Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know that kids are better off or happier not having to go to aftercare or staying until closing. Avoiding that never entered my decision making, which,’along with sharing the drop off and pick up load, led to both of us being able to have the careers we wanted.

So your kids have been staying in school and camp from 9-6 through age 6-13?

Anonymous wrote:Women are their own worst enemy. They give each other crap for either choice, career or sahm. I'm a man and I think most women should stay home if they can afford it. It makes the family work much better.
My wife is constantly talking about how she has to do it all and I don't understand why. I think its because her sisters all have high powered careers.
I feel bad for her but I've made it clear I enjoy the breadwinner role. Not caregiver so I don't so anything with the kids.