I would bet the Jen Hatmaker camp is scrambling to get this thread to stop. Who comes on here and posts an additional site? And yeah, this is not snark. It’s damaging information about a truly dishonest person.

NO THANKS!!!!! Continue the good fight ladies.

Anonymous wrote:This seems like an attempt by someone to squash this thread. This wonderful, glorious thread. Don’t fall for it.

Yep. Not moving to Reddit.

Yeah I have my doubts as well about Reddit. Pp’s have said Reddit has shut down threads on Jen in the past.
Also the Reddit thread calls itself Jen Hatmaker snark. There’s a number of us here who aren’t seeking snark but insight and understanding about Jen. We are less malevolent and more confused and concerned.

This seems like an attempt by someone to squash this thread. This wonderful, glorious thread. Don’t fall for it.

Anonymous wrote:And there's a fresh Reddit community:

https://www.reddit.com/r/hatmakersnark/

Thanks, just joined! That site will be much more organized and easier to parse through, than DCUM. Plus we'll be able to share screenshots. 😉👍

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Anonymous wrote:Yesterday on his instagram, Gavin posted a disappearing story of his cat with his furry head shoved inside a whiskey ball glass, licking it. His caption was something about sharing the good stuff. 😑 it seems like the majority of the family has an alcohol problem...

Gavin is what, 23? And drinks whiskey? How many kids that age can handle whiskey?

Whether or not they handle it well is another issue, but whiskey is a very popular drink of choice for 23 old young men, especially in Texas.

And there's a fresh Reddit community:

https://www.reddit.com/r/hatmakersnark/

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday on his instagram, Gavin posted a disappearing story of his cat with his furry head shoved inside a whiskey ball glass, licking it. His caption was something about sharing the good stuff. 😑 it seems like the majority of the family has an alcohol problem...

I saw that too! I figured the animal activists and PETA would come out raging against him giving whiskey to a cat. Who does that!? I guess he's still in the drunk frat boy stage of life.

Anonymous wrote:Yesterday on his instagram, Gavin posted a disappearing story of his cat with his furry head shoved inside a whiskey ball glass, licking it. His caption was something about sharing the good stuff. 😑 it seems like the majority of the family has an alcohol problem...

Gavin is what, 23? And drinks whiskey? How many kids that age can handle whiskey?

Does anyone know what Sydney is up to these days? I follow her on Instagram but she hasn't made a post in a year and a half. I wonder if she has finished College by now... she seems to be the child that is most absent from both of her parents' photos

Yesterday on his instagram, Gavin posted a disappearing story of his cat with his furry head shoved inside a whiskey ball glass, licking it. His caption was something about sharing the good stuff. 😑 it seems like the majority of the family has an alcohol problem...

Anonymous wrote:The Remy call out from a few months ago is how I ended up here, too. I think what bugs me most about the Remy stuff is that she is the only kid that seems to get called out. It'd be one thing if she shaded all of her kids, but Remy seems like the only one that exhausts her. I hate to see it.

This would be typical of a parent who is a narcissist. Often one child is the scapegoat, while another is the Golden Child. Pretty sure that Sydney is the Golden Child and Remy the scapegoat in this house, whether or not Jen is a full blown narcissist. I mean, we've never seen one iota of criticism against Sydney, have we?

THIS:
“Gavin smoked the ENTIRE thing, unwilling to do anything less in front of the dads, and we watched him turn a little green and quietly go inside. Ten minutes later, I went in to check on him, and he was in the front bathroom with his shoes off and socks tucked inside, every scrap of clothing folded neatly in a stack on the ground, while he was wrapped around the toilet laying on the cold tile in his underwear. I said, “Oh, honey…” and he said, “Don’t tell dad.” 😂❤️”

The point of Jen’s the post was to let yours kids live a little, have their own agency over their lives. Including this very embarrassing detail absolutely not necessary. He was 18. And asked you immediately not to tell.

Anonymous wrote:According to Jen Remy is hopelessly lazy, always sleeping, indifferent to school, exhausting and emotionally needy, always moody, is prone to meltdowns, and probably on the Spectrum.

Of course, most teens are a lot of these things, but their moms aren’t letting hundreds of thousands of complete strangers online know this.

Jen has a horrible habit of crushing this poor girl’s spirit online. It’s so damaging. Can’t she see this?

Don’t forget the complete armchair diagnosis of Asperger’s.

I have adopted kids from hard places and sometimes the issues are soul crushing and it’s so difficult. If I told people about them, it could sound like regular kid problems, but they are not. I would never blast my kids’ issues for all to see. I hate that she is doing this to Remy.