Anonymous
Post 02/23/2026 16:41     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
I hadn’t considered the psychological benefits of safety yeses early in the process. That’s a good point. Also the PP who said it helped direct their ED2/RD decision.

I still recommend to my kids that they only need ONE actual, true safety that they would be happy to go to (based on my two oldest’s experiences) but I do see the points made here.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:20     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.


Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.


Agree.


Firmly disagree. Once you’ve completed the common app, another safety school costs nothing but the application fee. A deluge of rejections feels miserable. Apply to 1 safety for every reach.


Agree with this on the deluge of rejections. I think having a bunch of early YESes makes the process feel better.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:19     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.


Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.


Agree.


Firmly disagree. Once you’ve completed the common app, another safety school costs nothing but the application fee. A deluge of rejections feels miserable. Apply to 1 safety for every reach.


I disagree. My child spent about $600 on 6 safeties (Vermont, Clemson, Pitt, UGA, Wisconsin, etc) and wish they had stopped at Pitt and called it a day. There was just no point and wasted our money and their time and the admission's person time. Plus it cluttered up the field for classmates who really wanted to attend those schools. My kid ended up wit a LOT of rejections in RD but the safety admits didn't really ameliorate this at all..... getting into UGA didn't make them feel better about being rejected form Dartmouth or Penn


NP. I disagree. Getting the early merit $$$ admits from Pitt, Case, Vermont, CU-Boulder and Elon showed DC they had a very compelling app. So when deferred from their private T20 ED1, they DID NOT ED2. Instead, doubled down on RD reach - and ended up getting into 4 T20.

It was well worth it as a "sign" and for confidence. DC felt extremely good about the process and had high self-esteem. Even with multiple March rejections.....
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:15     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.


Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.


Agree.


Firmly disagree. Once you’ve completed the common app, another safety school costs nothing but the application fee. A deluge of rejections feels miserable. Apply to 1 safety for every reach.


I disagree. My child spent about $600 on 6 safeties (Vermont, Clemson, Pitt, UGA, Wisconsin, etc) and wish they had stopped at Pitt and called it a day. There was just no point and wasted our money and their time and the admission's person time. Plus it cluttered up the field for classmates who really wanted to attend those schools. My kid ended up wit a LOT of rejections in RD but the safety admits didn't really ameliorate this at all..... getting into UGA didn't make them feel better about being rejected form Dartmouth or Penn
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:09     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.


Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.


Agree.


Firmly disagree. Once you’ve completed the common app, another safety school costs nothing but the application fee. A deluge of rejections feels miserable. Apply to 1 safety for every reach.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:09     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:Literally everyone here will tell you not to ED to WASP if not FGLI or recruited athlete.
But non hooked regular smart kids get in ED. If it’s the first choice, and kid is competitive, don’t discourage from EDing


True. Our high stats DC applied ED to Pomona and did not get in. There was no real other candidate DC was that excited about, so we told her to acknowledge it was a high reach simply because it's a tiny school with few spots available for anyone - and DC is not FGLI or going in with the heavy hook of sports recruit. It was fine, because she wasn't giving up anything, as DC otherwise was only going to apply EA/RD to all the others. In hindsight it still was a waste of time to get hopes up and I rather would have spent time on targets.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 12:04     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.


Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.


Agree.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 11:22     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Literally everyone here will tell you not to ED to WASP if not FGLI or recruited athlete.
But non hooked regular smart kids get in ED. If it’s the first choice, and kid is competitive, don’t discourage from EDing
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 09:28     Subject: Re:Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:-Despite the various types of early admissions (EA, ED1, ED2, SCEA, REA etc.), many are still waiting for their regular round outcomes in March to make the final decision.

-My kid only applied to schools from the top 50, so he had do over a dozen applications to play safe. Looking back, he could have applied to fewer schools with a more targeted approach to save time and money (e.g., pick safeties that don’t require supplementals).


Or pick safeties that don’t require demonstrated interest.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 09:26     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We failed to realize that Questbridge and similar program admits are included in ED / REA stats.

This insight didn’t change much in the end, but it’s good context when thinking about weighing admissions odds.

Case study. Vanderbilt ED I and II had a combined acceptance rate of 11.9% this year. According to them, 50% of the admits came from FGLI, rural areas, and international.

On top of that, remove the athletes and other hooked admits.

In the end, there was not much room for regular, full pay smart kids.


But a Vanderbilt deferral from early means something. They admit a fair number of those kids in regular decision over the ordinary RD applicants. If it is a top choice, you’re better off trying for an early deferral.


I agree with this. Vanderbilt RD last year was a total impossibility. Like a 2% admit rate and i think this included the deferred kids.
I know multiple HYP RD admits from our school who were outright denied at Vany. My own kid was admitted to 2 "lesser" Ivies in RD and denied from Vandy.


Ha. They aren’t lesser than Vandy.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 02:59     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Definitely apply to Canadian universities! McGill and UofT don't require any essays, just scores and UofT asks for an activity list.

UBC is phenomenal but does require several supplemental essays, FYI. If you want to study econ, try for the elite international economics degree cohort at Vancouver School of Economics/UBC. It's very exclusive (only 100 spots) but you get a lot of extra perks.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 23:33     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Don't feel pressured to apply anywhere ED1 or ED2. EA, REA and rolling admission are all great options.

Don't apply to 3+ safeties. 2 safeties that your DC would be happy to attend is sufficient.

Too many applications leads to burnout.

Take a trip with your DC that is not college related just to have fun, even if it's only for a long weekend 1:1 and bond and tell them you love them and are proud of them while you are waiting for decisions.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 17:34     Subject: Re:Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Fewer, and targeted applications. Only apply to safety/likely that you could see yourself at. If your kid doesn’t want you to read essays or “manage” the process, respect that. If they want more support, try to help. Remind them often that you love them and that their worth is not tied to their college (or GPA, SAT, etc).
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 15:22     Subject: Re:Lessons learned: 2025-2026
-Despite the various types of early admissions (EA, ED1, ED2, SCEA, REA etc.), many are still waiting for their regular round outcomes in March to make the final decision.

-My kid only applied to schools from the top 50, so he had do over a dozen applications to play safe. Looking back, he could have applied to fewer schools with a more targeted approach to save time and money (e.g., pick safeties that don’t require supplementals).
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2026 15:09     Subject: Lessons learned: 2025-2026
Learn which schools value demonstrated interest and get that done in junior year/summer.

Way too late to start in senior year.