Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 12:48     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

Anonymous wrote:I fooled around and slept with quite a few guys in my 20’s. I am very attractive (hot according to guys and my husband) and I have no regrets. I had a lot of fun and led an exciting life.


stds and multiple hpvs, your one of the people people need to vax against
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 12:45     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:There is no world where a woman with a 50+ body count isn't a whore. Any argument contrary is just noise.


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it’s whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it isn't whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Who made you the authority of what people chose to do with their lives. You’re the only one offering opinions on what other people do.


Uhhh, life experience?

Live in delusion all you want. IDGAF. But I can promise you that every single man I've ever known in my entire life would find a woman with a 50+ body count as disgusting. That's not to say they wouldn't pump and dump you, but they absolutely would not marry you.


Your misageny is darling for sure. But luckily for me, I have always taken the approach of “don’t give a shit what people like you think.” It’s truly freeing. I know it infuriates morons like you that women like me exist.


You truly are delusional. No man cares about you.


You really want that to be true, but it’s just not. Poor baby.


You protest too much. Truth hurts you. Ha.


Your dumb opinion is not truth. You always know when dumb misagynists are losing their shit. They invoke “the truth.”


LOL. You've misspelled this at every attempt. Keep trying tramp!


Is that the best you got 😂😂😂😂😂😂. You’re quite pathetic. No wonder no woman wants to sleep with you.
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 12:40     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

I attended a girls boarding school in the 80s, where, to say the least, it was a very free atmosphere talking about sex.

I attended a heavily traditional mostly male Ivy where I once said something about being on birth control and I remember the whole dining hall table hushed. I literally had no idea that was anything controversial, I was still a virgin and I'd been put on it because of wildly irregular periods.

(That came back to haunt me decades later and I had to have a hysterectomy in my late 30s because I was basically bleeding out into a roll of paper towels in my pants every month.)

So, I got this reputation as a slut even though I never actually slept with anyone.

Anyway, I met my boyfriend sophomore year, he was a freshman, everyone apparently told him I slept around but he found out I did not.

So ... that makes one. We got married.

I've only had sex with one guy.
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 12:13     Subject: Re:How much did you sleep around in college?

Not enough. I smoked way too much weed. Post-college I had a brief run a sleeping around until I met my spouse. I wish I banged my way through college. You are only young and hot once!
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 12:09     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

Anonymous wrote:I slept around a ton- the professors, the international students, dorm guys, the soccer team.
Then in 20s co-workers, friends of friends, OLD.


So you also have very high standards.
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Post 11/21/2025 12:08     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”


To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.


No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values


agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.


What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 11:56     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”


To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.


No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values


agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 11:54     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

I slept around a ton- the professors, the international students, dorm guys, the soccer team.
Then in 20s co-workers, friends of friends, OLD.
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Post 11/21/2025 11:52     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”


To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.


No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values


You responded to me and I never said how many people I slept with. I simply said I have high standards of who I sleep with and the number is irrelevant. You inability to imagine that because of whatever norms you have created in your head is none of my business.


You said that “I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.” Also you said that sex can be absolutely just a normal physical activity no “special “ connection besides sex itself and that’s ok for you. You also claimed having “high standards”. From that it’s easy to infer that you have over 75 partners if older than 30. Also I figure that if a woman sleeps with 5 men a year you can only infer some of the qualities of these men : attractiveness, income level. But you absolutely were not looking for connection with them or trying to figure out their values, relationship goals, quality of their social circle etc.
That is NOT a typical female sexual behaviors. Women are usually pretty cautious selective and protective of their home, bodies etc.
Also that would be not hygienic at a minimum. I could understand why a man could behave like that (they are testosterone dependent). But women are not normally that promiscuous, barring mental disorders or substance abuse

I'm a man and I find the first few times with somebody awkward. It gets much better once we're comfortable with each other. So I'm certainly testosterone-driven but I'd much rather have sex with the same woman repeatedly (and I felt this way before I got married).
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Post 11/21/2025 11:28     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”


To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.


No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values


You responded to me and I never said how many people I slept with. I simply said I have high standards of who I sleep with and the number is irrelevant. You inability to imagine that because of whatever norms you have created in your head is none of my business.


You said that “I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.” Also you said that sex can be absolutely just a normal physical activity no “special “ connection besides sex itself and that’s ok for you. You also claimed having “high standards”. From that it’s easy to infer that you have over 75 partners if older than 30. Also I figure that if a woman sleeps with 5 men a year you can only infer some of the qualities of these men : attractiveness, income level. But you absolutely were not looking for connection with them or trying to figure out their values, relationship goals, quality of their social circle etc.
That is NOT a typical female sexual behaviors. Women are usually pretty cautious selective and protective of their home, bodies etc.
Also that would be not hygienic at a minimum. I could understand why a man could behave like that (they are testosterone dependent). But women are not normally that promiscuous, barring mental disorders or substance abuse
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Post 11/21/2025 11:26     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:many partners (more than 3 before marriage) is a sign of a mental disease most likely bi-polar. Prevalent in women who sleep around a lot.



As women I think we tend to forget that a small percentage of men are having most of the sex. Women of average attractiveness have greater access to sexual partners (which doesn’t mean good sex or skilled lovers.) Some comments in this forum really reveal a surprising amount of male naïveté amidst the misogyny.


I think this is true, too. So few men are good lovers that the attractive ones get a lot of action.
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Post 11/21/2025 11:14     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:There is no world where a woman with a 50+ body count isn't a whore. Any argument contrary is just noise.


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it’s whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it isn't whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Who made you the authority of what people chose to do with their lives. You’re the only one offering opinions on what other people do.


Uhhh, life experience?

Live in delusion all you want. IDGAF. But I can promise you that every single man I've ever known in my entire life would find a woman with a 50+ body count as disgusting. That's not to say they wouldn't pump and dump you, but they absolutely would not marry you.


Your misageny is darling for sure. But luckily for me, I have always taken the approach of “don’t give a shit what people like you think.” It’s truly freeing. I know it infuriates morons like you that women like me exist.


You truly are delusional. No man cares about you.


You really want that to be true, but it’s just not. Poor baby.


You protest too much. Truth hurts you. Ha.


Your dumb opinion is not truth. You always know when dumb misagynists are losing their shit. They invoke “the truth.”


LOL. You've misspelled this at every attempt. Keep trying tramp!
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 11:04     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:There is no world where a woman with a 50+ body count isn't a whore. Any argument contrary is just noise.


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it’s whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it isn't whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Who made you the authority of what people chose to do with their lives. You’re the only one offering opinions on what other people do.


Uhhh, life experience?

Live in delusion all you want. IDGAF. But I can promise you that every single man I've ever known in my entire life would find a woman with a 50+ body count as disgusting. That's not to say they wouldn't pump and dump you, but they absolutely would not marry you.


Your misageny is darling for sure. But luckily for me, I have always taken the approach of “don’t give a shit what people like you think.” It’s truly freeing. I know it infuriates morons like you that women like me exist.


You truly are delusional. No man cares about you.


You really want that to be true, but it’s just not. Poor baby.


You protest too much. Truth hurts you. Ha.


Your dumb opinion is not truth. You always know when dumb misagynists are losing their shit. They invoke “the truth.”
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 11:00     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:There is no world where a woman with a 50+ body count isn't a whore. Any argument contrary is just noise.


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it’s whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it isn't whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Who made you the authority of what people chose to do with their lives. You’re the only one offering opinions on what other people do.


Uhhh, life experience?

Live in delusion all you want. IDGAF. But I can promise you that every single man I've ever known in my entire life would find a woman with a 50+ body count as disgusting. That's not to say they wouldn't pump and dump you, but they absolutely would not marry you.


Your misageny is darling for sure. But luckily for me, I have always taken the approach of “don’t give a shit what people like you think.” It’s truly freeing. I know it infuriates morons like you that women like me exist.


You truly are delusional. No man cares about you.


You really want that to be true, but it’s just not. Poor baby.


You protest too much. Truth hurts you. Ha.
Anonymous
Post 11/21/2025 10:43     Subject: How much did you sleep around in college?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:There is no world where a woman with a 50+ body count isn't a whore. Any argument contrary is just noise.


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it’s whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Oh no! Some rando on the internet said it isn't whoreing so I must take it as the absolute truth 😂😂😂


Who made you the authority of what people chose to do with their lives. You’re the only one offering opinions on what other people do.


Uhhh, life experience?

Live in delusion all you want. IDGAF. But I can promise you that every single man I've ever known in my entire life would find a woman with a 50+ body count as disgusting. That's not to say they wouldn't pump and dump you, but they absolutely would not marry you.


Your misageny is darling for sure. But luckily for me, I have always taken the approach of “don’t give a shit what people like you think.” It’s truly freeing. I know it infuriates morons like you that women like me exist.


You truly are delusional. No man cares about you.


You really want that to be true, but it’s just not. Poor baby.