Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 14:33     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Not that surprised @ f!cking some rando in a public park. Once any guardrails are off the need to push the envelop farther and farther often takes over. So, not just the adultery but the exhibitionism, chance of violating the boundaries or inadvertent onlookers, chance of being arrested, etc. Paraphilias tend to occur in clusters. The risks have to escalate to get the dopamine hit. Also not surprised her husband filed for divorce after that stunt but she was off the rails even then.

Wishing healing for her kids, her victims and other csa and sa survivors.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 14:28     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.


That's not true, there are sex offender treatment programs - that are private and expensive. They use technology to measure sexual arousal and discourage it as a part of a larger treatment program.


And years later they are still aroused on scans after “treatment.”


This. There is no treatment without removing sexual organs the rest of the treatments are bogus.


They can use objects, the BRAIN is the problem. This woman, without a penis, brought a sex toy along to r@pe a kid.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 14:25     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.


How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.


That was not her first time doing this, she made way too many suggestions. Wish the same for her likely MANY victims.

There was no actual child lured that time, it was a ruse from undercover FBI. She bought into it and even brought props with her. Sick bi$tch.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 14:25     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
People like her eventually end up being killed in prison anyhow because even criminals have "standards" when it comes to crimes committed. You touch a child, you're good as dead in there.


Not sure the part about being killed in prison is so true in women's prisons. But she would probably be alone in there.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 14:02     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
She pled Not Guilty during her court appearance April 4th, which also happened to be her 45th birthday.

May she live the life she deserves.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:45     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.


How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.


There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.


There was a child in the abuse material she distributed. I hope they can track down who she got it from, who made it, and they all get fried too.

Exactly. That needs to be priority. Along with finding out if she has engaged in this before.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:43     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So, I'm coming back to this thread because I can't get it out of my mind.

I think that while most victims of abuse do not go on to abuse, the majority of people who DO abuse, had been abused themselves.

Which is no excuse, but as a PP said, some they flip the role of abuser/abused.

If you look at her comments to the UC, she talks as if the girl will like it, be excited by it. There are no comments of enjoying any force or pain, or anything against the girls' will. It's this fantasy that the girl's world will open up sexually, and she (the woman) will be there to witness it, which is arousing to her.

It's so sick. She's loving the father-daughter dynamic, so...if I were her dad, I'd be worried now as it casts implications on him



Totally agree with this. Also the fact that Richmond Times Dispatch STILL does not have a single mention of this story is so disturbing.

Why do people keep harping on the lack of press when there’s literally a Times-Dispatch article linked in the OP? Also here https://dailyprogress.com/news/local/charlottesville-mother-arrested-on-child-porn-attempted-exploitation-charges/article_eb01979a-d3f0-11ed-8516-6749777298d4.html
And here https://augustafreepress.com/news/charlottesville-woman-mother-of-two-arrested-on-child-porn-child-sex-charges/


It’s a link to an article in the Charlottesville paper. RTD is different and is definitely sleeping on it. Someone is protecting Eppa.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:42     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do so many people on this board know this woman?

That is not disturbing to anyone?


Did you read the first paragraph of the OP?


UVA and RVA mean nothing to most of us. You know that, right?


You just stumbled onto this thread because you're one of those True Crime internet sleuth types. But the fact is, this is a website that started as and still focuses on DC. Which is ... close to Richmond.

I live in DC, I have three solid girlfriends from Richmond, and all three knew one or both of their VERY PROMINENT families. Two attended the same private girls' school (the other, Collegiate).



This also shows how easily it is to create and develop CSA rings. If this many people are connected by one person, how many of the people in her circle have the same desires and interests that she does. Sexually amoral or not, she could easily connect with any number of people in these circles.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:40     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You should be able to go to your PCP or psychiatrist & say “I have a desire to harm children” or “I have pedophilic urges” and receive treatment for the mental health issue that it is.



There is no actual treatment for these things. There’s not a magical pill to cure people of things like pedophilia or wanting to harm children. I saw a speaker online during Covid who was a convicted pedophile and he described it as an attraction in the way of how adults with sexual preferences can have a preference for age, hair color, etc.. in a fellow adult and there’s nothing to stop them from being attracted to a person with those features when they feel that attraction. He was explaining how pedophiles re-offend because like other adults that attraction doesn’t just go away with jail time. He was pro-castration fwiw. It never made sense to me until he explained this in a way that makes sense why they re-offend and are always a danger. Your attraction to men with dark hair won’t go away just because you’re jailed for ten years or twenty. When you get out you’ll still be attracted to them. Over time people’s preferences can change but it’s by chance.


That's not true, there are sex offender treatment programs - that are private and expensive. They use technology to measure sexual arousal and discourage it as a part of a larger treatment program.


And years later they are still aroused on scans after “treatment.”


This. There is no treatment without removing sexual organs the rest of the treatments are bogus.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:39     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So, I'm coming back to this thread because I can't get it out of my mind.

I think that while most victims of abuse do not go on to abuse, the majority of people who DO abuse, had been abused themselves.

Which is no excuse, but as a PP said, some they flip the role of abuser/abused.

If you look at her comments to the UC, she talks as if the girl will like it, be excited by it. There are no comments of enjoying any force or pain, or anything against the girls' will. It's this fantasy that the girl's world will open up sexually, and she (the woman) will be there to witness it, which is arousing to her.

It's so sick. She's loving the father-daughter dynamic, so...if I were her dad, I'd be worried now as it casts implications on him



Totally agree with this. Also the fact that Richmond Times Dispatch STILL does not have a single mention of this story is so disturbing.

Why do people keep harping on the lack of press when there’s literally a Times-Dispatch article linked in the OP? Also here https://dailyprogress.com/news/local/charlottesville-mother-arrested-on-child-porn-attempted-exploitation-charges/article_eb01979a-d3f0-11ed-8516-6749777298d4.html
And here https://augustafreepress.com/news/charlottesville-woman-mother-of-two-arrested-on-child-porn-child-sex-charges/
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 13:33     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
People like her eventually end up being killed in prison anyhow because even criminals have "standards" when it comes to crimes committed. You touch a child, you're good as dead in there.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 12:52     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Yes, it was an FBI sting operation. However, it would not surprise me if there were actual other children. Her kids have a lot friends. So, yes, I pray for them too. I pray Eleanor Hoppe never sees her kids again or sees daylight ever again. She deserves to rot and die in that jail. She was probably was abused as a kid. The statistics are very high for that. But, as an adult, she had a choice to make. As a mother , she had a choice to make. Why she made the choice she did, God only knows, but now she has to face the consequences of her actions. I hope they throw the book at her. But, my heart goes out to those kids...their lives are forever changed.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 12:09     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:Wow. This woman is exactly like Ghislaine Maxwell. What is it with wealthy, privileged society ladies r*ping kids?? Sick. I went to UVA over a decade ago but otherwise don't have any connections to the area. Never heard of this woman but the fact that I didn't hear of this until DCUM announced it is...telling.

Let's not let this pedo woman escape public disgrace just because her family is trying to buy off the Press. Hope this goes viral on social media.


I think they think they gain power/influence by fulfilling male desires, whether with their own bodies or other's.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 11:58     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So, I'm coming back to this thread because I can't get it out of my mind.

I think that while most victims of abuse do not go on to abuse, the majority of people who DO abuse, had been abused themselves.

Which is no excuse, but as a PP said, some they flip the role of abuser/abused.

If you look at her comments to the UC, she talks as if the girl will like it, be excited by it. There are no comments of enjoying any force or pain, or anything against the girls' will. It's this fantasy that the girl's world will open up sexually, and she (the woman) will be there to witness it, which is arousing to her.

It's so sick. She's loving the father-daughter dynamic, so...if I were her dad, I'd be worried now as it casts implications on him



Totally agree with this. Also the fact that Richmond Times Dispatch STILL does not have a single mention of this story is so disturbing.



https://richmond.com/news/state-and-regional/crime-and-courts/charlottesville-mother-arrested-on-child-porn-attempted-exploitation-charges/article_f854704a-6ced-5514-9227-b7278cee0c0d.html#tracking-source=mp-news
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2023 11:58     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.


How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.


There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.


Oh, right. (Facepalm.) Owning my own dumb comment. I read the article and everything.