Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Threads like this are depressing to me. I'm going to be school poor post-divorce and nearly everything people are listing as things they are cutting...are things that I already do. Admittedly they got us to a great financial place before it literally became unsafe for me to stay married.
That’s because there are only so many things one can do to cut costs. You still gotta eat, even if someone switches from Harris Teeter to Aldi. We need a companion thread- ‘What are people doing to make more money in this economy’?
And of course, if you’re already shopping at Aldi, and not eating out, where do you go from there?
Try and be less wasteful of what you eat. Keep leftovers. Buy less expensive items (beans instead of meat, dried beans instead of canned beans), buy on sale (even at Aldi). If you feel there is nothing left you can do in that department, go to a food bank (not being snarky at all, food banks are there for a reason, there is no shame in needing to go, so go if you need).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Threads like this are depressing to me. I'm going to be school poor post-divorce and nearly everything people are listing as things they are cutting...are things that I already do. Admittedly they got us to a great financial place before it literally became unsafe for me to stay married.
That’s because there are only so many things one can do to cut costs. You still gotta eat, even if someone switches from Harris Teeter to Aldi. We need a companion thread- ‘What are people doing to make more money in this economy’?
And of course, if you’re already shopping at Aldi, and not eating out, where do you go from there?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Threads like this are depressing to me. I'm going to be school poor post-divorce and nearly everything people are listing as things they are cutting...are things that I already do. Admittedly they got us to a great financial place before it literally became unsafe for me to stay married.
That’s because there are only so many things one can do to cut costs. You still gotta eat, even if someone switches from Harris Teeter to Aldi. We need a companion thread- ‘What are people doing to make more money in this economy’?
Anonymous wrote:Threads like this are depressing to me. I'm going to be school poor post-divorce and nearly everything people are listing as things they are cutting...are things that I already do. Admittedly they got us to a great financial place before it literally became unsafe for me to stay married.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For sporting events check out local high school and college games!
No thanks. Unless it’s my own kid playing, watching high school sports is excruciatingly boring
Anonymous wrote:For sporting events check out local high school and college games!
Anonymous wrote:To eat homecooked meals every night, you don't have to cook 7 days/wk. Every time you cook, make enough for two dinners worth. That's 50% less cooking right there.
Anonymous wrote:Would love to get ideas for what else we could be doing as everything just gets more and more unaffordable. I really didn’t used to think about it this much for the last two years have been brutal. I’ll start:
- Used to eat out twice a week, now we eat out twice a month (take out only). Cook 7 nights a week but meals have gotten less complicated because who can realistically cook that much?
- started buying frozen afterschool snacks (tater tots, chicken tenders) and don’t let the kids stop at Starbucks or Boba place or whatever more than 2-3x per month
- Decided to drive our car until the wheels fall off. New cars are insane. When did that happen?
- started buying all basics (socks, underwear, basic tees) on Amazon.
- only shop for clothes off season and on sale. Have bought some basics from Target and Uniqlo. Saw a fairly basic sweater at J.Crew for $350 and almost laughed out loud.
- only reading books from the library
- no more sporting events for entertainment (we used to enjoy basketball games)
I would not have considered us to be in a difficult financial situation even two years ago. Our jobs are thankfully stable. But neither of us got pay increases this year because of cost cutting. It just doesn’t feel sustainable.
Anonymous wrote:Anyone have a meal service they like? Blue apron has gotten so expensive.