Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
I bet the 28’s not playing for Cap are regretting their decisions.
Was it their choice? I can’t imagine that people made the team and chose not to accept the spot.
Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
This is great! Thanks again for dropping it in every so often! Excited for the girls!!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
I bet the 28’s not playing for Cap are regretting their decisions.
Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
Anonymous wrote:M&D 2026
2 Syracuse (STAB & McDonough)
1 Notre Dame (Visitation)
1 Ohio State (Maryvale Prep)
1 Boston College (St Mary Annapolis)
1 Army
1 Navy
1 Denver (Good Counsel)
Hero Green 2026
1 University of Oregon (Arundel)
1 University of Maryland (Maryvale)
1 Navy (Glenleg)
Capital Blue 💙 2026
1 Duke (Potomac)
2 Yale (St. John's and Stone Ridge)
1 Michigan (SSSAS)
1 Denver (SSSAS)
1 Dartmouth (Visitation)
1 Princeton (Bishop O’Connell)
1 Virginia Tech (Visitation)
Skywalkers 2026
1 Ohio State (John Carroll)
Capital Orange 🍊 2026
PRIDE 2026
STARS 2026
CavLax 2026
Anonymous wrote:Your larger points are fair, but girls get calls 9/1 from schools they didn’t know really liked them.
The majority of these players are not taking an offer because they have to... Maybe a tier 2 player but the TIER 1 players are being recruited by 4-10 schools and have visited these schools for prospect camps/clinics usually multiple times. The offers from these schools are not a surprise. They KNEW the school had interest so they had all summer to visit the school and go to camps. You must have a player with no interest or a troll since you seem out of touch with how this process shakes out.Anonymous wrote:This. Is. Exactly. The. Entire. Point. Players (parents) aren't making the decision because they weighed everything already and it's the "dream school" that they envisioned since they were in swaddling clothes. They're doing because they have to.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are so many women's coaches then giving deadlines of a week or oftentimes less? 48 hours and the offer explodes?Anonymous wrote:. Denial? You are a troll or absolutely out of touch. Many of these girls have already been on official visits doing one day or two back to back at multiple schools! Plus, they all hustled around and went to so many fall/winter/summer & August camps hitting their top schools. What you don't seem to understand is that these girls have had a interaction with coaches and players at prospect/clinics/showcases events over the past 2 years! This is why it's really important to go to the specific school prospect day so you can interact with the coaches and the players! Plus, they have older teammates and friends already on the team so they have a really good inside scoop on the culture and the vibe. The official visit just solidifies it. IYKYK IfAnonymous wrote:It's one week into the recruiting contact period. No one has taken more than 1 official visit, if there was one at all. If a player ONLY had one option to a top academic school and that was their priority, so be it and makes sense. I highly doubt that's often the case. Or for other type school student-athletes. You are in denial.Anonymous wrote:I meant since their freshman year they've been on campus multiple times for camps/clinics-- interacting with the players and coaches multiple times on top of doing an official visit. Many of them played with the teams at HHH committed games or Lake Placid as well. Plus, when you know you know it just feels right! But if anyone thinks these decisions are made on a whim, you're just absolutely clueless!Anonymous wrote:Not sure if this is the PP, but you didn't answer the question(s). Going to prospect camps in the summer since middle school isn't the same as being closer to a peer and actually hanging out with the team and students, getting a real feel for what will be their life and experience. Unless you're saying one school just always directs drills better for some girls, and that makes all the difference. So why not use multiple visit to these multiple great schools?Anonymous wrote:All of these girls that are committing have attended multiple prospect ID camps at the school they chose, and these coaches have also been to many of the players' games. These are not decisions being made on a whim. I know for a fact because my daughter was with several of them at these camps since the summer before 9th grade. These players go to fall/winter/summer ID prospect camps to interact with coaches and see the campus on multiple occasions. It is a lifelong decision because of the alumni network and relationships that will last a lifetime. Many of these schools have amazing alumni networks and incredibly loyal alumni, especially for their lacrosse teams!
Is this the clueless person again? Very normal to give a week deadline or 48 hours. My 2022 was given 48 hours and had to adjust and move the official visit with a different school. -- not a big deal. There was no explosion of the offer. It's pretty simple. You're given a deadline and you work it out. The coaches want to fill their rosters and move to the next player if your daughter declines.
Deadlines are normal with recruiting.
48 hours/one week deadline = exploding offer, as you didn't catch that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I will take Yale any day over University of Maryland or Syracuse pass that full ride up you betcha!
85k no thanks
Not every student pays full fare at Yale, or any Ivy for that matter. In 2021 54% of first-year students received need-based financial aid at Yale. Going to Yale, Harvard, Princeton, etc. can be life changing and would be tough to pass up for anyone.
Rolling the dice that you will get financial aid is tough in my opinion. Looking at paying 340k. Many say you have to pay to enter the Ivy world.
It’s a matter of personal preference. Some families prioritize degrees over tuition as they see as investment with great turn; others may think differently. You are free to decide for your own but do not judge how others prioritize.
That's true. Not judging. Do you but after you bury your kid in loans don't support that their loans be forgiven and handed off to others to pay.
I can almost guarantee you these kids will not be buried in loans. Their parents have been playing for private schools and will probably cover 4 more years. Some of the hs tuitions are just as much as Ivy.