Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 08:46     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:I'd tell my husband if it was an interesting/funny story, not just a regular boring being hit on story.


+1.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 08:44     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:If my dh told me that I would think he was feeling guilty for doing something.


Sounds like you don't trust him.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 08:43     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:Nope.
I work in a very incestuous type work environment. Ive never cheated on spouse but I am very close to a couple of the guys I work with as far as banter/inappropriate conversations. Im not going to tell my spouse and give her things to worry about that aren't there.


This is interesting because you're a man but OP is a woman (I assumed that at least, she could be a man with a husband, sorry if I'm wrong). I am also a woman so I was considering the question from that standpoint but I do wonder if I'd answer differently if it were about a husband telling his wife.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 08:41     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:It's never really occured to me to tell him when I get hit on. There doesn't seem to be a point. Would I want to make him jealous? No. Would I want to make him appreciate that I'm still attractive? He already does.

I've told him some funny stories around being hit on, but never just to tell him I've been hit on.


I'm the immediate PP and I mean this. I wouldn't necessarily recount every scenario because some are boring, but funny stories for sure.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 08:41     Subject: Re:Would you tell your husband?
I would tell my husband because we'd find it funny. I can think of a woman I know whose husband would NOT find it funny so I doubt she'd ever tell him. Only you know your husband.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 07:48     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, because we talk about everything literally everything together.


This is how our relationship works too.

Being hit on isn’t an every day thing for me though, so it it would be a unique answer to “how was your day?”
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 07:47     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:I'll flip this. I have been told by 3 different unrelated women in the last year that my DH is 'perfect', 'sooooo gorgeous', and how 'lucky' I should feel to have such a man like I do.

One of these women was single and an across the street renter the same age as us.

Nope. I didn't tell him any of that. Why would I?


I’ve had this from two former friends early in the relationship with DH. One used to make “divide and conquer” comments with both of us around (e.g. “wow, Larlo, your driving is just so much smoother than your wife’s”) and the other literally used to make my DH cookies. Emphasis on “former.”
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 07:43     Subject: Re:Would you tell your husband?
Maybe just to remind him what a lucky guy he is!! 💋

Haha!
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 02:14     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I travel quite often for business and it requires a fair amount of customer entertaining with both men and women. While I am very good at keeping the conversation focused on business a number times I’ve been hit on by men and by one woman. I quickly decline and move on. I don’t tell my husband about what happened because no one ever got handsy or aggressive. Would you tell your husband?

Hiding things from your husband is a recipe for divorce.
The fact that you are even thinking about keeping something like this to yourself, shows that you don’t trust him. Your relationship isn’t based on trust and that’s a huge red flag.
Transparency is a must for a healthy marriage. You aren’t being transparent.
Tell him asap and come clean.
No, actually it shows that the person keeping the secrets cannot be trusted.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 22:16     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Virginia is apparently where all the action is!
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 22:16     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:I'll flip this. I have been told by 3 different unrelated women in the last year that my DH is 'perfect', 'sooooo gorgeous', and how 'lucky' I should feel to have such a man like I do.

One of these women was single and an across the street renter the same age as us.

Nope. I didn't tell him any of that. Why would I?


My neighbor has said that and yes, I told my husband. We had a good laugh over it.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 22:15     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Yes, of course. I would just as part of how my day went.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 22:08     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
Anonymous wrote:I’m a kind of well off dude in my early 50s.
I got carded until a few years ago. Great shape.

Seriously the flirting or amount of women I could have nailed during my marriage are just noise. I am happily married and, while at times ego boosting, are irrelevant.

My wife does not care, nor would I (unless she took up an offer) as if you are a successful, decent looking person it happens all the time.

You sound seriously insecure.


Similar guy here- the amount of married, workplace women that are up for grabs is pretty shocking. I'm talking white collar, DC gigs. Women with graduate degrees, husbands, kids, etc owning houses in Old Town, Del Ray, Vienna,Mclean just literally up for the taking.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 21:34     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
I’m a kind of well off dude in my early 50s.
I got carded until a few years ago. Great shape.

Seriously the flirting or amount of women I could have nailed during my marriage are just noise. I am happily married and, while at times ego boosting, are irrelevant.

My wife does not care, nor would I (unless she took up an offer) as if you are a successful, decent looking person it happens all the time.

You sound seriously insecure.
Anonymous
Post 06/14/2026 20:59     Subject: Would you tell your husband?
No.