my ex is with someone less attractive. I am grateful to her for taking him off my hands and keeping him occupied so he doesn't bother me while I get on with raising our kid.

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Anonymous wrote:My ex H would probably say that I ended up with someone less attractive but hes smarter, infinitely more emotionally intelligent, adventurous, kind, safe, stable, best sex I've ever had, funny, and makes over 40x what my ex did. And I am happy as a f---ing clam.

Next time a woman tells you she doesn't care about how much you make she is lying to you

I've never met a woman who would even claim that she does not care about theguy's income.

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Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

NP woman here. Yes, women who want to spend time at home with their partner do exist, plenty.

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And with women if you have the right words they will fall for you just like that. I am not saying women don't care about look. They do. But they are more likely to compromise on look if you are crazy about them and make them feel like the most important woman in the world

So true! Women are pathetic and starved for love. Guys, if you only knew how easy it is to get them.

Signed, a women guilty of the above

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Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

They don't exist. Try to meet a boring-ish woman half way.

Anonymous wrote:I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

What do mean by passion? Maybe I lack it and that's why I'm single. I'm a homebody guy and women always want to do stuff. I just want another boring woman like me. Do they exist?

I find myself going for what was missing in my last relationship. I think a lot of my friends do that too. My previous BF was a very grownup dude but we had no passion. Like at all. Current BF is a bit of a feral man child but we have passion for days. At some point I'll find someone in the middle. Maybe this guy is your opposite in good ways.

I don't think women care about look. At least judging from the men they choose to marry a lot clearly don:t care about looks.

My ex married someone more attractive. But 2 years later divorced a second time. I think she was embarrassed cause she tried to keep it as a secret still wearing her ring etc.

Anonymous wrote:My ex H would probably say that I ended up with someone less attractive but hes smarter, infinitely more emotionally intelligent, adventurous, kind, safe, stable, best sex I've ever had, funny, and makes over 40x what my ex did. And I am happy as a f---ing clam.

Next time a woman tells you she doesn't care about how much you make she is lying to you

My ex married someone less attractive, but they are a perfect match and both are nice.
I married someone more attractive and much more successful. We are very happy.
Looks aren’t everything though.

My mom married someone less attractive and less accomplished who is kinder and more doting. My dad married someone equally attractive but who is much more into beauty upkeep stuff (gets her hair and nails done, more fashionable, wears makeup often vs my mom who I’m not even sure own makeup and is not interested in these things)

Both are happy. I think my mom really wanted more attention and affection and, though my dad would never say it, he cares more about outside appearances and having a specific “look” as a couple. Plus, step mom is fun and upbeat and enjoys creating and maintaining a social life for them.

My ex H would probably say that I ended up with someone less attractive but hes smarter, infinitely more emotionally intelligent, adventurous, kind, safe, stable, best sex I've ever had, funny, and makes over 40x what my ex did. And I am happy as a f---ing clam.

Maybe he’s kinder than you. Maybe he has more money than you. Maybe he’s more emotionally intelligent than you. Maybe he’s better in bed than you.

But it sounds like you have more hair and fewer wrinkles. So congrats, I guess.

Yes, but I don't care. She is younger, hotter, prettier. She can have him.