Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 14:08     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:Why would you still be with a man who cheats to even be in a position to consider such a poor choice?


Maybe she's trying to trap him.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 14:07     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

God no. How is this even a question?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 14:03     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hell to the no. I’d rather get an anonymous sperm donor.



Yes that's another option but ivf is expensive.

You don’t necessarily need to do IVF. A sperm donor’s sperm can be implanted into the uterus (aka IUI)
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 14:00     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anyone who would is a very shitty and self centered person, not fit to be a parent.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 12:49     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

1) is he smart?
2) does he have money (child support)
3) is he attractive and healthy?

3 yesses? then yes, and assume it will be a sperm donation.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 12:43     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:If it was your last chance and you were older?


Adopt. Foster.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 11:33     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Women do like to turn a blind eye even when faced with irrefutable evidence that their bud/husband is a cheater.

Join their club OP.

Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 11:31     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

No. You will need to be in contact with this person for at least 18 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 11:28     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:Random guy from a bar is horribly unethical, PP. Kids go looking for their parents. Suppose that guy's later family is upset by appearance of half-sibling unknown to dad. R/npe is full of trauma of this type.


Bro shouldn't be sticking it in unwrapped if he doesn't want this "unethical" example. Men have near 100% agency to not sire kids. Get snipped, bag it, done.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 17:23     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If it was your last chance and you were older?


Yes,

I would, especially if he had significant resources and/or good genetics (tall, handsome, smart, addiction free, no mental health issues.)



This is stupid. They’ll pay CS based on state formula not based on their assets . You can find a healthy young donor at IVF center
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 16:56     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

No way
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 16:53     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Anonymous wrote:If it was your last chance and you were older?


Yes,

I would, especially if he had significant resources and/or good genetics (tall, handsome, smart, addiction free, no mental health issues.)

Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 12:37     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Only if you don’t mind him cheating on you?
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 12:33     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Random guy from a bar is horribly unethical, PP. Kids go looking for their parents. Suppose that guy's later family is upset by appearance of half-sibling unknown to dad. R/npe is full of trauma of this type.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 12:25     Subject: Would you have a baby with a man who cheats?

Yes if he has good genes. But have him sign off on parental rights. He’d be a sperm donor.