Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 11:43     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
A fling is one thing. But a genuine partner is different, and that’s mostly found among people who are roughly the same generation - within 10 years .
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 11:30     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as a hot older woman

Not every older woman looks her age. Quite frankly I have seen some younger women who look 10+ years older.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 14:35     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
They go hotter. But only up to a year or two older than themselves.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 14:04     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Would most 29 year old men date an 18 year old?
Settle a debate.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 14:01     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:It would be better to go for whole person, instead of going for categories of age, looks, intellect, character, etc.


Unfortunately that's not how sexual attraction works. A lot of women are attracted to more aggressive, assertive males with dominant qualities, who are great sex partners but not fit or even abusive long term partners.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 11:08     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
It would be better to go for whole person, instead of going for categories of age, looks, intellect, character, etc.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 11:06     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Perimenopause hits in late thirties.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 11:04     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What I'm seeing among men in my small sample of girlfriends is that many seem to prioritize looking younger, not necessarily being younger. The very young looking women in their 40s who are average otherwise get a lot of. attention. A really pretty friend who looks her age gets less attention.


Usually really pretty women maintain youthful looks well into 60s. Can you provide an example of a really pretty actress who looks old and still pretty ?


Brooke Shields, Alicia Silverstone


They are both heavyweight so no, the changes in their bodies as they aged place them in "not attractive" category for me as bisexual person. I only like thin and don't find either beautiful in older age. Alicia was cute but not really that pretty when young.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:57     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Paulina
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:50     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What I'm seeing among men in my small sample of girlfriends is that many seem to prioritize looking younger, not necessarily being younger. The very young looking women in their 40s who are average otherwise get a lot of. attention. A really pretty friend who looks her age gets less attention.


Usually really pretty women maintain youthful looks well into 60s. Can you provide an example of a really pretty actress who looks old and still pretty ?


Brooke Shields, Alicia Silverstone
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:39     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What I'm seeing among men in my small sample of girlfriends is that many seem to prioritize looking younger, not necessarily being younger. The very young looking women in their 40s who are average otherwise get a lot of. attention. A really pretty friend who looks her age gets less attention.


Usually really pretty women maintain youthful looks well into 60s. Can you provide an example of a really pretty actress who looks old and still pretty ?


not PP but actresses are paid to look good, they follow different rules. I know a bunch of beautiful women in RL who look their age.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:23     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Why would anyone man seriously date a bi 40+ woman
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:19     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:At 48 I'm dating the most beautiful woman I've been with and she's 25. FWIW, she is much more attractive now than she was at 20.


Then it’s not about you. It’s about the type Larry Ellison married - Jolin Zhu, as an example. She’s not ugly, just average looking. He’s a billionaire and could pick an older but much prettier woman
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 10:07     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
At 48 I'm dating the most beautiful woman I've been with and she's 25. FWIW, she is much more attractive now than she was at 20.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2026 09:58     Subject: Younger or prettier ?
Anonymous wrote:What I'm seeing among men in my small sample of girlfriends is that many seem to prioritize looking younger, not necessarily being younger. The very young looking women in their 40s who are average otherwise get a lot of. attention. A really pretty friend who looks her age gets less attention.


Usually really pretty women maintain youthful looks well into 60s. Can you provide an example of a really pretty actress who looks old and still pretty ?