Anonymous wrote:

Oh, honey. You have enough serious challenges just making it through the day.

I'm glad you were able to get this out of your system lol

You need to give "lol" a rest. You are an adult now, or you are at least more than old enough to act like one.

Anonymous wrote:

I thought it was going to take too long to expound on the answer and all you have is the fact I don't oppose using these terms to describe lazy and careless behavior (in the subject of this post, these adjectives could be modifying "DH" or "stories" and I really don't care - you are clearly grasping at straws). Or, that was someone else? You all just each wanted your chance for the perfect comeback? Your desperate efforts to insult me are getting less coherent by the minute.

You are arguing with multiple posters. Stop your desperate efforts to insult others.

I did not post anything about how long it would take to expound on any answer. Based on how poorly you understand other points made, you are not capable of understanding, no matter how long anyone takes to explain.

Oh, honey. You have enough serious challenges just making it through the day.

I'm glad you were able to get this out of your system lol

I thought it was going to take too long to expound on the answer and all you have is the fact I don't oppose using these terms to describe lazy and careless behavior (in the subject of this post, these adjectives could be modifying "DH" or "stories" and I really don't care - you are clearly grasping at straws). Or, that was someone else? You all just each wanted your chance for the perfect comeback? Your desperate efforts to insult me are getting less coherent by the minute.

Anonymous wrote:

Lol women are not going to stop talking about this because you called it "poor taste" to speak candidly with each other about our husband's behavior. But please keep trying! Keep posting here, at least you are not harassing and belittling people with more serious challenges.

Oh, honey. You have enough serious challenges just making it through the day.

Anonymous wrote:

You are addressing multiple people none of whom are being persuaded that we should just stfu and reflect on how we are terrible wives who are hurting our children by venting on an anonymous message board.

You are a terrible wife. But not because you are posting here.

Honey, this is a public website. Every post is addressing multiple people because you are addressing everyone who reads the thread.

You know that multiple people have called you out for your wackiness, although (so far) they have all had the good manners not to tell you to STFU.

Wait how am I a terrible wife? I'd just love to know.

No answer? So you are the type of person that just shouts incoherent insults at people? Nice.

Calm down. First, no one shouted anything. All I did was reply to your post where you said you were a terrible wife. You missed the point that posting on an anonymous board is not the issue. The terrible part is related to bashing someone you love with terms like "lazy" and "careless".

Lol women are not going to stop talking about this because you called it "poor taste" to speak candidly with each other about our husband's behavior. But please keep trying! Keep posting here, at least you are not harassing and belittling people with more serious challenges.

Lol women are not going to stop talking about this because you called it "poor taste" to speak candidly with each other about our husband's behavior. But please keep trying! Keep posting here, at least you are not harassing and belittling people with more serious challenges.

You are addressing multiple people none of whom are being persuaded that we should just stfu and reflect on how we are terrible wives who are hurting our children by venting on an anonymous message board.

You are a terrible wife. But not because you are posting here.

Honey, this is a public website. Every post is addressing multiple people because you are addressing everyone who reads the thread.

You know that multiple people have called you out for your wackiness, although (so far) they have all had the good manners not to tell you to STFU.

Wait how am I a terrible wife? I'd just love to know.

No answer? So you are the type of person that just shouts incoherent insults at people? Nice.

Anonymous wrote:

What OP's DH did was lazy and careless. Those are accurate words to describe his actions.

There are mountains of research showing that women spend more time on childcare and housework than fathers and less time in leisure activities. I get that you just want to blame the women for this for not communicating effectively or whatever, but the rest of us respect ourselves enough to know we are not here to parent our husbands. It takes a lot of time to "communicate" to people that the way they were raised is not going to work in a modern household. In the meantime, you bet I am going to find humor and solidarity with other women who experience similar ridiculous behaviors from our husbands. Sorry (not sorry) you don't like that.

What OP's DH did might have been lazy or careless. However, we have no idea whether he can be labeled as "lazy" or "careless." That you cannot understand the difference speaks volumes.

The fact that women spend more time on childcare has nothing to do with the fact that the OP showed deplorable taste when she labeled her DH as lazy and careless. Asking others to join in a sisterhood of husband-bashing shows equally poor taste.

Finally, the fact that you want to show "solidarity" with other women regarding how ridiculous you find your husbands' behaviors shows your true intent of belittling those you claim (or claimed at one time) to love.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

You are addressing multiple people none of whom are being persuaded that we should just stfu and reflect on how we are terrible wives who are hurting our children by venting on an anonymous message board.

You are a terrible wife. But not because you are posting here.

Honey, this is a public website. Every post is addressing multiple people because you are addressing everyone who reads the thread.

You know that multiple people have called you out for your wackiness, although (so far) they have all had the good manners not to tell you to STFU.

Wait how am I a terrible wife? I'd just love to know.

No answer? So you are the type of person that just shouts incoherent insults at people? Nice.

No lady, there is not time enough in this life to explain things to you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

You are addressing multiple people none of whom are being persuaded that we should just stfu and reflect on how we are terrible wives who are hurting our children by venting on an anonymous message board.

You are a terrible wife. But not because you are posting here.

Honey, this is a public website. Every post is addressing multiple people because you are addressing everyone who reads the thread.

You know that multiple people have called you out for your wackiness, although (so far) they have all had the good manners not to tell you to STFU.

Wait how am I a terrible wife? I'd just love to know.

No answer? So you are the type of person that just shouts incoherent insults at people? Nice.

What OP's DH did was lazy and careless. Those are accurate words to describe his actions.

There are mountains of research showing that women spend more time on childcare and housework than fathers and less time in leisure activities. I get that you just want to blame the women for this for not communicating effectively or whatever, but the rest of us respect ourselves enough to know we are not here to parent our husbands. It takes a lot of time to "communicate" to people that the way they were raised is not going to work in a modern household. In the meantime, you bet I am going to find humor and solidarity with other women who experience similar ridiculous behaviors from our husbands. Sorry (not sorry) you don't like that.