Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 05:54     Subject: Holiday gifts for new step nieces?

How often will you see these kids? If you will be seeing them often and form a relationship with them, gifts are appropriate. If you might see them every couple of years at a wedding/funeral, I probably would not.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 03:02     Subject: Holiday gifts for new step nieces?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you send birthday gifts to your niece? They will then expect you to send them gifts on their birthdays. Don't get on this gift train unless it is your love language.


Love language is a bit overhyped.


If you don't enjoy shopping, wrapping and mailing gifts, don't start giving gifts to people who don't expect it.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2025 13:40     Subject: Holiday gifts for new step nieces?

Anonymous wrote:Do you send birthday gifts to your niece? They will then expect you to send them gifts on their birthdays. Don't get on this gift train unless it is your love language.


Love language is a bit overhyped.