Anonymous wrote:I fold his clothes but don’t put them away, and he does the same for me. It would never even occur to me to put his clothes away for him since I have no idea where anything goes, and I would get annoyed if he put my stuff in the wrong place. It works for us!
My elementary school aged kid are also responsible for putting their own clothes away, but I sometimes do it.
As a Type A person I organize and clean out DH's drawers and closet every quarter. (He'd like it if I bought all the clothes and purged clothes too). So yeah I know exactly where all of his things go. If left to his own mess, DH's drawers and closets would be a disaster. He cooks, grocery shops and pulls his weight in other areas, but organizing is my sphere in our marriage.