Anonymous wrote:For the same reason my children will never be in aftercare, they will never marry children of divorced parents.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

Oh, so it was recent. Sorry for bringing it up.

Really, how can you say these types of things to another person? Even anonymously on the internet? How can you live with yourself?

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Anonymous wrote:For the same reason my children will never be in aftercare, they will never marry children of divorced parents.

Controlling much, mommy dearest?

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Anonymous wrote:Working moms always want to hear how progressive and educated they are and how they are providing and setting a good example for their children not to rely on a man for $.

In reality though: working moms bewilder me. When you consider the thought people put into getting a dog for example- whether the dog will have space to run, enough time for walks, enough time to spend with it each day. It's sad to see that people don't put this forethought into bringing an actual human being into the world. If you are having children to put them in daycare, aftercare, whatever, then you're showing that your child that your priority is your job, your career, your happiness and your poor child is less than a dog. I'm sorry if you don't want to hear this.

Did your mom work? Did you feel like she cared more for the dog than you while you were finger painting with your friends? I'm sorry to hear that but that was symptomatic of your mom's poor parenting skills, nothing to do with her working. She would have been just a crappy mom at home, if not worse.

- Daughter of a working mom & working dad

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Anonymous wrote:For the same reason my children will never be in aftercare, they will never marry children of divorced parents.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

Oh, so it was recent. Sorry for bringing it up.

Anonymous wrote:Working moms always want to hear how progressive and educated they are and how they are providing and setting a good example for their children not to rely on a man for $.

In reality though: working moms bewilder me. When you consider the thought people put into getting a dog for example- whether the dog will have space to run, enough time for walks, enough time to spend with it each day. It's sad to see that people don't put this forethought into bringing an actual human being into the world. If you are having children to put them in daycare, aftercare, whatever, then you're showing that your child that your priority is your job, your career, your happiness and your poor child is less than a dog. I'm sorry if you don't want to hear this.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread makes no sense. This is the daycare mindset so why are you surprised? You drop your kids off to be raised by someone else at 3 months old, hardly see them until they are 14, then you justify it by saying they need you now, right before they leave for college. Those are the only 4 years that matter. Then you pat yourself on the back for being a good mom and in 15 years you will wonder why your kids don't have time for you.

Well, since you obviously have the intellectual capacity of a small child, it's no wonder you're confused. That must really suck for you.

I know it hurts to hear that you should give your kids up for adoption but maybe the new parents will let you visit on weekend mornings. That is what you want anyway, right?

No. What I really, really want is for people like you to engage in therapy to understand why you are so damaged and small-minded. The world would be a much better place.

Why do people like you avoid birth control if you know you are going to neglect your kids or kill the ones who come at the wrong time? You need help because you are evil and cruel. Babies deserve better.

You are totally fucking insane.

How many babies have you killed? Yes, it counts if you were just a scared teenager.

Please refer to my previous comment.

Oh, so it was recent. Sorry for bringing it up.

Anonymous wrote:I was raised by two full-time working parents. Mom put in 40 hrs/week M-F and spent 2.5 years working all day Saturdays while she wrote a book and we had movie day with Dad. I'm a 4th generation working mom and I LOVED my childhood. If you're assuming your kids will spend all of the after school hours missing you, you probably didn't have a working mom, right? Or you didn't have many friends as a child? Those of us who actually grew up as the children of these kinds of mothers know how wonderful a family life can be with two working parents. I choose to work because I know it's best, not just for our bank account, but for my child. If you doubt that, then go for a different decision. That's fine and I'm sure that can work out great too. But you're making a straw man argument - the notion that daycare harms kids was debunked in the 80s. If you want to keep arguing it, feel free but there's no evidence to back you up.

Anonymous wrote:Working moms always want to hear how progressive and educated they are and how they are providing and setting a good example for their children not to rely on a man for $.

In reality though: working moms bewilder me. When you consider the thought people put into getting a dog for example- whether the dog will have space to run, enough time for walks, enough time to spend with it each day. It's sad to see that people don't put this forethought into bringing an actual human being into the world. If you are having children to put them in daycare, aftercare, whatever, then you're showing that your child that your priority is your job, your career, your happiness and your poor child is less than a dog. I'm sorry if you don't want to hear this.