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Anonymous wrote:I am having a very hard time getting someone off my mind, can you tell me if this person is meant to play a role in my life?

Hello! The card I pulled to represent you is the SAGE. You are normally someone who is pretty controlled and content with the way things are. I feel like this person is throwing you for a loop because you generally do not have people stuck on your mind like this.

For the energy surround the person I pulled The Hermit, The Chariot, 2 of Wands, the Page of Wands, Ace of Swords and King of Wands. At the moment it feels like this person is being a bit introspective and trying to figure out what direction they need to be going in. I think they are normally a bit impulsive, but are trying to make plans for their future and want to approach what they are doing with a clear mindset. They want to be able to feel confident in what they are doing so they can be successful.

When I asked if this person is meant to be in your life I pulled the 4 of Wands which is super positive. It can talk about community, celebrations, contracts and marriage. So even if this person is not someone that you see romantically, the idea of this card being read as marriage can mean that they may play a part in your life at some point. However, this person is very much inside themselves at the moment because they need to figure out what they are doing.

Thanks, OP. This is interesting to me, because I think I can give the appearance of being controlled, and in some ways I guess I'm pretty going with the flow, but a lot of times I hold a lot in. I'm also not currently satisfied with my life. Ad Ironically can be impulsive and indecisive. As for the other person I don't know too well, but this person gives the appearance of being the furthest thing from impulsive, but I can definitely see how making solid future plans would be important at this moment. Time will tell. Thanks again.

Thank you for this feedback. It’s helpful as I am still learning all the different nuances of the cards. I appreciate this!

I've been unemployed a long time. Where am I headed?

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Anonymous wrote:I am having a very hard time getting someone off my mind, can you tell me if this person is meant to play a role in my life?

Hello! The card I pulled to represent you is the SAGE. You are normally someone who is pretty controlled and content with the way things are. I feel like this person is throwing you for a loop because you generally do not have people stuck on your mind like this.

For the energy surround the person I pulled The Hermit, The Chariot, 2 of Wands, the Page of Wands, Ace of Swords and King of Wands. At the moment it feels like this person is being a bit introspective and trying to figure out what direction they need to be going in. I think they are normally a bit impulsive, but are trying to make plans for their future and want to approach what they are doing with a clear mindset. They want to be able to feel confident in what they are doing so they can be successful.

When I asked if this person is meant to be in your life I pulled the 4 of Wands which is super positive. It can talk about community, celebrations, contracts and marriage. So even if this person is not someone that you see romantically, the idea of this card being read as marriage can mean that they may play a part in your life at some point. However, this person is very much inside themselves at the moment because they need to figure out what they are doing.

Thanks, OP. This is interesting to me, because I think I can give the appearance of being controlled, and in some ways I guess I'm pretty going with the flow, but a lot of times I hold a lot in. I'm also not currently satisfied with my life. Ad Ironically can be impulsive and indecisive. As for the other person I don't know too well, but this person gives the appearance of being the furthest thing from impulsive, but I can definitely see how making solid future plans would be important at this moment. Time will tell. Thanks again.

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Anonymous wrote:I received some bad news about a relative’s health this week. It’s a big set back and we are trying to be positive but it’s so discouraging. Life is very stressful on all fronts right now.

I’m very sorry to hear this. Would you like me to look into the energy surrounding the situation?

If you have time. Yes, please. I would appreciate it.

Anonymous wrote:I received some bad news about a relative’s health this week. It’s a big set back and we are trying to be positive but it’s so discouraging. Life is very stressful on all fronts right now.

I’m very sorry to hear this. Would you like me to look into the energy surrounding the situation?

Hello OP Reader, and a huge thank you! What an interesting thread!

I would love to know what is going to happen with my job. I've discussed a promotion and have been working crazy hours to deliver the results. Now I am exhausted, the company is going through another iteration of changes, and I feel like it might be just a carrot to dangle in front of me to get the results. I appreciate your insights.... Thank you!

I received some bad news about a relative’s health this week. It’s a big set back and we are trying to be positive but it’s so discouraging. Life is very stressful on all fronts right now.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a stressful situation with a possibly mentally ill relative. Their cutting comments and talking poorly of me when I’m not around cause me stress. For various reasons, I can’t cut them out completely.

After being around them, I feel physically unwell. What can I do to restore my calm?

Hello! I wanted to pull some cards to see the energy surrounding your relative and I pulled the 3 of Swords, the 10 of Cups and the Queen of Cups. I feel like this relative is in a great deal of pain and that they look at your happiness and emotional stability and it makes them jealous. So the comments and speaking poorly of you feel to be coming from a place of pain. It does not make it right, but sometimes can be easier to "see" when you look at like that.

When I asked what you can do to restore calm I pulled the 6 of Swords, the Knight of Pentacles, the 2 of Wands, The Hermit and 7 of Cups. I am being pulled towards saying walking away is the best option. I understand that you cannot cut them out completely, but SEVERELY limiting contact may be the next best thing. I feel like you can plan a strategy for yourself where you can connect with them when you absolutely need to. I think that is where some grounding work will really help you. Learning to take what is yours and leaving what isn't is something you will have to learn in order to not take on their energy. There is a decision to be made about this relationship and you will need to be introspective to find the true answer. I feel like you may struggle with finding it initially, but you will eventually find it and know it.

I want to know whether I will ever find a job that makes me happy where I can excel and grow there. I have 15 years more to work before retirement and I cringe to think I will continue to work in places where I can do good work, be fulfilled, and earn a respectable salary.

I need to know if I’m going to achieve anything at all. If I can get past my family issues. If I will find my strength and direction. And how to move ahead. Which of my interests should I pursue?

Am I moving in the right direction career-wise? It's taken me some time to sort things out, and I've been afraid to go for it so to speak. Just wondering if I'm on the right path.


Also, I get the feeling that I'm meant to move away, perhaps to another country, is this feeling correct? Am I holding myself back by continuing to stay in my hometown?

Anonymous wrote:I am having a very hard time getting someone off my mind, can you tell me if this person is meant to play a role in my life?

Hello! The card I pulled to represent you is the SAGE. You are normally someone who is pretty controlled and content with the way things are. I feel like this person is throwing you for a loop because you generally do not have people stuck on your mind like this.

For the energy surround the person I pulled The Hermit, The Chariot, 2 of Wands, the Page of Wands, Ace of Swords and King of Wands. At the moment it feels like this person is being a bit introspective and trying to figure out what direction they need to be going in. I think they are normally a bit impulsive, but are trying to make plans for their future and want to approach what they are doing with a clear mindset. They want to be able to feel confident in what they are doing so they can be successful.

When I asked if this person is meant to be in your life I pulled the 4 of Wands which is super positive. It can talk about community, celebrations, contracts and marriage. So even if this person is not someone that you see romantically, the idea of this card being read as marriage can mean that they may play a part in your life at some point. However, this person is very much inside themselves at the moment because they need to figure out what they are doing.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a stressful situation with a possibly mentally ill relative. Their cutting comments and talking poorly of me when I’m not around cause me stress. For various reasons, I can’t cut them out completely.

After being around them, I feel physically unwell. What can I do to restore my calm?

There are a couple people ahead of you, but I wanted to respond to this before pulling cards. It is going to be very important for you to learn to not take on their energy. Know that what they are saying has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. That’s can be a difficult balance to achieve, but practice grounding yourself. Before you have to see them, sit down for a few minutes with your feet on the floor. Close your eyes and Say to yourself, I will only take what’s mine and I will leave the rest”. While saying that, imagine the energy from the earth coming up through your feet and a beautiful white light coming down through the top of your head. When you breathe out, visualize all the negativity leaving your body. You can also do this after seeing them as well to help rid yourself of that uneasy/sick feeling.

I’m in a stressful situation with a possibly mentally ill relative. Their cutting comments and talking poorly of me when I’m not around cause me stress. For various reasons, I can’t cut them out completely.

After being around them, I feel physically unwell. What can I do to restore my calm?

Thanks for reading the Tarot about my divorce. You are spot on about my feelings about moving, and yes, it is stressful for the kids. You gave good advice. I have a Tarot deck myself, so I was pleased to hear about the 10 of cups card. I am saving your reading so I can reread it as a boost. Thank you!