Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Parents need to get off their phones and get their kids to the libraries and read to their kids. Like, every week. Takes out books and bring them home, and read every single night. Boom, kids will start reading.
Dh and I were both gifted and I don’t think my kids are dumb, but none learned by osmosis. I read at a minimum 30 min a day to my kids. Halfway through K my oldest hadn’t learned to read so I bought phonics books and she picked it up instantly. Shocking! After finally being explicitly taught, she got it.
By 4th grade I realized my kids weren’t reading to themselves and enforced mandatory reading time at home. I also bought any book of any genre that they wanted. They all are big readers now.
I don’t understand why school isn’t working for kids anymore but it’s just not.
Yes, that was exactly our experience. Just reading to kids doesn't work for all kids! I did everything that other parents and teachers told us to do. We read to our kid every single night... basically from birth. We practiced reading every night in kindergarten with the leveled books that were sent home and continued with bedtime reading and library trips. I trusted our non-FARMS, upper middle class public to teach phonics and reading. If my crappy public elementary managed to make a reader out of me back in the 90s, our well-funded public could teach my kid to read and write, right? I also trusted our home environment - we have hundreds of books, we model reading ourselves, and I am a former middle school English teacher and have an MA in English Lit.
Fall of 1st grade, I realized that DS wasn't reading. He was memorizing and guessing. He was being taught to guess, using three-cueing! I perused DCUM, purchased a phonics based reading system, and over a couple of month, DS learned to read. In 2nd grade, I realized that DS had no idea how to write or spell. Handwriting was awful. He had been taught a bunch of BS terms like "metacognition" and "schema," but had no idea what a noun or verb was, and couldn't answer basic plot questions on paper. So.... we fixed all of this, but only because I was paying attention and because I had the means (money, education, and motivation) to be able to do it.
I think all the PPs are correct. It is Lucy Calkins AND also EdTech. Luckily for us/unfortunately for the rest, the 40% is mostly the kids you would expect. Low income, inner city, parents who do not read or have books at home. The rest of us are supplementing at home, hiring tutors, and sending kids to centers, so they are still testing at grade level or above. This is an open secret I didn't know about until 2nd grade.