Anonymous wrote:Remember when a guy was auditioning for American Idol and said he was saving his first kiss for his wife, and Katy kissed him on his lips?
I don't know if I'd term that sexual assault but it was horribly disrespectful of her.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People are digging up social media posts, etc. where RR says she loves KP, etc. and the posts are after the alleged SA occurred.
Keep up. Many people have come forward about incidents with Perry. Also, there are no perfect victims.
There are no perfect victims but people typically don't tweet about loving their rapist.
People stay married to their rapists and curate perfect instagram family images. Lots of other people have come forward so this isn’t just about your opinion on RR.
Anonymous wrote:Everyone who has sex these days is claiming they were assaulted.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My opinion is that we need to rethink that lower threshold of "sexual assault", and have a different name for it. I was assaulted as a young teen, and I am not comfortable with putting both petty and incredibly grave assaults under the same umbrella.
You don't have to put them under the same umbrella. There are specific terms for very severe sexual assault -- rape, incest, molestation, child sexual assault, etc. Obviously if those words don't apply to you situation, you shouldn't use them. There are also words for less grave sexual assault -- groping, exposure, etc. Use the word that applies to your situation.
However, it's worthwhile to have a general catch all term that describes all sexual assault, because there are commonalities. As someone who has worked in crisis intervention for sexual violence, being able to describe all acts with one term is very helpful -- it can offer survivors some anonymity and privacy (it is much, much easier to say "I was sexually assaulted" than to be specific, which can make it easier for a survivor to seek out support) and it can allow people who had different experiences to connect over what is similar.
So on language, we're good.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People are digging up social media posts, etc. where RR says she loves KP, etc. and the posts are after the alleged SA occurred.
Keep up. Many people have come forward about incidents with Perry. Also, there are no perfect victims.
There are no perfect victims but people typically don't tweet about loving their rapist.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know but here she is with her boyfriend (Trudeau) at Coachella this weekend. Cute.
Anonymous wrote:I find it believable
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People are digging up social media posts, etc. where RR says she loves KP, etc. and the posts are after the alleged SA occurred.
Keep up. Many people have come forward about incidents with Perry. Also, there are no perfect victims.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know but here she is with her boyfriend (Trudeau) at Coachella this weekend. Cute.
Lavender and cringe. They’re both like 50 years old.
Being 50 isn't cringe. I don't know about the lavender part but whatever.
But it’s cringe for 50 year olds to act like that.
Anonymous wrote:People are digging up social media posts, etc. where RR says she loves KP, etc. and the posts are after the alleged SA occurred.