Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 23:17     Subject: Re:Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was at an Ivy starting 2002, and everyone my freshman year knew what’s up, even the middle class ones. And Internet was already a thing then.


+100

Same here. Graduated from HYP in 2006.


Mid 90s HYP grad. We all had internships during the summers, especially during the later years of college. It was definitely a thing then. I could not afford an unpaid internship either so I interned during the day and waited tables at night.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:52     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...


PP. 100%. And even those that make partner don’t have a guarantee that they’ll have their jobs forever. You build the book or you get cut.

But! Those jobs are great credentials and springboards. I knew several kids who did banking > PE/hedge fund. Or people who did Big Law > in house at a well paying company. That’s why I’m always perplexed when people deride people for taking them because they “only care about money”. Money is a factor no doubt, but those jobs open amazing doors and opportunities. They create a high floor - that’s the real value in doing those jobs for a few years out of school.


Yet another thing UMC student might know, but for someone who had first heard of investment banking AT THE JOB FAIR, probably not on their radar. The only banker I knew gave us a toaster for opening an account.


PP. I was a MC kid of color who learned this freshman/sophomore year attending job fairs and speaking with other students. Again, in the aughts, but the information was there if you were willing to be proactive. (I heard kids in class talking about it and I wasn't even an econ major. That's how pervasive these jobs were at my UG.)

Perhaps it was different in the 90s. I definitely made my fair share of mistakes navigating this UMC world, but this was definitely knowable in the 2000s forward.


Going to jobs fairs as a freshman? Was that a thing? I think ours were limited to upper class man but maybe I imagined it.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:51     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...


PP. 100%. And even those that make partner don’t have a guarantee that they’ll have their jobs forever. You build the book or you get cut.

But! Those jobs are great credentials and springboards. I knew several kids who did banking > PE/hedge fund. Or people who did Big Law > in house at a well paying company. That’s why I’m always perplexed when people deride people for taking them because they “only care about money”. Money is a factor no doubt, but those jobs open amazing doors and opportunities. They create a high floor - that’s the real value in doing those jobs for a few years out of school.


Yet another thing UMC student might know, but for someone who had first heard of investment banking AT THE JOB FAIR, probably not on their radar. The only banker I knew gave us a toaster for opening an account.


PP. I was a MC kid of color who learned this freshman/sophomore year attending job fairs and speaking with other students. Again, in the aughts, but the information was there if you were willing to be proactive. (I heard kids in class talking about it and I wasn't even an econ major. That's how pervasive these jobs were at my UG.)

Perhaps it was different in the 90s. I definitely made my fair share of mistakes navigating this UMC world, but this was definitely knowable in the 2000s forward.


After the dot.com and the start of the housing bubble, discussing money and definitely changed. I was in tech fields so lots of my class mates were future professors and doctors, no one talked about IB until sr year offers were discussed ($100k vs $50k). Definitely nobody ever talked about doing IB for a few year and pivoting — IB bros we’re gunning for partner.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:31     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...


PP. 100%. And even those that make partner don’t have a guarantee that they’ll have their jobs forever. You build the book or you get cut.

But! Those jobs are great credentials and springboards. I knew several kids who did banking > PE/hedge fund. Or people who did Big Law > in house at a well paying company. That’s why I’m always perplexed when people deride people for taking them because they “only care about money”. Money is a factor no doubt, but those jobs open amazing doors and opportunities. They create a high floor - that’s the real value in doing those jobs for a few years out of school.


Yet another thing UMC student might know, but for someone who had first heard of investment banking AT THE JOB FAIR, probably not on their radar. The only banker I knew gave us a toaster for opening an account.


PP. I was a MC kid of color who learned this freshman/sophomore year attending job fairs and speaking with other students. Again, in the aughts, but the information was there if you were willing to be proactive. (I heard kids in class talking about it and I wasn't even an econ major. That's how pervasive these jobs were at my UG.)

Perhaps it was different in the 90s. I definitely made my fair share of mistakes navigating this UMC world, but this was definitely knowable in the 2000s forward.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:12     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:On campus recruiting. It’s a fairly formal process where students drop their resumes and firms fly out teams of people to conduct interviews on campus. (For example, when I was in college, all the banks interviewed over a week or two. So you would see students in class in suits as they had interviews in between classes.)

Top candidates are then flown to the home office for a second round of interviews, typically lasting a day. Successful candidates then get an offer whether it’s for an internship or a Ft job.

In some industries (banking, consulting, law), you have to get the summer internship to get the job. It’s nearly impossible to just interview in your last year as nearly all spots have been filled.


My top school but not ivy did not have this in the 90s. Or if it happened, it wasn't widely publicized. No one wearing suits in class or anything. I don't remember seeing anyone in a suit on my campus in four years.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:02     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...


PP. 100%. And even those that make partner don’t have a guarantee that they’ll have their jobs forever. You build the book or you get cut.

But! Those jobs are great credentials and springboards. I knew several kids who did banking > PE/hedge fund. Or people who did Big Law > in house at a well paying company. That’s why I’m always perplexed when people deride people for taking them because they “only care about money”. Money is a factor no doubt, but those jobs open amazing doors and opportunities. They create a high floor - that’s the real value in doing those jobs for a few years out of school.


Yet another thing UMC student might know, but for someone who had first heard of investment banking AT THE JOB FAIR, probably not on their radar. The only banker I knew gave us a toaster for opening an account.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 22:00     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:On campus recruiting. It’s a fairly formal process where students drop their resumes and firms fly out teams of people to conduct interviews on campus. (For example, when I was in college, all the banks interviewed over a week or two. So you would see students in class in suits as they had interviews in between classes.)

Top candidates are then flown to the home office for a second round of interviews, typically lasting a day. Successful candidates then get an offer whether it’s for an internship or a Ft job.

In some industries (banking, consulting, law), you have to get the summer internship to get the job. It’s nearly impossible to just interview in your last year as nearly all spots have been filled.


Oh that’s actually good to know. I spent my last summer in college on a cross country bus tour with my family because my mom wanted “one last trip” before I left school. I didn’t want to disappoint her so just took odd jobs that summer — so my ignorance about internships weight already had scuttled those options before I even started looking at jobs. Actually makes me feel a bit better.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 21:41     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...


PP. 100%. And even those that make partner don’t have a guarantee that they’ll have their jobs forever. You build the book or you get cut.

But! Those jobs are great credentials and springboards. I knew several kids who did banking > PE/hedge fund. Or people who did Big Law > in house at a well paying company. That’s why I’m always perplexed when people deride people for taking them because they “only care about money”. Money is a factor no doubt, but those jobs open amazing doors and opportunities. They create a high floor - that’s the real value in doing those jobs for a few years out of school.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 21:35     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


It wasn’t about which jobs made the “most money”.

It was about how to have even a modest UMC lifestyle in urban areas required a job like that. Simply being a professional was in no way a path to a comfortable life

For me, I wasn’t interested in being rich, I wanted to have a comfortable life in a better place than the backwater I grew up, and I thought working in most professional careers would afford that. I was wrong. You have to be laser focused on maximizing income, networking, and considering employee prestige as a stepping stone to future career paths.

The people going into Bain and Goldman literally idolized Gordon Gecko; I was more interested in being living like Family Ties — whose dad was a manager at the local PBS station! Sure being a doctor or lawyer is less about the Benjamin’s, but for many of us the debt was a showstopper (some PP keeps saying working class asians go to med school all the time, but I know a LOT of Asian doctors and all of them had doctors for parents OR they owned a successful chain of stores — none were working class, maybe they arrived as working class but at the time med school came around it was different).

It wasn’t just “which careers paid the most money” — it was HOW much more money they paid down the full career path (I knew folks hired by Goldman making $100k ; my bio contracting gig was paying $50k — didn’t seem like huge difference, but of course subsequent years it’s laughable how it diverges). More importantly, the knowledge of how expensive that Keaton lifestyle really was (no Zillow yet, no online shopping, car guides were going to library for KBB), that was the real knowledge I was missing. I thought if I just got a professional job and worked hard, I could live okay. I’m leagues better off than my parents even before considering my spouses income, so there is that. But I realize now how I could have allowed my spouse to retire early, funded my children’s future, if I had just made a few different choices.



+1 totally agree. Obviously it was clear what jobs would pay you the most straight out of college. If you wanted to maximize your income, obviously at the time investment banking, hedge funds etc were the way to go. But I think it seemed like "the world is your oyster" in terms of other "interesting" / meaningful jobs that you assumed would also lead to a comfortable UMC lifestyle (whatever that means). And that's where some people feel like those early choices undermined their LT prospects.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 21:33     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


Those jobs are all pyramid schemes. For everyone who starts around 10% are there 10 years later...
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 21:19     Subject: Squandered elite education

On campus recruiting. It’s a fairly formal process where students drop their resumes and firms fly out teams of people to conduct interviews on campus. (For example, when I was in college, all the banks interviewed over a week or two. So you would see students in class in suits as they had interviews in between classes.)

Top candidates are then flown to the home office for a second round of interviews, typically lasting a day. Successful candidates then get an offer whether it’s for an internship or a Ft job.

In some industries (banking, consulting, law), you have to get the summer internship to get the job. It’s nearly impossible to just interview in your last year as nearly all spots have been filled.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 20:14     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


OCR? optical character recognition?
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 20:10     Subject: Squandered elite education

Anonymous wrote:The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.


It wasn’t about which jobs made the “most money”.

It was about how to have even a modest UMC lifestyle in urban areas required a job like that. Simply being a professional was in no way a path to a comfortable life

For me, I wasn’t interested in being rich, I wanted to have a comfortable life in a better place than the backwater I grew up, and I thought working in most professional careers would afford that. I was wrong. You have to be laser focused on maximizing income, networking, and considering employee prestige as a stepping stone to future career paths.

The people going into Bain and Goldman literally idolized Gordon Gecko; I was more interested in being living like Family Ties — whose dad was a manager at the local PBS station! Sure being a doctor or lawyer is less about the Benjamin’s, but for many of us the debt was a showstopper (some PP keeps saying working class asians go to med school all the time, but I know a LOT of Asian doctors and all of them had doctors for parents OR they owned a successful chain of stores — none were working class, maybe they arrived as working class but at the time med school came around it was different).

It wasn’t just “which careers paid the most money” — it was HOW much more money they paid down the full career path (I knew folks hired by Goldman making $100k ; my bio contracting gig was paying $50k — didn’t seem like huge difference, but of course subsequent years it’s laughable how it diverges). More importantly, the knowledge of how expensive that Keaton lifestyle really was (no Zillow yet, no online shopping, car guides were going to library for KBB), that was the real knowledge I was missing. I thought if I just got a professional job and worked hard, I could live okay. I’m leagues better off than my parents even before considering my spouses income, so there is that. But I realize now how I could have allowed my spouse to retire early, funded my children’s future, if I had just made a few different choices.

Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 19:58     Subject: Squandered elite education

The thread has obviously moved on from OP’s specific situation to a general conversation about what information sharing looked like in the late 90s when it came to the job hunt.

I’m a millennial who will concede that the Internet wasn’t as helpful back in the late 90s. It was immensely helpful to me in the late aughts. But I haven’t seen anyone answer the question of whether or not they noticed tons of kids (juniors in the spring, seniors in the fall) interviewing en masse at all there big employers. Was OCR not a thing in the 90s? Even when I was in school, my top 10 university frequently boasted about how many of its students went to Goldman or JP Morgan, McKinsey or Bain, Harvard Law or Stanford Med. Were they not doing that either in the 90s? Genuinely curious.
Anonymous
Post 11/28/2022 10:29     Subject: Squandered elite education

Been having similar thoughts lately OP. I do think reading DCUM gives one a skewed perspective on how much money most people make. The median earnings for people with advanced degrees in the DC area is just over $100k. From reading DCUM you would think those are poverty wages lol

But I definitely feel that sense of regret that I did not plan better. I remember when I was in high school I thought wanting to make money was a bad thing. Now it's clear that everyone needs to make money. And my "public service" job isn't exactly saving the world every day, so yeah if I could go back I might chase the money a little more. That being said, I do appreciate that I can pick up my child from daycare at 4:30 and actually spend time with her, while making a decent six-figure salary while not making Jeff Bezos richer. So I try to remind myself that the grass is not always greener.