I gave my co-worker a ride home once. He had dropped a condom between the seat and the door. I saw it days later when I opened passenger door.
Had my partner found it, I would have been dead. I stopped giving rides.
Single now and give everyone a ride if they live nearby.
OP, you come across as a control freak. I'm afraid of you.

Do you always lock your car at night?

lol this isn’t real. If you found just a piece of a wrapper, how would you even know it’s a condom wrapper at that? If I find a piece of trash in my car, I just toss it. I don’t sit there and inspect it lol. Your first instinct was to go through her phone? As if a used condom wrapper was not enough…. Most 50 year olds that cheat aren’t using a condom so be happy that she used one. Also, it’s proof that women still want sex in their 50’s. We are not always the ones with the problems….

Anonymous wrote:I think if she was stepping out, you would not have been able to easily access her devices.

+1 million

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

+1. Not trying to break a hip at 50.

Lol!

How big of a piece?
Do you carpool kids? 11 is not too young to be condom curious. A ,kid could have gotten hold of one at home and brought it to show.

When was the last time you valet parked th car? Also, do you leave it outside and unlocked at night?

I think if she was stepping out, you would not have been able to easily access her devices.

Anonymous wrote:I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

+1. Not trying to break a hip at 50.

Anonymous wrote:And it isn't mine (53 yo married father of 1).

My wife and I routinely trade cars. Our daughter is 11.

Literally no one else has access to our vehicles.

When she was in the shower this morning I searchd her phone- texts for keywords, FB and IG messages, location history etc and came up with nothing.

Is there:
A- any explanation where she isn't cheating?
B. Anything else I should have searched?

Where in the car was it. How big of a piece?

maybe it just looks like a condom wrapper but its something else?

Anonymous wrote:What is a “piece of a condom wrapper”?

Condoms come in a foil pack. You either tear it from the top and the whole thing remains intact, or if you rip a piece off, it’s the sliver or corner at the top, and would not be recognizable as such.

I think there’s more to this story but I can’t imagine what. Agree with OP being said wrapper owner and potentially crowd sourcing answers.

If OP is crowdsourcing answers, the spouse has already seen OP's face.

The corner can tell you what it is. Especially if it's the brand used at home.

Anonymous wrote:You, your wife or your child stepped on it and brought it into the car. It's happened to me. It's even more likely if it's just a piece of the wrapper, and not the entire thing.

I wouldn't worry, if I were you.

+1

I’m pretty adventurous but at 50 I wouldn’t do any f’ing in a car. Unlikely she’s up to something and if she were she’d probably be smart enough to make sure she threw everything away.

What is a “piece of a condom wrapper”?

Condoms come in a foil pack. You either tear it from the top and the whole thing remains intact, or if you rip a piece off, it’s the sliver or corner at the top, and would not be recognizable as such.

I think there’s more to this story but I can’t imagine what. Agree with OP being said wrapper owner and potentially crowd sourcing answers.