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Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I have a huge crush on someone I work with. Completely happy in my life/marriage. But this won’t go away...

How long have you crushed on this person? What is it about this person that causes you to have a huge crush?

A little less than a year.
He is genuinely vulnerable - and cares about and seeks out my emotional vulnerability as far as improving as a person. He thinks I’m smart. Constantly connecting with me. Tough to explain.
He is not in my office/city.

Hook up with him and report back.

It has not gone a sexual direction.
Which probably makes me crush harder.

Long distance crush? How do you connect emotionally when you do not physically work together?

There is travel. But also constant communication via email/phone.

Make a separate thread.

+1000

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Anonymous wrote:I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

Have you tried desensitization therapy? It's when they give you shots with minuscule dozes of the allergen to desensitize your body. It works for many people. Not as easy as getting rid of the dog, though.

Yup, I get shots 2x a week. We have hepatitis filters all over our house, dog isn’t allowed in the bedroom, I don’t bathe him or brush him. We vacuum often. Not sure what else to do.

Erm... hepa filters. Thanks auto-correct!

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Anonymous wrote:I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

Have you tried desensitization therapy? It's when they give you shots with minuscule dozes of the allergen to desensitize your body. It works for many people. Not as easy as getting rid of the dog, though.

Yup, I get shots 2x a week. We have hepatitis filters all over our house, dog isn’t allowed in the bedroom, I don’t bathe him or brush him. We vacuum often. Not sure what else to do.

Anonymous wrote:I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

Have you tried desensitization therapy? It's when they give you shots with minuscule dozes of the allergen to desensitize your body. It works for many people. Not as easy as getting rid of the dog, though.

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Anonymous wrote:I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

Is he going out of town anytime soon?

Ha, why do you ask?

Actually I don’t need to get it off my chest - I will be so glad when my mother in law is gone. She is huge PITA. She has now boundaries, zero common sense, always intruding on our lives. If she wakes up at 2 am and wants us to remind her of something. Guess what - she calls us at 2am. What is wrong with keeping a pencil and paper next to her bed?

The sad thing is she will go at the most inconvenient time. She never grew up

Anonymous wrote:I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

Is he going out of town anytime soon?

I got a rescue dog because my husband really wanted one, and it turns out I am very allergic and am trying everything to not have allergic reactions, but I kind of hate having the dog. I am not sure what to do because my husband loves him so much. Sigh.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty close with the manager of your new job. I wouldn't be so quick to put in your 2 weeks.

Are you going to get her fired from her new job?

Yes.

Why?

I’m happily married, but would love to see my high school love. It’s been years and I’ll never forget him.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm pretty close with the manager of your new job. I wouldn't be so quick to put in your 2 weeks.

Are you going to get her fired from her new job?

Yes.

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What did she do and how will you get her fired? I’m kinda into this one if the person deserves it!

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Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I have a huge crush on someone I work with. Completely happy in my life/marriage. But this won’t go away...

How long have you crushed on this person? What is it about this person that causes you to have a huge crush?

A little less than a year.
He is genuinely vulnerable - and cares about and seeks out my emotional vulnerability as far as improving as a person. He thinks I’m smart. Constantly connecting with me. Tough to explain.
He is not in my office/city.

Hook up with him and report back.

It has not gone a sexual direction.
Which probably makes me crush harder.

Long distance crush? How do you connect emotionally when you do not physically work together?

There is travel. But also constant communication via email/phone.

Make a separate thread.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I have a huge crush on someone I work with. Completely happy in my life/marriage. But this won’t go away...

How long have you crushed on this person? What is it about this person that causes you to have a huge crush?

A little less than a year.
He is genuinely vulnerable - and cares about and seeks out my emotional vulnerability as far as improving as a person. He thinks I’m smart. Constantly connecting with me. Tough to explain.
He is not in my office/city.

Hook up with him and report back.

It has not gone a sexual direction.
Which probably makes me crush harder.

Long distance crush? How do you connect emotionally when you do not physically work together?

There is travel. But also constant communication via email/phone.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I have a huge crush on someone I work with. Completely happy in my life/marriage. But this won’t go away...

How long have you crushed on this person? What is it about this person that causes you to have a huge crush?

A little less than a year.
He is genuinely vulnerable - and cares about and seeks out my emotional vulnerability as far as improving as a person. He thinks I’m smart. Constantly connecting with me. Tough to explain.
He is not in my office/city.

Hook up with him and report back.

It has not gone a sexual direction.
Which probably makes me crush harder.

Long distance crush? How do you connect emotionally when you do not physically work together?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Woman here. I have a huge crush on someone I work with. Completely happy in my life/marriage. But this won’t go away...

How long have you crushed on this person? What is it about this person that causes you to have a huge crush?

A little less than a year.
He is genuinely vulnerable - and cares about and seeks out my emotional vulnerability as far as improving as a person. He thinks I’m smart. Constantly connecting with me. Tough to explain.
He is not in my office/city.

Hook up with him and report back.

It has not gone a sexual direction.
Which probably makes me crush harder.