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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

PP is trying to tell us that she’s had more male interest than Mindy and therefore couldn’t be threatened by her.

Why would anyone be threatened by her? What’s the supposed threat?

That's she's funny (at least funnier than you). And way more successful. And definitely smarter. And brown.

But she will always be the former fat girl and those unflattering photos will live in infamy and she can't stand it.

She clearly thinks this.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

She could just own up to it but instead she pretends she hikes a lot.

I hope you are willing to disclose all your private information to the world since you seem to expect that of others.

I mean she told us that she hikes. She could have said she does nothing but eat bonbons. She put it out there.

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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

PP is trying to tell us that she’s had more male interest than Mindy and therefore couldn’t be threatened by her.

Why would anyone be threatened by her? What’s the supposed threat?

That's she's funny (at least funnier than you). And way more successful. And definitely smarter. And brown.

But she will always be the former fat girl and those unflattering photos will live in infamy and she can't stand it.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

She could just own up to it but instead she pretends she hikes a lot.

Who cares.

Well, you do. Since mentioning it makes you angry enough to respond.

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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

PP is trying to tell us that she’s had more male interest than Mindy and therefore couldn’t be threatened by her.

Why would anyone be threatened by her? What’s the supposed threat?

That's she's funny (at least funnier than you). And way more successful. And definitely smarter. And brown.

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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

Her whole relationship with BJ reeks of low self worth and insecurity.

I'm sure you know all the inns and outs in your parasocial relationship with BJ and Mindy.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

She could just own up to it but instead she pretends she hikes a lot.

Who cares.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

She could just own up to it but instead she pretends she hikes a lot.

I hope you are willing to disclose all your private information to the world since you seem to expect that of others.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

I saw an interview of her from two weeks ago about her weight loss. She literally said no one should be surprised because she has wanted to be thin her whole life and now she is and she’s thrilled.

If she were a regular person, I would probably judge her a little. I think she has always been pretty, but I cannot imagine how hard it must be to look less than “ideal” beauty standards in Hollywood. Of course, she didn’t magically lose her insecurity.

She should do what she wants. I do wish she would just say she’s taking the GLPs because no way would she be unsuccessful losing weight in her 20s but successful in her 40s. But anyway, that’s a minor point.

It is actually really common for women to embrace health and fitness for the first time after having their kids and realizing they need to invest more time in building strength and doing things that improve energy levels. Whereas many women in their 20s eat like crap, drink, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

She could just own up to it but instead she pretends she hikes a lot.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

I saw an interview of her from two weeks ago about her weight loss. She literally said no one should be surprised because she has wanted to be thin her whole life and now she is and she’s thrilled.

If she were a regular person, I would probably judge her a little. I think she has always been pretty, but I cannot imagine how hard it must be to look less than “ideal” beauty standards in Hollywood. Of course, she didn’t magically lose her insecurity.

She should do what she wants. I do wish she would just say she’s taking the GLPs because no way would she be unsuccessful losing weight in her 20s but successful in her 40s. But anyway, that’s a minor point.

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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

PP is trying to tell us that she’s had more male interest than Mindy and therefore couldn’t be threatened by her.

Why would anyone be threatened by her? What’s the supposed threat?

Her being skinny, which clearly sets people off. Not hard to follow

In what way is that a threat? Is she coming for our jobs and boyfriends? You sound deranged.

That’s the question I would ask you, ma’am.

No, I'm asking you because you're the one pushing this idea. Say what you mean, why do you insist people are "jealous"?

How about you say what you mean? Obviously you need to feel secure and validated today but can’t quite find the words.

You threw out a childish retort "you're just jealous!" and can't even begin to articulate what that even means or how that would work. Pointing out that Mindy pushes lies about her diet and exercise routine to explain a significant weight loss doesn't make anyone jealous of her. If you said people just feel sorry for her you might be closer to the truth. Hope that helps.

lol yes it helps. Enjoy being mad

You really struggling with understanding people and emotions. Mad? Jealous? Are those the only things you can identify with? Sounds like a confession more than an accusation.

Yep. Keep the breakthroughs coming

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Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

She’s self deprecating. But I don’t think she’s deeply insecure. I don’t get those vibes from watching her in interviews, pose at red carpets, etc.

Her shows are all somewhat biographical and they are humorous and full of heart. She seems pretty successful and sure of herself to me.

Anonymous wrote:I have to roll my eyes a little at the insecurity. I think she’s probably fine. Is everyone hanging out without me book is 15 years old at this point. She was in her20s. Isn’t everybody a little insecure in their 20s?

She’s now built a major empire and is a mom of three. I’m sure she doesn’t have the same insecurities she had in her 20s.

It does seem to be a running theme for her, even now in her 40s. Has she not evolved?

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Anonymous wrote:Can we do this with men and their obvious hair transplants?

I'm just being facetious. Women, stop tearing other women down! Seriously, what's with it?

Please start a new thread. We absolutely can - I am interested.

Also this idea that we must support everything a woman does is nonsense. I have no idea where it came from.

Absolutely agree we don’t have to support everything a woman does. But I’m still confused why people are mad about Mindy losing weight.

Shrug. I honestly don’t care so no need to explain. Just pointing out the difference between supporting “everything a woman does” vs being upset (and clearly some people are) that some women lose weight or take meds or whatever. Truly don’t get it.

Because it’s not about Mindy at all. People feel very threatened when someone gets skinny

Ever since I started taking my health more seriously and losing weight, one of my coworkers insists on making snide comments about my "special diet". It's sad, really.

She’s a single mom of 3 in her 40s who has very little dating history and is insecure. Who would be threatened?

Huh? Who cares if she has "very little dating history" - what does that even mean or matter?

How is she insecure?

PP is trying to tell us that she’s had more male interest than Mindy and therefore couldn’t be threatened by her.

Why would anyone be threatened by her? What’s the supposed threat?

Her being skinny, which clearly sets people off. Not hard to follow

In what way is that a threat? Is she coming for our jobs and boyfriends? You sound deranged.

That’s the question I would ask you, ma’am.

No, I'm asking you because you're the one pushing this idea. Say what you mean, why do you insist people are "jealous"?

How about you say what you mean? Obviously you need to feel secure and validated today but can’t quite find the words.

You threw out a childish retort "you're just jealous!" and can't even begin to articulate what that even means or how that would work. Pointing out that Mindy pushes lies about her diet and exercise routine to explain a significant weight loss doesn't make anyone jealous of her. If you said people just feel sorry for her you might be closer to the truth. Hope that helps.

lol yes it helps. Enjoy being mad

You really struggling with understanding people and emotions. Mad? Jealous? Are those the only things you can identify with? Sounds like a confession more than an accusation.