for the little darling's hotel room.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 19:21
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
Every family event involving him will be like this.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 19:20
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
A woman is wrong if she does anything except acquiesce to her husband with joy and enthusiasm, duh.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 17:40
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I bet OP had to host them anyway and was just "venting" the way the usual doormats here do.
Funny calling op a doormat given the number of people on here attacking her for not jumping to pay for the hotel room for a group of grown men.
Either way OP won't get her way. Her BIL will show up because his brother invited him or she will be paying money for his room. Would be easier to just be go with the flow and let him get dressed for a few hours.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 17:28
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wonder how many people did this on their wedding day?
Ehh
Did what? Get ready with a wedding party of 6 at a sibling's home?
Yes
I don't know anyone who did but maybe it's expected somewhere.
Anonymous
02/22/2026 17:27
Subject: BIL wants to use our house to get ready for wedding — WWYD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wonder how many people did this on their wedding day?
Ehh
Did what? Get ready with a wedding party of 6 at a sibling's home?
Yes