Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Former math teacher here. Anyone who tells you that 100% in Math in 7th grade is easy don't listen to them. Its an impressive performance. I taught 7th grade at both top and public middle school before switching career to be an actuary. 100% as a final grade is not common.
Congrats to your daughter.
Disagree. It’s easy and schools often offer kids opportunities to do corrections. Any kid with math aptitude isn’t going to be in 7th grade math in 7th grade
My school district does not allow any 7th grader to take 8th grade and higher classes in 7th grade.
That’s extremely unfortunate.
I know. I went to school in Mali (West Africa). I took calculus 1 in 9th grade, in one of the poorest country in the world. By the time I came here for college I had already taken courses in calculus 1 to 3 and physics 1 and 2 and Intro to Organic chemistry. And I wasn't even an honors student. These classes I listed were standard classes.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If it’s in public school, it’s not impressive.
I went to a public school in NYC. I will disagree with your assertion about public schools
How long ago? Was it a school you had to be accepted to?
10 years ago. It was a specialized public HS for aviation in Queens. It was not super competitive, but I had a good enough education and was challenged enough to have the necessary grades and courses to be accepted to Purdue for Aerospace engineering. I graduated Purdue with a 3.6 GPA
So my experience with public school was good. I don't have kids yet so I can't judge the quality of public education in VA. But NYC wow. Even the non competitive HS are so good with an unbelievably high level of advanced courses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If it’s in public school, it’s not impressive.
I went to a public school in NYC. I will disagree with your assertion about public schools
How long ago? Was it a school you had to be accepted to?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Given that the Ivy League doesn't do merit aid, you mean the tier below. I am going to assume he either had a stellar profile, or had a hook, or both. We cannot assume that for OP's kid.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:NO.
Also, college admissions these days are CUTTHROAT and scholarships don't even begin to cover the total cost of attendance (a scholarship for a fifth of the cost is considered rare and special).
All it means is that your daughter currently has no academic problems. Is she on the fastest tracks in her school? If she isn't, she's not going to be top of the pack in high school. If there's only one track, then her school isn't up to snuff. She might still develop problems in high school if she chooses advanced/AP courses that she's not prepared for.
I say this in the context of you not having money saved for college. A kid needs to show academic achievement to earn merit aid. Merit aid is a cold calculation on the part of the college as to whether your kid is a flight risk to a rival, slightly better school. So merit aid will be achievable at colleges that are safety choices for your child - ie, less prestigious than those she could otherwise get into sans merit.
I don't know if your income will get her financial aid.
The typical in-state flagship is 30-40K a year, total cost of attendance. UMD and UVA have become VERY competitive. Many high schoolers with a 4.5 weighted GPA and AP courses and solid extra-curriculars, etc, do not get in. Community college then pipeline to 4-year college will be cheaper. She can apply to private out-of-state colleges who might give her enough merit aid to bring it down to in-state costs (because of geographic diversity, if she applies sufficiently far away).
That's the gist. You would not need to be so nitpicky about her grades if there was no financial issue. But here, you do. Also, it's not just grades that matter - choice of extra-curriculars and how personal and thoughtful the essays are, is also critical. AI can't really help with a truly personal essay (at least, not the AI of today!).
- parent of college and high school kids.
We were told the same exact thing PP. Maybe our son got lucky, but he did get merit aid at Top 15. I don't know I feel like the parents and their kids who are obsessed with Top 10 or nothing often end up disappointed. I think there is that X factor that can break in your favor if you don't discouraged from the stories of perfect kids who got rejected from every top 10.
He is an Eagle scout. And it did help because he did an amazing project.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If it’s in public school, it’s not impressive.
I went to a public school in NYC. I will disagree with your assertion about public schools
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:NO.
Also, college admissions these days are CUTTHROAT and scholarships don't even begin to cover the total cost of attendance (a scholarship for a fifth of the cost is considered rare and special).
All it means is that your daughter currently has no academic problems. Is she on the fastest tracks in her school? If she isn't, she's not going to be top of the pack in high school. If there's only one track, then her school isn't up to snuff. She might still develop problems in high school if she chooses advanced/AP courses that she's not prepared for.
I say this in the context of you not having money saved for college. A kid needs to show academic achievement to earn merit aid. Merit aid is a cold calculation on the part of the college as to whether your kid is a flight risk to a rival, slightly better school. So merit aid will be achievable at colleges that are safety choices for your child - ie, less prestigious than those she could otherwise get into sans merit.
I don't know if your income will get her financial aid.
The typical in-state flagship is 30-40K a year, total cost of attendance. UMD and UVA have become VERY competitive. Many high schoolers with a 4.5 weighted GPA and AP courses and solid extra-curriculars, etc, do not get in. Community college then pipeline to 4-year college will be cheaper. She can apply to private out-of-state colleges who might give her enough merit aid to bring it down to in-state costs (because of geographic diversity, if she applies sufficiently far away).
That's the gist. You would not need to be so nitpicky about her grades if there was no financial issue. But here, you do. Also, it's not just grades that matter - choice of extra-curriculars and how personal and thoughtful the essays are, is also critical. AI can't really help with a truly personal essay (at least, not the AI of today!).
- parent of college and high school kids.
Is income inequality in the US the reason why courses like calculus are considered advanced in HS? In many countries around the world, these courses are standard.
In many countries in the world schools are not educating every child, we do in the US. In many countries in the world, the kids attending school are the kids who are identified as smart or fit the right political/cultural profile or have the money to pay for their kid to attend school. You don’t have the same diversity of abilities in school. In the US, every child is expected to attend school and schools are expected to teach them, regardless of the child's ability or interest in being there.
Calculus is taken by something like 25% of American students. There are kids, like myself, who have learning issues who don’t make it to Calculus. I still earned a PhD in a field that didn’t require that level of math. We understand that not every child is going to be strong in every area and that is acceptable. I don’t think that same mentality exists in most countries.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:NO.
Also, college admissions these days are CUTTHROAT and scholarships don't even begin to cover the total cost of attendance (a scholarship for a fifth of the cost is considered rare and special).
All it means is that your daughter currently has no academic problems. Is she on the fastest tracks in her school? If she isn't, she's not going to be top of the pack in high school. If there's only one track, then her school isn't up to snuff. She might still develop problems in high school if she chooses advanced/AP courses that she's not prepared for.
I say this in the context of you not having money saved for college. A kid needs to show academic achievement to earn merit aid. Merit aid is a cold calculation on the part of the college as to whether your kid is a flight risk to a rival, slightly better school. So merit aid will be achievable at colleges that are safety choices for your child - ie, less prestigious than those she could otherwise get into sans merit.
I don't know if your income will get her financial aid.
The typical in-state flagship is 30-40K a year, total cost of attendance. UMD and UVA have become VERY competitive. Many high schoolers with a 4.5 weighted GPA and AP courses and solid extra-curriculars, etc, do not get in. Community college then pipeline to 4-year college will be cheaper. She can apply to private out-of-state colleges who might give her enough merit aid to bring it down to in-state costs (because of geographic diversity, if she applies sufficiently far away).
That's the gist. You would not need to be so nitpicky about her grades if there was no financial issue. But here, you do. Also, it's not just grades that matter - choice of extra-curriculars and how personal and thoughtful the essays are, is also critical. AI can't really help with a truly personal essay (at least, not the AI of today!).
- parent of college and high school kids.
Is income inequality in the US the reason why courses like calculus are considered advanced in HS? In many countries around the world, these courses are standard.
Anonymous wrote:OP encourage your daughter. Tell her how proud you are and how impressed you are. Tell her you are her biggest fan. And watch her stay consistent. Dads can really make or break their daughters.
Anonymous wrote:If it’s in public school, it’s not impressive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have four kids. All four had straight As in 7th grade. One of the four barely graduated high school.
Let me guess he is a boy lol