Anonymous wrote:I guess Oher would have been much better off just depending on his biological parents. They seemed like two great role models (a crack addict and a felon).

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Anonymous wrote:As several have pointed out, there’s no significant royalties on a project like that. They spent more on him via housing clothing tutoring etc than they ever profited from him. And like it or not Leigh Ann’s character is half the movie so she does have the right to talk about that, just like he does. They are hundred millionaires and did not need to take on a high school kid with nfl potential to make money.

He burned through his NFL money and his wife is pressuring him to get paid somehow I bet. He should have a trust fund from the tuohys if they really feel like he is their son as they claim, but he cut them off years ago ironically right when he married his wife. This is a family and likely DIL issue that everyone wants to turn into a larger social issue.

Any factual evidence that the Tuohy's spent so much money on Oher, or that Oher burned through his funds? Or, are you just going to spout stereotypes in order to paint your false narrative that the Tuohy's are saviors?

NP. This story has been out there for a long, long time. If Oher is not mentally incompetent, which he claims he is not, he’s had plenty of time to figure out wrong doing.

This is a witch hunt against a white, southern family. An opportunity to perpetuate the “white savior” narrative. It’s disgusting. It’s alienating. It does nothing to further race relations.

The only people perpetuating the "white savior" narrative are the Tuohy's and people defending them. If the Tuohy's did not want negative backlash, perhaps they should have given Oher the same royalties that their own children allegedly received.

There is by no means a "witch hunt", when the Tuohy's have demonstrated what famewhores they are.

Not true.

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Anonymous wrote:As several have pointed out, there’s no significant royalties on a project like that. They spent more on him via housing clothing tutoring etc than they ever profited from him. And like it or not Leigh Ann’s character is half the movie so she does have the right to talk about that, just like he does. They are hundred millionaires and did not need to take on a high school kid with nfl potential to make money.

He burned through his NFL money and his wife is pressuring him to get paid somehow I bet. He should have a trust fund from the tuohys if they really feel like he is their son as they claim, but he cut them off years ago ironically right when he married his wife. This is a family and likely DIL issue that everyone wants to turn into a larger social issue.

Any factual evidence that the Tuohy's spent so much money on Oher, or that Oher burned through his funds? Or, are you just going to spout stereotypes in order to paint your false narrative that the Tuohy's are saviors?

NP. This story has been out there for a long, long time. If Oher is not mentally incompetent, which he claims he is not, he’s had plenty of time to figure out wrong doing.

This is a witch hunt against a white, southern family. An opportunity to perpetuate the “white savior” narrative. It’s disgusting. It’s alienating. It does nothing to further race relations.

Anonymous wrote:As several have pointed out, there’s no significant royalties on a project like that. They spent more on him via housing clothing tutoring etc than they ever profited from him. And like it or not Leigh Ann’s character is half the movie so she does have the right to talk about that, just like he does. They are hundred millionaires and did not need to take on a high school kid with nfl potential to make money.

He burned through his NFL money and his wife is pressuring him to get paid somehow I bet. He should have a trust fund from the tuohys if they really feel like he is their son as they claim, but he cut them off years ago ironically right when he married his wife. This is a family and likely DIL issue that everyone wants to turn into a larger social issue.

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Anonymous wrote:He’s despicable. Wouldn’t be who he is without them. All the kids deserved cash from the movie if their likeness is used, and $250,000 isn’t much.

He was already a football star before living with the Tuohys. I don’t think they changed the trajectory of his career except influence his choice of college.

He wouldn’t have been able to play at any college with those grades. The Tuohys did hire Ms Sue and she dramatically helped his GPA. That part is true.

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Anonymous wrote:Sandra Bullock is reportedly upset about this news.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12410311/The-Blind-Sandra-Bullock-heartbroken-Michael-Oher-LIE-Bryan-Randall.html

Daily Mail reported she was breaking up with her partner when he was actually dying. They are not a reliable source.

Anonymous wrote:I guess Oher would have been much better off just depending on his biological parents. They seemed like two great role models (a crack addict and a felon).

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Anonymous wrote:Just wanting to throw out some thoughts:

If you are savvy business people like the Tuhey's are, you may talk to Oher about capitalizing on their story. And it's not JUST Oher's story. It's all of theirs. And they all should profit. It sucks if Oher didn't get anything from the conservatorship - he should and hopefully that'll come out in the courts. But if they all profited from it, I think that's fair.

For Oher to now say that her work (marketing, traveling and doing the speaking circuit, writing her speeches, performing them, etc.) all that money should go to him is ridiculous. He should do the speaking circuit and make his own money using the story.

If Oher never went and lived with them, do you think there would even be a book? movie? speaking opportunities? No. Those all happened because of the Tuheys. Yes, it was based on him. But based on the whole family too. I read that they each got $14,000 for the movie. That's it. But for all these other opportunities I think Oher is trying for a money grab without realizing that the family made it what it is today.

Bottom line is there are a lot of us that have riveting stories that, with the right connections, startup money and/or business savvy could make some buck off of. Just having a story doesn't get you everything Oher is asking for.

So how are you paid by the Singer Media Manipulation team? How much?

They had no story without him and lied to him and all of us. How cheap not to share the royalties with him. Thanks for verifying that everything they did was about making another buck for them and getting lots of attention for themselves. What goooood people they are.

Nope. I'm making some valid points. You saying I'm part of a media team is funny.

They had no story without him

There would be no story without the family either.

Not true. Oher had other people that were helping him, including a friend's father who introduced him to the principal of the private school where he played football. Oher had played football before and could have found success without the Tuohy family.

But - I still go back to asking why should he get all the money she made by going around giving speeches? She writes them, she advertised and marketed herself to get the invites/contracts, and she performs them. I've never seen anything she's done but if they are about HER perspective and HER experience with Oher then she has every right to make money doing it.

Oher's not asking for all the money, just a cut of what should be his-which is not unreasonable. No one would be paying attention to Leigh Anne without Oher's name. If Leigh Anne wants to be a motivational speaker on her own merits, and not pay him, perhaps she should refrain from speaking about him. Let's face it, without Oher, the Tuohy's are just another rich white family.

I agree. Tuohys should be ashamed but they aren’t. They have made millions in speaking fees over the years and they never adopted him.

Anonymous wrote:pp here again. I look at it this way.

Let's say I am really talented and invent a widget. Some family takes me into their home and I sign a contract with them. The family takes my invention and grows it into this huge industry. I make millions on my own with my widget. But the family also makes millions on the business they built off my widget.

1. I should definitely get royalties off the widget. (So I agree Oher should get $$ for the book, movie,)
2. If family builds side businesses off how the widget became a huge industry by starting a foundation, going on speaking circuits, and doing whatever else the family comes up with - I shouldn't get that money.
3. If I want to start my own side businesses off my widget - I should do that, same as the family, and earn my own extra money with those.


I do think it's sad if this truly was just a business arrangement for the family, but maybe it wasn't. I'd like to think that they originally took him in because they cared, but then maybe saw a money making opportunity and went that way. Which is sad, but if it's the way I see it above, sounds like it was fair (if he did get his portion of the money owed.)

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Anonymous wrote:My confusion is why did this take so long to come out. He was recently married- wonder if the wife uncovered any of this? Or does she want more?

He became aware that all 4 members of the Touey family were getting royalties from the movie while he was getting nothing. When he questioned good ole dad he didn't get straight answers. He hired a lawyer to look in to this and that's when they discovered he was never adopted. The discovery took a lot of time. He has been working on this for some time.

It's interesting that they claim he blackmailed them and said he go to the press with bad stories about them if they didn't give him a bunch of money. How manipulative. He probably told them pay me a portion of the proceeds you've made off of me or I will go public. That's hardly blackmail. What horribly manipulative dishonest people. Gross.

?? Thats the literally the definition of blackmail....

Anonymous wrote:This is all you need to know about this family:

"We divided it five ways," the Tuohys wrote in their 2010 book, "In a Heartbeat: Sharing the Power of Cheerful Giving."

Um, it should have been divided in HALF. 50 to Michael and 50 to the family. Why are they getting 4/5 of the cut?!!

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Anonymous wrote:This has been said earlier but Michael Lewis is a serious journalist (Moneyball, the Big Short). Has anyone actually read the book that the movie was based on? How could Lewis have missed these details (unless he was blinded by his friendship?)

The book and the movie are very different. John Lee Hancock wrote the script and directed the movie. He was the one that took extreme liberties with the story and the Tuohys had final approval on Michael’s behalf as his conservators.

The Tuohys become Oher’s legal guardian (ie conservator) in the movie. We don’t know if they ever approved any financial decisions on his behalf. It could be that the conservatorship was established to satisfy the NCAA but never had enforced by the Tuohys.

The Tuohys have already admitted that they weren’t keeping with filing annual financial documents with the court as mandated as conservators. They’re in trouble and should settle.

If all they did was not file then no they are not really in trouble. They should have or should have terminated it but it is really no harm no foul in a case like this. It would surprise me if there were any transaction or money since the movie. His nfl money did not go there. Most likely this was just dormant.

Now if there were transactions and they did not file then yes there would be issues.

But what this sounds like is that this was set up at the time he went to ole miss to get around some ncaa rules on financial support. It was then never used. It would surprise me a bit if there even was a bank account over the last 15 years.

I think it's something like this. The conservatorship was done for convenience and then not used. It should have been terminated, but maybe the Tuohys didn't want the publicity? Which isn't right. They should have worked something out.

What would make you think that? I think a desire to promote his new book plus lingering bad feelings are likely the cause. It seems like he has been estranged from them for a while.


No doubt he is flat out if cash. His nfl pension will pay a ton but not until age 55.

Anonymous wrote:The judge who approved Michael Oher’s conservatorship told Bloomberg Law no case papers ever crossed his desk after the initial approval. Records show the system wasn’t watching at all for nearly two decades.
https://news.bloomberglaw.com/us-law-week/blind-side-revelations-expose-flimsy-conservatorship-oversight

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Clearly he has spent all his money.

What would make you think that? I think a desire to promote his new book plus lingering bad feelings are likely the cause. It seems like he has been estranged from them for a while.